telling a guy u like them, approaching them Options

[sunissed14127]

im a shy person when it comes to telling people u like them....well ive liked some1 for 1 yr and im thinking about telling him,but i dont have the guts to.what r some ways to approach him?

[ghjgfkgfk]

just don't get your hopes up.
think for the worst, that way if the worst happens, you won't feel as bad because you knew it was coming.

[SarahxJoy]

I think maybe you could do it in a note? Like, a secret admirer. But then again, being there in person is always much better. Maybe you could gather some courage and start flirting with him. Or just pass a few glances at him before tellin' him how you feel. Drop him a few hints to set up the stage in telling him how you feel.

[xsweetdreams12x]

I've told a guy I liked them 2 times.

The 1st time it was on AIM... didn't turn out too well. The guy got all pissed...
The 2nd time it was in a note that said, "YOU." He kept asking me who I liked so I asked him if he still wanted to know so then I gave him a paper. Didn't turn out too well, either...

[pbear]

Tell him in person.
If you can't do that, like me, write them something and give it to them or walk it over to their house.

[mai_z]

as nike says.... Just Do It ..... what's the worst that can happen....he says no?

[POonSKi]

um.... i've never done anything like this yet.. but why not try to have a friend of u tell him.

[x AZN D0RKii x]

um.... i've never done anything like this yet.. but why not try to have a friend of u tell him.

but what if the guy ends up liking her friend .. unless if its a guy lol ..

just say it !! or at least give hints

[happy endings]

i think you should write him a note..or if you're courageous, just tell him. if you don't you'll regret NOT telling him. so..GOOD LUCK!

[enticing.]

i think you should just be straight out with him. however, i'm not sure how it might turn out because whenever i liked a guy, they always found out without me saying anything.

[True_Love]

first if ur a dare devil. **means u have to do the dare** tell ur friend to dare u. and if not...i am a shy person so..lyk
1: ask the guy if he had a minute and tell him that u lyk him..
2: send him a love note.
3: e-mail..
i have my bf cuz he asked me if i lyked him...he kept bugging me and i said yes....and he lyked me too.
well good luck!

[squisheebananas]

ive told a guy i liked him. it was through email. he was okay with it. after that we kept communicating through email cause of the summer, but he didnt say he liked me back.. and im ok with that

[cutey2kc]

u should really give him hints..like flirt with him..help him out with anything he's havin trouble with..be his friend...and if he still doesn't get it..ask a friend to tell him..i think that's the best way .. and...if he says he doesn't like you..which i think not!! .. he isn't worth anything to get sad about..just move on..don't think about him..he's slime..he's dirt..he's not worth ur time..haha..sorry..if im bein to harsh..but that's the way you'll feel if he says he doesn like you..and trust me..there are guys out there who will love you! just stay confident in yourself and maybe if u hav enough courage..go up to him when he's all alone..and say "can i talk to you?" then ya say "i just wanted to say..that i've liked you for a year..and..i wanna kno..if you like me too?" then there ya go hehe..but i say go w/ the friend thing..hope this helped! good luck!!