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 Jul 23 2005, 11:38 PM
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abortion
I don't want a child who is half of a phsycho killer rape dude. Plus at this time there is no way I could deal with a child. It may sound harsh, but it's the truth. That's what I would do. |
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Jul 24 2005, 02:40 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
that's such a complicated choice to make. i wouldn't abort it and i wouldn't adopt it, but i wouldn't want to keep it either. thats tough... i guess ill keep it.
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Jul 24 2005, 04:51 PM
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abortion. If I do it right away it's not even slightly developed. I wouldn't be able to go through with having a kid. I just couldn't. Espessially not at the age of 15.
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Jul 24 2005, 04:58 PM
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 mS diAna Group: Member Posts: 468 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,262 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Jul 16 2004, 12:16 PM) Adoption. Every baby deserves a chance.  i agree :) |
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Jul 28 2005, 08:49 PM
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i wouldnt have an abortion but i would probably it up for adoption. i wouldnt be able to care for a baby at this age.. i`d have to put the rest of my life on hold if i got pregnant =/
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Jul 29 2005, 02:35 AM
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 omigosh its jackie ;] Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,620 |
QUOTE(lemonlina @ Jul 16 2004, 12:27 PM) I would have an abortion. I wouldn't want my baby growing up to find out that his/her daddy was a rapist and that he/she was born out of a rape. yea. imagine how embarassed you`d be if you knew that you were born out of a rape. |
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Jul 29 2005, 02:35 AM
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 I intend to live forever-so far, so good. Group: Member Posts: 2,820 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,137 |
i dont really know what i would do
im juss prayin htat would never happen to me  i guess abortion, cuz im way to young for a kid |
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Jul 30 2005, 02:30 AM
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 arn't i sexy? Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 186,662 |
abortion... i couldn't bare to part with my child after it is born, but i know i couldn't take care of it.
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Jul 30 2005, 02:53 AM
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 I come from East Oakland where the youngstas get hyphy! Group: Member Posts: 1,821 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,942 |
Such a tough desicion, but Id keep it, because in my family we dont believe in killing innocent babies. And if I'd give it up for adoption, that would mean a child would be searching their whole life fo their bbiological parents. And thats tough.
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Jul 31 2005, 12:41 AM
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OH man this is such a tough topic. I honestly have no idea what I would do. I wouldn't want to go though with the pregnancy if it's some a-hole's child. I would like to say abortion but my views on abortion are kind of in the middle. I wouldn't keep it, I'm only 16 and I don't want a child yet.
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Jul 31 2005, 12:55 AM
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i would definitly have the baby! abortion is murder >_< i'd put it up for adoption. but then again im 14. so my body is probably too weak to carry a baby =/ i'd probably have a miscarriage or something .__.
but then again...maybe i would have an abortion. there are already enough people in the world. |
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Aug 1 2005, 03:49 PM
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QUOTE(CloudNine @ Jul 23 2005, 9:08 PM) I believe it's murder if a pregnant woman is murdered because (as explained in the dictionaries) murder is done in hate, with malice, or cruely. No murder is done out of being nice. So by your logic, if I see some guy who just lost his job, is about to be evicted from his house and has no money at all now and I kill him so that he won't have to live in bad conditions then since I'm doing it to be nice it's not murder?!?! ABORTION IS MURDER. I don't care if you do it because you don't want the baby to be born into a hard life... there's always the option of putting him/her up for adoption. everyone deserves a chance to live. It's just as bad (if it's not worse) to have an abortion as it is to kill a 2 month old baby, a child, a teenager, or an adult. QUOTE(CloudNine @ Jul 23 2005, 9:08 PM) Really what most anti-abortion people want is to ban abortion however if you do that then those who should be able to have an abortion are not allowed to. no one should be allowed to have an abortion, whatever the circumstances. |
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Aug 2 2005, 08:30 PM
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 strawberry pocky <3 Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 164,885 |
I wouldn't have abortion, but an adoption would be better for it.
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Aug 4 2005, 09:10 AM
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Adoption. But when it's old enough to understand why it was put up for adoption, I would like to tell it what happened and that it's not his fault for being put up for adoption. I would like to become like along the lines of his friend, and maybe live near him and babysit or invite him over for dinner.
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Aug 4 2005, 09:13 AM
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Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
QUOTE So by your logic, if I see some guy who just lost his job, is about to be evicted from his house and has no money at all now and I kill him so that he won't have to live in bad conditions then since I'm doing it to be nice it's not murder?!?! ABORTION IS MURDER. I don't care if you do it because you don't want the baby to be born into a hard life... there's always the option of putting him/her up for adoption. everyone deserves a chance to live. It's just as bad (if it's not worse) to have an abortion as it is to kill a 2 month old baby, a child, a teenager, or an adult. It's different if you abort the child a week after you find out your pregnant than 2 months before your due to deliver. Some people would rather kill a non-walking, talking, breathing fetus than put it through the trouble of adoption and maybe never finding it a proper home. |
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Aug 6 2005, 03:38 PM
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 Luvd 4 hoo I aM Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,082 |
cant u just take a date rape pill...rite afta...or w/e itz calld...
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Aug 6 2005, 10:39 PM
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 DInosawr...Rawr. =3 Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,134 |
I guess...I'd put it up for adoption. I dont want to kill another life. It'd make my heart feel heavy with guilt every passing moment i'd have the baby aborted. I'm only 14( *ok 13...but turning 14 in a couple of days*) but...even if that baby was born out of rape. it's MY baby. But I dunno if i'd like to be reminded of it. But still, I would probably want to still be there, when it grows up, i mean..ok...i'm confused. I can't choose.
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Aug 9 2005, 04:12 PM
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 meggie <33 Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,501 |
that's horrible..i hope you get through it and mkae the choice that makes you happy...but if it were me i would want to keep it because after having something living ((a child)) in your tummy for 9 whole months i would get really attachted to him/her and would not want to give it away at all...but w.e you do don't have an abortion..i think that is the worst thing..and at least with adoption you can be able to see it like a little.
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Aug 9 2005, 06:13 PM
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Here is what I think:
Abortion: Yes, I don't want a baby out of rape and I don't want the shame of premarital sex. Why wake up to the hungry cries of a child that brings up memories of the forced sex by your rapist.  Adoption: I wouldn't do this because I just don't want to give the baby away, its too hard after 9 months to let go of someone that might one day call you mommy if it had the chance to grow and live under your guidence Keeping her/him: Me being a freshmen, growing up AND raising a baby at the same time will be very hard. My parents would probably kick me out and send me to a small country in Europe if I had the child because they would think that I messed up my future and that it was my fault for allowing myself to be in the situation of getting raped (by walking home alone, hanging around guys I don't know, me not being allowed to date) This option doesn't work for me Based off how it would be if I was pregnant now at 14 under my conditions, I would probably abort  Pro-Choice btw |
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Aug 9 2005, 06:21 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
i would put it up for adoption. it`d be sad to let my baby go, but it deserves a brighter future.
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Sep 3 2005, 09:29 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
I might put it up for adoption or keep it. Letting it grow up while they're adopted seems sad to me so I guess I'll keep it.
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Sep 3 2005, 09:30 PM
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I would most likely put the baby up for adoption. Yes, rape is a terrible, terrible thing .. but I don't see the point in ending an innocent life because of it.
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Sep 8 2005, 11:35 AM
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 lets cuddle...=) Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 215,981 |
QUOTE(gracefulletdown @ Sep 3 2005, 10:30 PM) I would most likely put the baby up for adoption. Yes, rape is a terrible, terrible thing .. but I don't see the point in ending an innocent life because of it. same here....but in another way i would keep it because it is part of you..it may b part of someone else but its still part of YOU... |
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Sep 8 2005, 12:49 PM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
i completely agree..adoption
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Sep 8 2005, 06:10 PM
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 What up, dawg? Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,480 |
Adoption. At 16, I can't care for a child without dropping out of school and such, so, I would take control of my life and let someone else give the love and care my child deserves to him/her. I'd love my child to death, after I got over the rape, but I would know it would have a chance at a better life with someone who's ready to have a child.
QUOTE(gracefulletdown @ Sep 3 2005, 9:30 PM) I would most likely put the baby up for adoption. Yes, rape is a terrible, terrible thing .. but I don't see the point in ending an innocent life because of it. ^^^Ditto. Rin-chan |
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