erm, advice please?, its about you know...guys |
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 Aug 4 2004, 05:53 PM
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well, i am volunteering at the library this summer. i met a guy who also volunteers there and we became friends. so, then he started to work there, but he had to work downstairs. everytime he has a break he come upstairs where i work. at first it didn't seem like anything and like it was a friend thing but then he started to wait for me so we could take the train together. so now everyone is saying that he likes me and stuff but i think that he's just being a good friend, what do you guys think?
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Aug 4 2004, 06:11 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless  Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Friends don't let friends get hit by trains.
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Aug 4 2004, 06:15 PM
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uhh comrade red is always a little weird.
do you want to be more than friends? if not, don't worry about it. i think if he was really into you he'd ask you out to lunch or something after ya'll are done at the library but *shrug* thats just me |
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Aug 4 2004, 06:18 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Friends don't let friends get eaten for lunch, either.
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Aug 4 2004, 07:38 PM
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Well my advice is not to listen to what other people say... If you like this guy then go for it, make the first move because he might be just as shy as you. If not, don't worry about it and just enjoy beign friends
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Aug 4 2004, 09:56 PM
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Uhh..you can't rellie tell from wat you told us. maybe he's just being friendly..maybe not..
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Aug 4 2004, 09:56 PM
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He might like you, but then again, maybe he just wants to be better friends with you.
If YOU like him, then go for him bc he could like you back. If you DONT, then just leave things how they are and ignore what other people think. |
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Aug 5 2004, 12:36 AM
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don't listen to what other people say unless if they have solid proof, like they swear the words "i like my coworker (you)" came out of his mouth or something... hehe.
anyways, I think at this point, he just wants to get to know you better. I mean, since you guys are working together, it'd be cool if you became good friends to make work seem less boring. wait a while and see what he does next. maybe he'll invite you to a movie after work, and then his feelings will become more clear. |
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Aug 5 2004, 01:17 AM
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yeah i agree w/ everyone who said "don't listen to what other ppl think"..i mean..u should follow ur own heart..if you like this guy..i say try to take things one step further..and if not..then just be friends for now..i think he's just doing friendly things..a very loyal and good friend does..so for now..if you don't like him..stay friends..hope this helped! good luck!!
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Aug 5 2004, 09:30 AM
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*tries to think*,hmm,*gives up*.....we cant really tell frm what u've told us buh if U like him,seaze ur chance...ask him out.....*seems pleased*.....wuz that clear??
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Aug 5 2004, 03:02 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
does it matter if he likes u or not?? do u like him back??? well if i were u i would wait a while and get to knoe him better and hang out wit him and see how things go from there
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Aug 5 2004, 04:34 PM
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If you wanna stay friends, don't worry about it and just hang out like you usually do. If you really like him, ask him out and see what he says. It'd be good to know if you were reading his signs wrong or right all along.
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Aug 6 2004, 05:03 AM
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 ~Kind Soul~ Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,856 |
Well I have a friend of mine that is a girl and I do simular things. He probbly is just being a good friend but he also has probbly had thoughts about the 2 of you being together atleast once.
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Aug 6 2004, 08:16 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
maybe hes just being a nice friend, or maybe hes just tryin to be a nice friend so he would feel more comfortable opening up to you ;) ? hes pulling the friends card!! or not. Anywho if you like this guy go for it becase this world has changed, u dont gotta wait for the guy to make the first move. like nike says.... "JUST DO IT"
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Aug 6 2004, 04:59 PM
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he likes you
 if ur into him totally go for!!  at least you know hes genuine... 
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Aug 6 2004, 05:04 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Lurk in the shadows in a while, like great Siberian hunter!
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Aug 6 2004, 05:23 PM
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[COLOR=purple]He could actually like you.... GO FOR IT!
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Aug 7 2004, 02:53 AM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
i think he lyks u!
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Aug 7 2004, 03:03 PM
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do u think he likes you? don't listen to wat other pplz say. he could just be a good friend or he could like you. ask him if he likes you.
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Aug 7 2004, 03:44 PM
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QUOTE Well my advice is not to listen to what other people say... If you like this guy then go for it, make the first move because he might be just as shy as you. If not, don't worry about it and just enjoy beign friends i agree w/ that....in my opinion, he would've asked ya out already if he liked ya but most guys r always shy to make the first move cuz he's probably confused if u like him or not jus like ur confused about how he feels about u....there's nothing wrong w/ making the first move...but give it jus a little bit more time when there's another clue that he might like ya...and then think about whether u wanna make the move... |
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Aug 8 2004, 08:26 PM
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can't really tell at this point...y don't u jus wait until he makes a move...if he duzn't then he duzn't like u....mayb he iz jus trying to b better friendz w/ u...either that or he's leading ya on
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Aug 8 2004, 08:58 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
my guy friends at work act like that all the time. you cant base it on only those actions. you have to look at his body language..does he touch your arm when he talks to you? subtle things like that. if you talk to him outside of work, maybe it will become more clear.
*danielle |
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