how to be an independent person? |
how to be an independent person? |
Feb 3 2010, 06:45 PM
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How do you do it? I've been dependent on my parents for so long, I don't even know where to begin. Like even now, I go to school away from my parents, but they pay for my tuition which includes housing. The job I have is really only supplemental money and is not enough to, say, pay for all the shit I need (or think I need) i.e. monthly phone bill, internet, rent (when I eventually move out of the dorms), car/travel, etc.
The reason I'm asking is because the "future" for me is about a year away. I've never worried about it before because everything was set in stone... college --> med school --> etc. And if I followed that path, my parents would carry me along because it's the path they approve of. But I know that next year when I DONT apply to med school (because it is suddenly clear to me that I have no interest in science at all and tbh don't want to be a doctor) things are gonna start getting tough. And I'm super scared/freaked out/not sure what to do. |
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aikobot how to be an independent person? Feb 3 2010, 06:45 PM
brooklyneast05 i just wrote in your answer thing on tumblr but it... Feb 3 2010, 06:51 PM
synapse The state says that in order to be independent you... Feb 4 2010, 03:18 AM
aikobot -_- even if i wanted to go to med school, i proba... Feb 5 2010, 03:15 PM
aikobot ok, all that aside... med school isn't what i ... Feb 6 2010, 12:55 AM
brooklyneast05 i don't think you should go to med school if y... Feb 6 2010, 11:47 AM
aikobot QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Feb 6 2010, 12:47 ... Feb 6 2010, 01:14 PM
buckwild-kingdom QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Feb 6 2010, 08:47 ... Feb 9 2010, 01:56 AM
queen ^ typical asian parent mentality lol. i feel you.
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