crying, what to do if you're always crying?????? Options

[moody spasmodic]

somebody i really care about stopped liking me...this is the first time something like this has happened to me and i haven't been able to let it go all summer. i've been crying almost every day since school let out, and sometimes i don't even know why. i'm sick of being depressed over a stupid boy...i need help, and my friend was saying "you know, if he knew he were causing you so much pain, he'd fall in love with you." sure...well, it feels like he lead me on for all this time, even though i knew he really did care about me, and he still does, but not in the way i've always wanted him to...

[truluvis4eva]

aaaaaawwwww poor molly... sigh well u didnt realy tell the whole story.. hmm so ill tell it.... well to summaruze molly was desperatly in luv with this guy. and he didnt like her back *hmmm thats what we thouht* but teh nme and some otehr frends pushed it out of him and wefound out he does like her so we HAD to make them go to the nextschool dance togeter and yah they both agreed and molly was SOOO happy.. cept that when swing nite came he said he culdn't go.. so we found out he doesnt like her anymore and that was really evil. sigh its ok molly remember we're always here for you .. and that positive thinking works *lol inside joke* and to everyone else remember thisis jst a summary... luv ya molly

[cleec]

Oh my god I am having the same exact problem, cept I'm not crying over him cause he's a jacka$$ that doesn't like me anymore. See I used to like him A LOT! Then I talked to a good friend of mine and his the other day and he was like "He did like you, for like 2 months" He never did anything about it and we both moved on. We hang out a lot and all but he doesn't have those same feelings and it kills me!

[I_feel_beautiful]

i feel ya!

i guess just let you cry...

let it all out

[conster]

i dont knoe if u read the poem thing this girl posted here... but it says

"Its ok to cry as hard and
as long as you want to
just make sure that when you stop crying
u wont cry for the same reason anymore.
Learn and live.
Love is the most wonderful thing one can offer
so be smart enough to give
the love in your heart to
the one who really deserves it."

and i think its true, dont worry soon u'll get over it, i knoe u can!

[chaotic_kitt]

aww!! hmm i think u shuldn't cry over him..(after reading the summary..) how can he do that?!? tats jus so.. ugh.. dun worri i totally kno wat u mean.. this guy asked me to a dance then rejected me.. n i was so sad cuz i loved him..--;; wtv those guys are jus @**holes...

[sheddingtears]

Aw poor you. You know, you shouldn't cry over guys who don't even care about you. It's just not worth wasting your tears over. Guys like that shouldn't be the reason of your unhappiness.

[moody spasmodic]

thanks, everybody! you helped a lot...i realized that i only need to waste my tears on somebody who falls madly in love with me the moment i walk in the room. if he's having too much hesitation with how he feels, he doesn't deserve me! btw if anyone wants to talk more we can keep this conversation going - i'm already feeling better, lol - and i'll give my email maybe later.

thx every1
(ISN'T THE BOY ON MY ICON HOTT????? HE'S DEAN FROM 'GILMORE GIRLS'. I LUV YOU!!!!!)

-molly

[xsweetdreams12x]

Awww... a-hole.

You shouldn't shed buckets of tears for this one guy, if he wouldn't shed one for you.

[inthemudhole]

Yeah.. that sort of happened to me.

Okay, I liked this guy, and he knew I did.. apparantly he liked me, too for a while, but he refused to tell me about it.. he told my friend, however.

So, he found out I liked another guy (in addition to him) and he spazzed.. I questioned him on it, and he admitted he liked me.

He used to hit on my friends in front of me and shit, and I cried a lot during that time.. but now I'm over him.

I think he still likes me, though.. =-/

[sammi rules you]

yeah, thats happened to me before.

i liked this one guy for like, almost a year. during that time, though, he liked me. i had no idea of that. he liked me for like, the first 2 months i liked him. then he met this other girl named lisa. after him and lisa ended, he liked me again. we kept going on and off with liking eachother. then i finally got a boyfriend. now were just really good friends.

[HoneyGurl]

awww. Yea maybe u should get em back!! hee hee nah but u should express ur feelings toward hima nd let him no dat u felt diz way...

[*CEP*]

So he stopped liking you, so you're crying?
Were you guys even going out?
Wow... how pathetic.
haha.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

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[chica777708]

its better to just cry and then get over yourself, I have been crying for 2 days over 1 guy, and I hate it, I cry myself to sleep, and it isnt fun, just cry and then set your standards, but all u should do is cry nothing else ( I am talking about cutting yourself and stuff like that) their r plenty of other guys out there, but this time dont like some1 inless u know he likes u (I know its hard but that is life)

lol hope I helped :)

[Cynthee]

well...I just say that a you shouldn't waste your time on someone that you probably won't spend the rest of your life with...but that's just me...

Feel better, sweetie!! <3

[sheepy]

i noe wut ur going throu its okay. just try to look on the bright side.. time can heal it all !

[inthemudhole]

So he stopped liking you, so you're crying?
Were you guys even going out?
Wow... how pathetic.
haha.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

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^Haha.

It is rather pathetic..
I have done it before, yes.. but now I look back on it and scoff.

I shouldn't have cared.. it's not like we were going out, so yeah.

Just... move on.

[LyLaZnAnGeL4LiFe]

then u stop thinking about him! u r young. theres other boys out there. if like u cant stop thinking about him, then go get help. same thing happen to my friend. she would breakdown out of nowhere and then she got help and now she doesnt even care. hope this helps!

[rnrn897]

cry. let it out :T // dont stay home alone all day thinkin bout him . get out / hang wit friends. ur gonna get over it sooner or later . why not sooner

[truluvis4eva]

So he stopped liking you, so you're crying?
Were you guys even going out?
Wow... how pathetic.
haha.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

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yes they were going to dances and its not nice to call people who have broken hearts pathetic... i mean i noe ur jst trying to help but ... it's not only that he jst stopped liking her...

[sandra]

talking to ur close friends help.... let it out and it'll make u feel a whole lot better. a guy is not worth ur tears!