im sorry, i need help |
 Aug 14 2004, 09:35 PM
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alright this is a way overdramatic problem but i dont know what to do. im having a whole lot of drama with my guy friend and i wanna call him and tell him i'm sorry but i can't because the last thing he said to me was fudge you...but i really want him as a friend so how do i say sorry without looking like a desperate loser or something???
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Aug 14 2004, 09:39 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
sometimes desperate does the trick, if ur really sorry then just tell him, it would be helpful next time if u would post more info
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Aug 14 2004, 09:40 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
give it some time, then eventually, call him up or something and apologize in a serious tone. maybe even shed a tear or something
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Aug 14 2004, 09:43 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Without sounding so desperate, he might think that you are kidding around with him. Tell him how you really feel, he'll understand.
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Aug 14 2004, 09:51 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,268 |
well i didnt wanna add so much info to where im just going on and on-cuz theres a lot more! but i think im gonna break down and call him anyways but basically we were going out and then broke up and decided to stay friends and then he told me that we were never really friends he just acted like my friend because he still liked me so i found out some dirt on him and other girls and got kinda mad so i said i dont want to be your friend anymore and he said fudge you...i mean i was a bitch to him but im a girl! its what girls do...i just feel really bad now
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Aug 14 2004, 09:59 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
Aiya... email him, call him do everything it takes to show how u feel. or u can wait for a while and then do it so he'll calm down.. or if u knoe were he lives, show up at his house madd early and apologize and take him out to breakfast =]
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Aug 14 2004, 10:24 PM
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pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Alright. Are you saying, he was with other girls? Or are you saying that he was spreading rumors about you?
Well, anyway, for the one with other girls, you're going to have to let go or something. He's just a friend but when he's going out with other girls there's nothing to fret since well, he's not yours anymore. About the spreading rumors, if he's not your friend anymore, just ignore him. He's a jerk anyway. |
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Aug 14 2004, 10:26 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
tell him how you feel i mean even though he swore at you
i would tell him how you feel |
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Aug 14 2004, 10:53 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Take a breather from your guy friend for at least a day. Or heck, maybe a few hours. Then don't just call him, tell him in person. So he knows that your sincere.
"If you care for someone, tell them. Because hearts get broken by words left unspoken."  I hope things get better.
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Aug 14 2004, 11:02 PM
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 ∙+∙o.OJadeyO.o∙+∙ Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,281 |
sorry to hear about yer guy friend
 hope everydang gets better!
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Aug 14 2004, 11:13 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
the last thing that my bf said to me was f*ck you too
 and i didnt do anything wrong  if yooh just talk to him it wont make yooh look like ur desperate or something. it just means yooh just wants to be friends again
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Aug 14 2004, 11:29 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,268 |
thank you everybody for all your concern!!!
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Aug 15 2004, 12:32 AM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
Guys are suckers for tears :P
Okay, maybe don't do the desperate crying thing. Talk it out with him? Apologize... You can't really make him forgive you or understand, but you could ask him to be understanding. |
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Aug 15 2004, 12:40 AM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
desperation is needed at times. enough said.
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Aug 15 2004, 01:28 AM
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 vertically challenged Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,342 |
Everyone probably already mentioned something like this.. lol
But I remember I got really pissed off at a guy friend once and the last thing I said was eff you to him too. And trust me.. if you're worried about lookin like a desperate loser, chances are he's not going to believe it bc he thinks you're just saying it for the hell of it. So jus talk to him either oniine or the phone or in person and just talk to him about it. Tell him you're sorry and you wnat to be friends and if he wont take it, DONT BLOW UP. That'll make things worse. Jus try to work it out n be sincere Hope things work out =] |
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Aug 15 2004, 01:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Just say you're sorry. Be a little desperate as well. It shows you really want him to be your friend.
But don't be like a begger though. That's just... sad. |
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