i can't get over a guy., blah.... >_> Options

[lisaaaaaaa]

ok, so i've liked this guy for 3 years. since 4th grade. and now i'm going to 7th grade, so its gonna be my first year in middle school. i just can't seem to get over him! he's kinda a player....(i know....we're kinda young but relationships started happening around 5th grade) he dates one girl, like 2 months later or 3, depends on how serious the relationship is. (now breaking into a story...) in october, he actually asked me out...and i was soooooo happy. but i mean, it was my first boyfriend so i was really shy and all....and i basically never talked to him. and then came outdoor school, so i always hung out wiff my friends but not him, and i didn't even say hi. so after outdoor school i called him and i asked if it was over...and he said yeah, so it was all my fault and i totallllllly regret it. and now whenever he gets a new g/f i feel sooooooo terrible, and usually he dates one of my friends, so i HAVE to be happy for them....and when my friend got a first kiss from him i was soo devastated T_T and no matter how hard i try to forget about him its just not happening.

[*CEP*]

Tell him how you feel.
He'll probably go out with you..for 3 months.
That's the max length of time, isn't it?

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

if ur gut is telling you that hes a player and you dont like that then you should move on even if you cant. do go looking for someone to like you have to let things like that just happen. thats about all i can say.


jackie

[SurferGurl2007]

fh119....Thats Called Rebound....
Obviously he wasn't good enough for you...

[lisaaaaaaa]

i've tried looking for other decent guys....and i've tried really hard to like them but its just not happening.

[designergurlxx]

i think itz best to tell him how you feel...like what 'chinkieeyedpnoi' said up there...
u never know...if you tell him how you feel...he might be yours again...like i said...u never know...

[conster]

tel him how u feel and if hes willing to try again then give it a shot if not i guarantee that u will get over him by hs lol

[x AZN D0RKii x]

seems like you are expecting more from that guy .. but that isn`t riighh .. just because you didn`t talk to him he calls it off ? that`s sorta a stupid reason .. it would be okae if it was something else but .. w/e .. maybe you should tell him how you feel .. and maybe he`ll give you a chance .. good luck

[disturbed_pengui...]

tel him how u feel and if hes willing to try again then give it a shot if not i guarantee that u will get over him by hs lol

i agree with this.
ive been in your situation b4, and i know exactly how u feel even though to you i bet no one could...but i do.
just give this a shot, and if it doesnt work...then maybe you should try putting him out of your mind.
i just have a question...do u really really love him? becuz if u dont then u shouldnt let him have this effect on u!

[HuGs_fOr_yOu]

Once u start middle skool, there's gunna be ALOT of new guyz..and well..hopefullie u get over him [ cuz playas SUCK..don't fall for one!! ]

[SarahxJoy]

I agree with hugs_for_you. You're being in middle school for your first year will surely bring new guys into your life. But if you want to, confess your feelings for the guy again and see what happens from there. Just take things as they come and take your time while you're at it. If not, then try to not think about him.

Hope this helps.

[Darkpekkle]

don't get so hung up over this one guy- you said he's a player , so why do you want him back? don't worry, you'll meet many new (and better) guys when you start middle school. like they always say, "there are so many other fishes in the sea."

[lisaaaaaaa]

thanks!! yeah...i can find better guys in middle school.....i hope.

[pbear]

You have to move on, especially if he's a player.
You had a chance, you took it, you messed up, it's over.
There are other fish in the sea.

[cutey2kc]

that was the same w/ me..cep just about 5 months worth of liking this one guy..haha..and he got a gf..and i felt so bad..newaiz..i think..he's not good enough for you..i mean..come on..if a guy REALLY LIKES YOU..he'll wait for you..even if it'll take forever..he'll wait for you to come to him not bein shy..he'll try to encourage you not to be shy..you'll always be there for you..i mean this guy right now that you can't get over..he's not even that guy that i just described..i think u should really move on..and try to find that guy..hey maybe that guy is waitin for you to get over the guy u like right now..u never kno..u just gotta let things happen..but right now..ur not letting it happen..becuz ur always thinkin bout tht guy that isn even WORTH your time..girl just trust me..i kno this..i've moved on..and well prob when i get back in school..i'll find someone..u just gotta have faith..i hope this helps..and everything works out for you!!

[cutey2kc]

i meant "he'll always be there for you" hehe sowwy typo