ex's best friend, going out with ur ex's best friend |
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 Jul 5 2004, 05:30 PM
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 hum de dum  Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,638  |
guys and girls would u go out with ur best friend's ex? should there be a waiting time?
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Jul 5 2004, 05:35 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well i wouldnt go out with them at all!!!! but eeehh i have gone out with my boyfriend's best friend... but ehhh that was only once!! decided to never do that again!!!
but well if you want to.... i guess juss until he is over you... so he doesnt go crazy and thinking you left him/her for their best friend!!! |
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Jul 5 2004, 05:45 PM
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 03.21.00 <3 LaTe 637 Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,890 |
eh.. it really depends..some people get really mad when people do that... with some of my guy friends... they say that there's this unwritten rule about that crap... kinda like... "bros before hoes" or whatever that crap was... but personaly, I wouldn't do it... it usually causes so much drama...
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Jul 5 2004, 05:50 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
no i wouldnt...ever
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Jul 5 2004, 05:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
i wouldnt
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Jul 5 2004, 06:06 PM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977 |
I wouldn't.... that would cause way too many problems with the 2 of them.... and if you and your ex aren't on good terms that'll just bring you right back near to him.
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Jul 5 2004, 07:19 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
if he was worth it.
 if turn of events ocurred and that "best friend" of mine was no more. YES ALL THE WAY!but if my best friend was really my best friend, then NO. that just breaks the rules, doesn`t it? |
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Jul 5 2004, 08:29 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
ive done it lol. wasnt too bad actually
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Jul 5 2004, 08:55 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think its ok but i would wait for a few months or more if needed
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Jul 5 2004, 08:58 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
actually, my ex is dating my best friend and im dating his best friend. lol dont really matta to me.
But then to ur question, doubtful. I dont really like most of my best friend's bf's & ex's. well except for the one she has now, hes kool. |
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Jul 5 2004, 09:00 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I think that, yes, there should definately be a waiting time. Because if you don't wait, then you'd get a bad rep. I dunno why, but that's what usually happens.
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Jul 5 2004, 09:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
i think it's ok, as long as ur best friend is fine with it. and yes, there should definitely be a waiting time, allowing the other person to get over him/her, before you go for their ex.
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Jul 6 2004, 10:06 PM
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 tag! you're it! ;D Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,572 |
maybe i wouLd Like him .. but never go out or even flirt with him .. even though my friends had done that to my ex ..
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Jul 7 2004, 01:54 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Usually, no...
But if I already liked the girl before he went out with her, then I would go for it. Does that make me a bad person? |
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Jul 7 2004, 07:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 233 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,422 |
It kind of depends what the reason they broke up is.. and if it's alright with your friend.. then sure why not.
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Jul 7 2004, 07:58 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
lol I almost did.. but I couldent I didnt wanna hurt him
It all depends really |
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Jul 7 2004, 08:00 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
omg, ur best friends ex is always off limits no matta wat!!!
n that applies ta past crushes too |
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Jul 7 2004, 08:20 PM
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 s a r a h r o s e <3 Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,944 |
i wouldnt- but if i REALLY wanted to, id give it time but make sure not too much other wise itll be too late
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Jul 8 2004, 08:39 PM
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 createblog.com n00bie Group: Member Posts: 620 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,321 |
"A best friend's ex is off limit unless you have permission from the best friend."
THAT is from the Man's Code. |
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Jul 8 2004, 09:47 PM
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 rawr Group: Member Posts: 906 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,961 |
If you two were in love, then i would but if it was just like a hook up then i wouldnt
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Jul 8 2004, 10:59 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
my feelings towards this may be biased only because my ex is goingout with my former best friend. my answer is NO, a big fat NO. i dont really wanna go into details but the only reason why we are no longer together is because of my former best friend.
  jackie
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Jul 17 2004, 07:07 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,510 |
 well actually.... i am going out with my ex's best friend right now =.= but.... my ex didn't really mind.  i mean, when my ex and i were going out we were no different then when we were friends. just a little closer.  but my ex's best friend and i are really happy together and it's great that my ex doesn't mind because everything right now is great!
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Jul 17 2004, 07:13 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
yes i would and have. waiting time? only the time u need to recover from the break up :O
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Jul 17 2004, 10:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
I wouldn't want to ruin the relationship with him and my ex, if my ex still had feelings for me.
So, in short. I wouldn't.
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