wow...this is kind of akward...but, i wanna know |
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 Aug 9 2004, 05:59 PM
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ok well i would b mad if this happened to me but he's ur father...at least talk to him...mayb then u'll hav a better relationship and u'll kno wat happened bak then and y he left...
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Aug 10 2004, 03:01 AM
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MiCHELLEY. Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,846 |
speechless ? let him do the talking . you D0 want the answers , dont you ?
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Aug 11 2004, 01:11 AM
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 tell him how you feel....ask questions....be completely honest!
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Aug 11 2004, 02:58 AM
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 ermm... sry i dont think this will effect u lol but uuhh i try my best to help people out cuz it feels good.. umi would express my feelings to him and idk yea just talk to him whenever you are ready about just uhh stuff u both like idk  man i terribly SUCK in this. 
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Aug 11 2004, 03:24 AM
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Definatley, definatley, definatley talk to him. If you don't, you might wonder years down the road what you missed out on. I've heard stories of people in your situation that are a lot older and are able to form a good relationship with their biological father or mother after just meeting them (and these are grown people!)...and remember to go into this with an open mind. He may have changed and he may not have. Good luck with everything!
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Aug 11 2004, 05:17 AM
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wow...that's more than anything that happens to me. well..just let him talk at first and then start asking the questions when they come...and maybe try talk to your mom too...
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Aug 17 2004, 02:04 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe... Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234 |
in a way ur very lucky! sum ppl are trying to find their biological fatherz...and yourz is tryin to get in contact with yooh! if i were yooh....i would talk to him an see wat he has to say! and then yooh mite be able to start a relationship with him now. yooh never knoe wat mite happen....so jus give it a try!
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Aug 19 2004, 09:22 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
i dink you should hear your father out..lols XP 'nd wehn you feel that you're ready then go for it..cuz chances are you're ready XP
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Aug 19 2004, 11:27 AM
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Do you want to meet him? If you need to, you should wait till a more comfortable time to meet him.
But it would be great to meet the man of your creation, no? (No, not God. Geez.) |
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Aug 19 2004, 12:46 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I think if your dad is making the effort to reconnect with you..u should give you a try. Everyone deserves second chance..especially your dad. And his phone call just proves that he wants you in his life, so if you still want him to be part of your life, then talk to him, tell him how you feel. These things don't develop over a conversation..relatioinship is all about time.
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Aug 19 2004, 02:30 PM
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pinkrocsmhsocs Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,839 |
well ok this is what i think u should do i think that even tho he has not been there for u u should give him a chance i mean at leat u havea dad that is willing enough to try to make it work i mean mah dad is taking me to court so plz give him a chance
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Aug 19 2004, 02:32 PM
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wow it's sure gona be hard for u to talk this out with ur biological dad-_-;; hmm just say "hey how are u? hows ur life going? so what do u want from me?" i dont know usually my friends asked those questions if they have a biological dad who leaves them and suddenly wants to talk to them-_-;; i hear those questions more heh
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Aug 19 2004, 06:37 PM
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QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 19 2004, 12:46 PM) I think if your dad is making the effort to reconnect with you..u should give you a try. Everyone deserves second chance..especially your dad. And his phone call just proves that he wants you in his life, so if you still want him to be part of your life, then talk to him, tell him how you feel. These things don't develop over a conversation..relatioinship is all about time. Yeah, I absolutely agree with her. Just talk to him and let things go. |
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