HELP!!!, drugs.. |
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 Aug 8 2004, 08:57 PM
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[s.T.e.P.h]  Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,338  |
my best friend she does drugs..i dont want her to..i dont know how to ask her to stop..PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE....!!!!
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Aug 8 2004, 09:01 PM
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it's like in those anti-drug commercials or whatever. just sit her down and say "look. we really need to talk..." and then tell her that your really worried about her and it's scary that she does drugs and you would really like her to stop, etc etc etc.
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Aug 8 2004, 09:03 PM
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what drugs does she do? How long has she been doing it/them? and how old is she?
just wondering on what approach to take... |
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Aug 8 2004, 09:05 PM
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Sit her down and talk to her. Tell her that she's putting her life in danger.
If she refuses to quit, then tell her parents. |
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Aug 8 2004, 09:07 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah. I agree with xsweetdreams12x.
Talk to her.. in a SERIOUS mode. No smiling, no giggling.. nothing like that. Make sure she KNOWS this is very, very serious. |
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Aug 8 2004, 09:10 PM
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same!
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Aug 8 2004, 09:17 PM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
Just talk tooh her. N if things don't work out den wat kind of friend is dat.N yea u guyz might disagree on things but atleast ur telling her wat is right and doing something that will help her. People who don't say n e thing to dea friends is people who will neva have a best friend. But atleast i no that it might haunt her mind. But ya just gotta tell her how u feel. Cause lemme tell ya diz Friends always last foreva. Dey don't have all dem happy times 24/7. Dea is sumtimes wea a friend feels a different way and you just need tah talk to em. Cause if u don't this mad feeling is going to haunt you. When u go to sleep and wen ur in skoo. U just need to say sumthing before something happens to ur friend. Cuase if ya Love her/him den dat person would respect ur opion if datz ur friend. If not then that's alright. DOn't worry even if u talk to ur friend and tell them to stop they might get mad and say like u anit da boss of mee n stuff like dat. But things will clear up. Ur friend will come back and say sorrry and dat u were right. Or maybe not. If not that's not a friend u should hang around wit. But my bottom line is u should talk to that person because it's that fact that it's coming from ur friendly heart...
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Aug 8 2004, 09:30 PM
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 SoMehOw iT sEeMs CoLdeR nOw.. Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,718 |
u kno.. i have friends that do drugs, heck i've even been known to do em.. you cant just sit em down n be like "hey we gotta talk" cuz most likely if you talk to em like that they're gonna get defensive & not listen. u gotta treat em like an equal, dont make it such a tense situation cuz neither one of you will be comfortable.
write a note or talk to em in person.. jus be like "i kno you do drugs.. why? whats so great about it that you keep doing it?" try to see it from ur friends point of view and go from there. good luck |
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Aug 8 2004, 09:36 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
show her the people that are already on drugs and see whath appened to them, let her see what drugs will do to u emotionally, mentally, and physically and if she doesnt listen, tell her not to regret if shes gonna continue
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Aug 8 2004, 09:41 PM
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Wow, you should just talk to her and tell her that she should stop and how it'd affect everyone that loves her. She'll listen eventually if she truly cares
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Aug 8 2004, 09:45 PM
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[s.T.e.P.h] Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,338 |
QUOTE(sweetx305 @ Aug 8 2004, 9:03 PM) what drugs does she do? How long has she been doing it/them? and how old is she? just wondering on what approach to take... shes only 14 and idk how long shes been doing them..she hasnt told me that she did them..her friend told me..idk what she does.. |
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Aug 8 2004, 10:00 PM
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let her know what can happen to her if she continutes and you should try stopping her before she gets addicted
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Aug 8 2004, 10:10 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
write her a note or an email so it's not so awkward
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Aug 11 2004, 05:15 AM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
yea..if you don't like confrontation, then write her a note...otherwise just tell her what's on your mind..good luck
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Aug 11 2004, 01:14 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
tell her... have u never seen those commercials on TV on how friendship is an antidrug?!? geez. tell her to stop.
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Aug 11 2004, 01:21 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
dont just tell her to stop talk about the conciquences and tell her how mush ull miss her if the conciquences happen i had a frend who came 2 skool drunk and all high it worked wen i told her about shiit so do the sme
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