The guy i met......., help me out plz |
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 Aug 6 2004, 05:19 AM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
I met this guy ova the comp and he lives in the uk and i live in the us but now i'm in poland and only problem is that i don't no if i should take the relationship seriously or just for fun cus i love him but seriously is just 1 guy should i have a bf in person and have him on the side or just have him as my only one and take it as a real relationship
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Aug 6 2004, 08:20 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
Just for fun, be friends with this guy. Have you ever even met him? Is there a chance you ever will? Doesn't sound like it. Get a bf in person.
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Aug 6 2004, 08:26 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
i really think you should just be friends with him. and if you feel comfortable enough then meet him. cuz if you have a relationship with someone you havent met in person then when you DO meet those feelings could change. so i think you should just be friends with him right now.
 jackie
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Aug 6 2004, 08:42 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
How long have you known this guy? If you really wanna take things seriously then you should just meet up with him.. so then you won't have to say that he's an internet boyfriend anymore. But yeah.
Think about it though. Do you REALLY love him enough? |
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Aug 6 2004, 08:53 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,074 |
yea have u seen this guy in person? how can u say that u love him from an online relationship?? Lastly, how far is the UK from Poland? sorry hun, don't think it's gonna work out.
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Aug 6 2004, 11:34 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Be careful about internet relationships.
Keep it just for fun, and find a boyfriend in your local area. It'll be better since you can actually hang out with him whenever you want. 
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Aug 6 2004, 12:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
I say stay friends.
I mean, for one thing, you already have a real boyfriend. And plus, you've never even met this guy in real life, so are you sure you love him? It's easy to act differently online than in reality. Just be careful. |
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Aug 6 2004, 05:43 PM
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That situation is quite retarded.
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Aug 6 2004, 05:51 PM
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QUOTE(theoneandonly_SC @ Aug 6 2004, 3:43 PM) That situation is quite retarded. Like yours is any better.  I say meet him, have a one-night stand, and leave. Meh. Atleast you got to score. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Aug 6 2004, 05:52 PM
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 Your mom dresses you funny Group: Member Posts: 383 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,812 |
ahah ya i agree with jose
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Aug 6 2004, 06:19 PM
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My name is Jason, not imafreakinazn D: Group: Member Posts: 2,008 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,432 |
QUOTE I say meet him, have a one-night stand, and leave. Meh. Atleast you got to score. dude, that is totally not the right thing. have you seen the dude? for all you know, he could like be gay or be a girl or something. if you really feel that sure that you want to meet him, then go ahead. juss don't try to hunt him down. try to set up a meeting place like at a coffee shop and talk to him. but you do wut you want. |
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Aug 6 2004, 07:36 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I dont think u can love someone if u just met them over the internet...get a bf in person.
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Aug 6 2004, 07:48 PM
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 Dreaming of You... Group: Member Posts: 508 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,205 |
in person would work perfectly... b/c then you can feel comfortable and secure. the internet person could be cheatin on you or something....
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Aug 6 2004, 07:51 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(f00LisH_h3aRt63 @ Aug 6 2004, 8:26 AM) i really think you should just be friends with him. and if you feel comfortable enough then meet him. cuz if you have a relationship with someone you havent met in person then when you DO meet those feelings could change. so i think you should just be friends with him right now. jackietotally agree with jackie. he could just be a perv. seriously. or some 50 year old hairy man. 
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Aug 6 2004, 09:32 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
if u can question like that, then it means u dont really need to be wit him.. jus be friends wit him. friendship lasts longer than relationships
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Aug 7 2004, 02:52 AM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
i really think u shud just b friendz with him. no matter how nice a guy soundz ONLINE he may b different in real life.
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