boyfriends piss me off sometimes or am i just wrong?, hanging out with guy friends a bad thing? |
 Aug 23 2007, 07:24 PM
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So two of my guy friends came over to my house and one of my girl friends. We ended up having this HUGE sharpie fight and like my best guy friend licked my eye because I guess it shows true friendship and he thought it'd be funny and of course I thought nothing of both those things because I knew all of us were just FRIENDS.
Well ever since that happened my boyfriend has either yelled at me to the point of me crying or just snapped at random moments. Like once we were completely getting along finally after like 3 days since it happened and we were just messing around and I told him I was going to chop his face off and feed his eyes to his kittens [kiddingly of course] and then I asked "Wait are eyes even part of your face?" and he goes "Yea, which is why you shouldn't let other guys lick them" and I thought that was ridiculous because its an eyeball. Am I wrong? I know thats long but still. |
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Aug 23 2007, 08:29 PM
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If he yells at you, thats not a good sign.
Trust me, yelling just makes things worse. |
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| *Michelle* |
Aug 23 2007, 09:19 PM
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*shrug
I guess I'd feel kind of weird if some girl licked my boyfriend's eyeball. |
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Aug 23 2007, 09:21 PM
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i dont like it in general when im licked. i wouldnt even want another girl not in my boyfriend's family to touch him in a moreso personal way(lickin would be pretty personal) so id understand why he'll be mad but now he's just holding a grudge so go talk to him..
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| *Moderator* |
Aug 23 2007, 09:25 PM
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Let's move this to the Relationships forum so everyone else can answer.
--> Relationships ___________________________ Maybe he saw it as a sign of flirtation.  You just have to talk to him about it and reassure him that you two are just friends and thats all. Its normal to be jealous, but if hes snapping at you and making you feel bad for it, you guys need to talk.
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Aug 23 2007, 10:51 PM
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Talk, talk, talk. That's what you should do.
I'd feel kinda weirded out if someone liked my boyfriend's eyeball. Wouldn't that hurt?? |
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Aug 24 2007, 02:21 AM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
That eyeball thing's pretty weird. But then again I'd get mad if another guy was licking anything on my girlfriend.
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Aug 24 2007, 06:58 AM
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ummmm. If I'm the bf I would be mad too. Specially if I know that the one who licked you is your best guy friend. We all think differently.In my opinion, I'll be thinking why do you need a best guy friend in the first place. I have the tendency to compare myself with anybody close to you to see how special I am. So by now I would be thinking... that I'm your best friend but with special treatment? dunno. disregard what I said, it's just my opinion.
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| *Steven* |
Aug 24 2007, 08:38 AM
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QUOTE(JustinSezRAWR @ Aug 24 2007, 02:21 AM)  That eyeball thing's pretty weird. But then again I'd get mad if another guy was licking anything on my girlfriend. Fact. |
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Aug 24 2007, 09:14 AM
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it's kind of weird when the guy complains the majority agrees with him, but when a girl complains, she's just being a jealous bitch ;o.
i durno, you and your bf have to sort out what you both would be comfortable with. set the parameters so you know what would hurt his feelings and whatnot. then, i guess, try to respect them? i'm sure you don't hurt him intentionally, but some people are just sensitive about certain things like that. |
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Aug 24 2007, 09:18 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(JustinSezRAWR @ Aug 24 2007, 03:21 AM) That eyeball thing's pretty weird. But then again I'd get mad if another Agreed. You need to talk to him, tell it was just for friendship, not anything else. If he contunutes yelling at you and making you feel bad, break up with him. |
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Aug 24 2007, 09:18 AM
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 I am not afraid, I was born for this. Group: Official Member Posts: 805 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,063 |
Well i had the same situation.
but really he shouldn't lick your eye. maybe your arm? or something lol. IDK, hahahaa, but i know my BF got mad everytime my bestfriend n me hugged( he was a boy..) ah, well, be careful girl, because he started gettin' pissed off, then yelling, then not talking to me, then he became abusive and he hit me all the time, i finally got out of th erelationship 1 year ago, and i'm fine. be careful hunnn |
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Aug 24 2007, 07:46 PM
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FLIRTING IS A CRIME NOW-A-DAYS
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Aug 25 2007, 08:05 AM
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lol if I was your bf I'll let other girls lick me lmao.
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Aug 25 2007, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Aug 25 2007, 10:16 AM) Eye-licking is just extremely weird. I don't necessarily see it as flirting..more like gross and unsanitary. Anyway, if it hurts him/offends him you should respect that. When has flirting with someone else when you are in a relationship been socially acceptable? eh, there are/were a couple of threads here in the past that dealt with the issue of "flirting" while in a relationship, and i find it funny that when the guy flirts with a friend the jealous girlfriend is harshly criticized. |
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Aug 26 2007, 01:07 AM
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^yet another double standard
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Aug 26 2007, 01:50 PM
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I dont think it was FLIRTING because I'm very dedicated and loyal to my boyfriend. & Just the way he is.. he spends the night at other girl's houses and i dont get THAT mad but a guy licks my eyeball and i get yelled at for like 4 days straight and told how stupid and retarded i am.
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Aug 26 2007, 02:03 PM
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QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Aug 23 2007, 09:29 PM) If he yells at you, thats not a good sign. Trust me, yelling just makes things worse. You're an idiot. Yelling gets your point across. GEEZ.  |
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Sep 4 2007, 09:58 PM
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QUOTE I dont think it was FLIRTING because I'm very dedicated and loyal to my boyfriend. & Just the way he is.. he spends the night at other girl's houses and i dont get THAT mad but a guy licks my eyeball and i get yelled at for like 4 days straight and told how stupid and retarded i am. Either your really trustworthy or insane. I wouldnt want my bf going to another girls house unless I knew her really well. Your boyfriend sounds controlling. You take a lot of shit from him, but he probably gets away with things that your afraid to being up with him since he'll yell at you. Your not recieving good treatment from him dear |
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| *Programmer* |
Sep 4 2007, 10:07 PM
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you're weird.
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 5 2007, 08:02 AM
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QUOTE(JustinSezRAWR @ Aug 24 2007, 03:21 AM) That eyeball thing's pretty weird. But then again I'd get mad if another guy was licking anything on my girlfriend. Yeah seriously, Technically you didn't do anything wrong, but I wouldn't be happy if some dude was licking my girlfriends face. It would piss me off. I guess you didn't think much of it, but you have to respect his boundaries as well as your own. I just think that letting some guy lick your face was crossing the line in his mind. I agree with him. I wouldn't want some guy licking my girls face either. It's not wrong, I don't know exactly why, but to me it's crossing the line. I also don't like it when another guy touches my girlfriend's leg, I know why I don't like that one though. Does he touch or let the girls touch him... maybe he wouldn't have a problem with you spending the night at another guys house. He probably would now though... |
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Sep 10 2007, 07:17 PM
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he licked...your eyes...a boy licked your eyes....do you know how wierd that sounds...who lickes their friends eyes...just WOW how would you eaven do that did he just grab your head and start licking your eyes...your wired
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Sep 11 2007, 08:55 PM
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Its a true sign of friendship in some way I guess. Though that guy isn't my friend anymore. Long story short: i got fed up with his shit. :/
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| *Michelle* |
Sep 11 2007, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(katelynlingenfelter @ Sep 11 2007, 08:55 PM) Its a true sign of friendship in some way I guess. Though that guy isn't my friend anymore. Long story short: i got fed up with his shit. :/ Haha, that's ironic ^_^" |
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Sep 11 2007, 09:00 PM
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Lol! i know. the cool thing is that after i wasnt friends with him anymore things not only with my boyfriend got better but with my friends that hated him got better and im a lot happier. i'm glad he's out of my life whether it was a true sign of friendship or not. :D
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