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 Jul 28 2004, 04:29 PM
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 Roses are red so r my cheeks!  Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,115  |
my boyfriend just broke up with me like yesterday, we started going out like on sat., its only bee a couple of days tho, ok but what he says is he broke up w/ me becaz of my attitude and becazI didnt kiss him... then he says becaz I am selfish and stuck up... I have no clue what to think..but I have been like crying and S**** but... ugh, I am soo mad, what should I do?
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Jul 28 2004, 04:36 PM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
Well, my opinion, you shouldn't cry for a guy. You guys only went out for a couple of days. Also, if what he said is true about you then maybe you should work on and try to make yourself a better person not for him but for yourself. But if what he said is untrue then ignore him. He is not worth your tears and he is just a loser. Move on, there are plenty of guys out there.
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Jul 28 2004, 04:39 PM
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 Jeff The Crazy Jew Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,689 |
What she said ^...verbatum
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Jul 28 2004, 04:39 PM
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Roses are red so r my cheeks! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,115 |
thx.. but that didnt help.. like I asked everyone if I was stuck up and selfish they said no.... I have no clue if thats even y he broke up w/ me I think it is becaz I would make out w/ him.... UGH I hate lyfe
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Jul 28 2004, 04:43 PM
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freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
Ohh ok, I see. If everyone said you are not stuck up then like I said don't cry for him. He is a loser! There are other motives to why he broke up with you but he won't tell you so he made up those stupid excuses.
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Jul 28 2004, 05:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
well youre eventually gonna have to get over it, but try doing things that will get him off of your mind like hanging out with friends or something..it always works; for me at least
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Jul 28 2004, 06:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,353 |
I have absolutely no view on the whole attitude problem...but your *ex* sounds like a jerk just because he said that you didn't kiss him. I mean, seriously, why didn't he kiss you? And why do you guys have to kiss so quickly? My boyfriend and I didn't kiss for like, the first two months...
So anyway...you shouldn't let a guy take just...*control* over you like that. He's obviously the one who's selfish...and just wanted a good make-out instead of love or something... Hope you feel better, though! If you need to talk or something, feel free to IM me (AIM: Ai Shi Yi MSN: sapphrine@hotmail.com)!! <3 |
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Jul 28 2004, 06:37 PM
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Three words: get over it.
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Jul 28 2004, 06:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,295 |
I agree with what everyone has to say: He's probably not worth it. He's probably another one of those guys who just want to use girls for sex. That's why he was mad when you didn't make out with him. That's just lame. And he's probably mad you didn't kiss him so he's hurting you by calling you mean names. We have names for guys like him LoSeR! He sounds like a jerk and not worth it. Go on with your life. I know it's easier to say than do, cuz I shred some major tears over some stupid guy, but you'll get over it. Believe me.
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Jul 28 2004, 06:58 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(chica777708 @ Jul 28 2004, 4:29 PM) my boyfriend just broke up with me like yesterday, we started going out like on sat., its only bee a couple of days tho, ok but what he says is he broke up w/ me becaz of my attitude and becazI didnt kiss him... then he says becaz I am selfish and stuck up... I have no clue what to think..but I have been like crying and S**** but... ugh, I am soo mad, what should I do? I agree with Anna.. There's not much you can do about it, so just get over it. There are way too many of these attention-whoring topics.. I mean, all the people want from us is just for us to be like "omgz hun sry!" and stuff.. Just.. forget about him, and mooove on. There is virtually nothing you can do about it. |
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Jul 28 2004, 07:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Since you guys were only going out for a couple days, it's not like you were emotionally attached.
I know this is harsh and all, but get over it. There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
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Jul 28 2004, 08:52 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
a perect example on why love is overrated, no?
go write a song about, emo kid
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Jul 28 2004, 08:53 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
someday you will find the right guy...
and when you do, he won't make you cry. |
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Jul 28 2004, 09:24 PM
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 SeÑor Member Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,709 |
QUOTE(strwbrrykiwi23 @ Jul 28 2004, 8:53 PM) someday you will find the right guy... and when you do, he won't make you cry. wrong... he WILL make you cry... only cuz he makes you so happy haha
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Jul 28 2004, 10:07 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
get over him, he shouldnt even be worth ur tears cuz it was a short relationship... and u shouldnt fall too deep for him... just get over it.... he probably just made up excuses to break up... but the point is that it doesnt matter anymore... cuz u wont get bak wit him anyways RIGHT? lol feel better and i hope u get over him soon
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| *CEP* |
Jul 28 2004, 10:20 PM
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Three words: Go Kill Yourself
I keed. Don't do it. It's bad. The cemeteries are getting crowded. Anyways, so maybe you b*tched at him too much. I mean, nobody likes girls who nag about everything. Go out there and find another dude. Next time, make out with him the first day. So this mishap won't ever happen again. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 28 2004, 10:36 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I think you should get over him nd hes not worth it ..
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Jul 29 2004, 01:47 PM
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Roses are red so r my cheeks! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,115 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jul 28 2004, 10:20 PM) Three words: Go Kill Yourself I keed. Don't do it. It's bad. The cemeteries are getting crowded. Anyways, so maybe you b*tched at him too much. I mean, nobody likes girls who nag about everything. Go out there and find another dude. Next time, make out with him the first day. So this mishap won't ever happen again. - Chinkieeyedpnoi OK I am not gunna do any of that, becaz I still havnt made out w/ a guy or even kissed one so umm ya sorry, PPL I am soo happy thx for all the comments I forgot about him, but there is another problem, but u ppl dont care so I guess I will go bye |
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Jul 29 2004, 03:14 PM
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well since you two only went out for a coupld of days, I really think you shouldnt cry over him, hes not worth it, he might've hurt your feelings and told you some lies about yourself that are not true....like being stuck up, if your friends say you're not, then dont worry about it....
-Courtney |
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Jul 29 2004, 03:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
hes not worth ur tears... since its only been a couple of days. no worries, theres still plenty of fishes in the sea
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Jul 30 2004, 08:47 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,746 |
HE WAS BEING STUPID BY HAVING THAT AS A REASON AS TO WHY HE BROKE UP WITH YOU... AND ITS ONLI BEEN A COUPLE OF DAYS!!! YOU DONT DESERVE HIM! YOU COULD DO SO MUCH BETTER!!!
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Jul 31 2004, 09:01 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
um dat guy is stupid den. i mean like y did he go out wif u in the first place den? remmeber that you don't gotta believe what nething says, just believe what you know deep down in ur heart. it doesnt matter wut other ppl say.
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Jul 31 2004, 09:03 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
it sounds like it's his own problem and he just came up with an excuse.
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Aug 7 2004, 04:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
y r u crying..that jackass probably duzn't even kno u and u guys only went out for a couple of days! it's not even worth crying over...and mayb he did do the right thing cuz u don't deserve to have anyone like that...and the fact that u didn't kiss him, even tho u didn't do it cuz u did want to..tell him u didn't do it cuz hiz breath smelled or sumthing....ur better off
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Aug 7 2004, 04:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
didn't want to ***
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