i dont know what to do?, is this crazy..[(kinda long)] |
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 Sep 6 2004, 06:31 PM
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 justchillen  Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,145  |
ok so ive been "talking" to this guy for about 9 months now..weve only seen each other 5 times in like 9 months..well im like in l0Ve with this boy.. but he makes me feel like ****.. but other times he makes me feel so good.. well last night.. he was bEiN sooo sweet to me.. and then i said somethin just bein myself... and i said i was gonna go home now.. and he like flipped out.. and just started sayin a wholeee bunch of mean stuff to me.. and i cried over him for the first time last night.. and before i was like on air bc he made me feel so good.. but other times he makes me feel like ****.. so we were arguin soo much last night just throw`n bad stuff to each other.. well.. he wasnt gonNa talk to me anymore.. so after about 30 mins of not sayin anything. i told him i was soo sorry .. FIRST.. and then he said he was sorry for bein rude earlier.. and then we just said a few words and then he went to bed.. and said "goodnight babe" so im so confused.. i think im just attached becos hes my first love n everything.. but yeah..
give me your opinions..thanks for ya time! |
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Sep 6 2004, 06:35 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Err.
Maybe that's just how he acts. Maybe he doesn't like you anymore. I'm sorry, but I'm not really sure. (I think this should be in relationships, by the way..  )
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Sep 6 2004, 07:18 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
find someone who can control their temper and emotions ;]
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Sep 6 2004, 08:34 PM
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 Jrock Princesss ^_^ Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,818 |
QUOTE(justchillen @ Sep 6 2004, 6:31 PM) ok so ive been "talking" to this guy for about 9 months now..weve only seen each other 5 times in like 9 months..well im like in l0Ve with this boy.. but he makes me feel like ****.. but other times he makes me feel so good.. well last night.. he was bEiN sooo sweet to me.. and then i said somethin just bein myself... and i said i was gonna go home now.. and he like flipped out.. and just started sayin a wholeee bunch of mean stuff to me.. and i cried over him for the first time last night.. and before i was like on air bc he made me feel so good.. but other times he makes me feel like ****.. so we were arguin soo much last night just throw`n bad stuff to each other.. well.. he wasnt gonNa talk to me anymore.. so after about 30 mins of not sayin anything. i told him i was soo sorry .. FIRST.. and then he said he was sorry for bein rude earlier.. and then we just said a few words and then he went to bed.. and said "goodnight babe" so im so confused.. i think im just attached becos hes my first love n everything.. but yeah.. give me your opinions..thanks for ya time! umm that was a mistake to say that you wanted to go home its like an insult an it'd make him thik dat you are bored |
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Sep 6 2004, 08:35 PM
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Jrock Princesss ^_^ Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,818 |
oops i meant think
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Sep 7 2004, 12:01 AM
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pr3cious Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,761 |
to tell u the truth, i dont think this is "love"...sorry to say...but i've been in a situation like this...if he makes u feel like crap and then other times he makes u feel good then he says all those mean things to you and s***....he's not worth it..you can try talking to him but if he wont hear you out or at least try to understand wut ur saying and he cant control his temper and tells u all this sh*t again...then he aint worth it..u deserve so much better than that
 ...hope it helps....good luck wit ur boy!
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Sep 7 2004, 12:58 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
QUOTE(Akiko_Minagawa @ Sep 6 2004, 8:35 PM) oops i meant think damnit will u stop double posting? thats what they made the "edit post" button for and about this guy well i think thats jus how he acts. keep tryin, and maybe express more of ur feelings towards him to him. |
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Sep 7 2004, 01:32 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(xxdaydreamer143 @ Sep 7 2004, 12:01 AM) to tell u the truth, i dont think this is "love"...sorry to say...but i've been in a situation like this...if he makes u feel like crap and then other times he makes u feel good then he says all those mean things to you and s***....he's not worth it..you can try talking to him but if he wont hear you out or at least try to understand wut ur saying and he cant control his temper and tells u all this sh*t again...then he aint worth it..u deserve so much better than that ...hope it helps....good luck wit ur boy!i kinda agree.. but not also really.. it is true that the one u love is the one who hurt u most.. cuz u care about what htye think of u, what they say to u, what they mean to u.. and jus about.. EVERYTHING lol but i dont think its worth it either.. i mean... yeah love is painful and all that but.. i think the good stuff should overlap the bad stuff... i dont even think u should be wit him if he flips out wen u said u gonna go home.. what the hell is that??
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Sep 7 2004, 01:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
i didnt exactly get your story but, from what i see you can find someone much, much better. i mean sometimes he may make you happy but if he makes you feel like
 then whats the point? if he gives you more unhappiness than happiness theres no point in being with someone that doesnt make you happy right?  and he has to work on his temper problems 
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Sep 7 2004, 01:44 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
having arguments are normal. but having them too much wont work out. and you cant call this love cuz thats not what love does to you. he shouldnt make you feel like
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Sep 7 2004, 02:13 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
Well i dink that if he can make you feel like **** at any point he's not good for you especially since he did it more than once. A guy that has mood swings is nto good. If you dont think that you did anything wrong you shouldnt have to say sorry first. Also, guys should be there to make you happy, not make you cry.
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Sep 7 2004, 11:43 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(xxdaydreamer143 @ Sep 7 2004, 1:01 AM) to tell u the truth, i dont think this is "love"...sorry to say...but i've been in a situation like this...if he makes u feel like crap and then other times he makes u feel good then he says all those mean things to you and s***....he's not worth it..you can try talking to him but if he wont hear you out or at least try to understand wut ur saying and he cant control his temper and tells u all this sh*t again...then he aint worth it..u deserve so much better than that ...hope it helps....good luck wit ur boy!yeah, i agree. it probably isn't love if he treats you like that, and you deserve better. |
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Sep 7 2004, 12:03 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
i think that was really rude...if hes gonna b like that hes not worth your tears
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