OMG CONFUSED!!:(, Yah Another One Of Those Guy Problems LOL! |
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 Oct 27 2006, 02:37 AM
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Ok so there is this guy Mat I really like , We were like seeing eachother for about 3 months but not offical girlfriend and boyfriend cause everytime he asked me I said no I didnt want a boyfriend at the time . Anways , things were going really good he came and seen me every weekend (he lives 30 minutes away). He was always telling me how much he liked me and even telling the people I was his girlfriend and stuff .Than all of a sudden he dont call me or msg me for like 2 weeks so I call him and he is like can i call you back and never did . Than Im out drinking with his best friend(Ryan) who is also my friend and his bestfriend(Ryan) calls him to comeover and he is like I cant I have a girlfriend now blah blah...So obviously im mad and started to get over him. He calls his bestfriend (Ryan) one day and asks him " do you like melissa (me) cause i hope not cause i really like her" meanwhile I have not talked to him in like a month and so.Than just last weekend his bestfriend (Ryan) calls me to come over and drink I didnt answer so he left a msg when I call back Mat is there and wants to talk to me and says " what are you doing please come over I miss you I was gonna call you earlier " . I already had plans with my other guy friend Jeff so Mat freaks right out and I guess he went to a bar and was freaking and crying all night but would not tell his friends why.....Anyways go to find out this girl and him are not girlfriend/boyfriend just "BED BUDDIES" ...So can you see how I'm confused? Im not sure what to do keep him around and keep talking to him or just ditch him cause im defiently not gonna be a "bed buddie" to him!!...Please help people all the advice provided will be very much appreciated!!
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Oct 27 2006, 03:58 AM
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 "I'm bringing nasty back!" - JACKnasty Group: Member Posts: 450 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,457 |
this is in the wrong place...
and you should move on...dudes a loser... |
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Oct 27 2006, 08:06 AM
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 Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
Moved to Relationships
Accidently click on the wrong forum? I've done that before, haha. 
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Oct 27 2006, 08:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,163 |
well... that's pretty messed actually...
so anyways, does ryan like u? =S and what was matt's point... saying that he has a gf but he was just faking it... mayb he knows that his best friend ryan likes u and he wants to let him hav u or sumthin? that's the only reason i can think of... srry i can't help u much |
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Oct 28 2006, 08:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
Aha ya sorry defiently posted this in the wrong forum!!...Uhm Im not sure if ryan likes me he always wants me to go watch movies and stuff with him but I dont think that way of him AT ALL lol. Oh and I dunno what Mat's point was saying that neither maybe they were g/f and b/f but broke up and decided just to bed bed buddies lol!..He would snap if he found out ryan liked me he is So0o0o jelous over other guys around me! pretty confusing and messed up situation here lol
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Oct 28 2006, 11:09 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
forget him.
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Oct 30 2006, 12:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
He really likes you but you rejected him. He went out and found a friend with benefits to feel better. It didn't make him feel better in the long run. He is jealous to find out that you and his best friend are hanging out. He fears it may lead to something that he will have to put up with. He misses you. He goes to the bar.
Your confusion is over. The ball is in your court now. |
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Oct 31 2006, 02:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
lol thnx for the help
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