rape, would would u do Options

[Just_Dream]

Am I wrong to say... abortion? I mean, if I went through with actually HAVING the baby, and then putting it up for adoption, my mother would kill me if she knew i even got pregnant! I know I shouldn't kill a life.. but I don't want to get disowned and all that other stuff. EVEN if I did get raped, I wouldn't want the child to ever grow up and find out that the child was an accident.. ONLY because if rape. Eeeek, the though of getting raped.. It's really scary. Am I wrong to say that? I mean, people can always SAY that they should let the child live, blah blah blah, but honestly, I heard there was a great number of women who got abortions because of rape.

[gothicvengeance]

Although a lot of people think abortion's sick, I would still choose abortion. Putting it in adoption would just mean one extra child for the orphanages to take care of, and I wouldn't want my baby to grow up knowing it was a result of a rape...and as said before, I don't think I'm ready to go through childbirth.

I don't think I would ever let myself get pregnant, though. If anyone tried to rape me, I'd kill them-and I mean that literally, seriously...and if anyone managed to rape me sucessfully, I'd cut off his balls slowly, throw them in a lake of gasoline, and throw a torch into the lake. It sounds evil, I know, but it's the truth...

[captured_serenit...]

i would give it up for adoption, because i dont want to keep something that happened to me that would remind me day by day!

[WickedDreamer]

That's a hard one since you don't actually know what would you do until it happned to you, but of course we all hope it will never happen to any of us.

[*wind&fire*]

thats is a good question... if i were older id keep it....but right now idk

[Dark Saga]

Abortion is not wrong..

My thoughts..

[whomps]

I don't know.. I mean, I'm against abortion and all, but if I got raped.. that's a different story. I wouldn't put the baby up for adoption though.. I mean, sure I'd be wondering where she/he is.. but then what if they come and get curious all their life.. and they come and find ME. Then what do I say? That they were a mistake? That would SUCK being the kid. Yeah.

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

Am I wrong to say... abortion? I mean, if I went through with actually HAVING the baby, and then putting it up for adoption, my mother would kill me if she knew i even got pregnant! I know I shouldn't kill a life.. but I don't want to get disowned and all that other stuff. EVEN if I did get raped, I wouldn't want the child to ever grow up and find out that the child was an accident.. ONLY because if rape. Eeeek, the though of getting raped.. It's really scary. Am I wrong to say that? I mean, people can always SAY that they should let the child live, blah blah blah, but honestly, I heard there was a great number of women who got abortions because of rape.

tell it sister. well i thot exaclty what she said but then i decided that everyone has ther purpose in life so i said keep it. my grandma wants kids so bad so i'll let her keep it whne i'm at school

[Hyperish_Devil]

i think adoption because many couples want to adopt a baby and they're like waiting for so long and... yeah! abortion is freaky...

[lilxroxy]

scaryyy

agreed

[MarilynMonroe]

Adoption, definatly.

My old baby-sitter once told me that if some guy(s) is gonna try and rape you, pee on yourself.

[Spirited Away]

Adoption, definatly.

My old baby-sitter once told me that if some guy(s) is gonna try and rape you, pee on yourself.

Pee or throw up on them. Most of them get disgusted... but you know... there are some who are into that kind of thing.

[MarilynMonroe]

Pee or throw up on them. Most of them get disgusted... but you know... there are some who are into that kind of thing.

Sickos.

[miss_asian]

adortion...

[eventide]

i will go with abortion
why?
cuz wut am i goin to tell the baby if he/she grows up?
and i dun want any reminder of that horrible thing happened..
i know ti's cruel..
but i guess it's better for all of us = =

[shortvi3tlaydee]

either abortion or adoption

abortion because im not gonnna take care of it or because adoption is gonna wonder who their parents were

adoption- hey at least they are alive

u probably wont get pregnant from 1 rape

[eli5e]

tough decision.. lemme get bak to u on this ...lol T__T

[to-devastate]

well thats scary. if you get raped AND you are pregnant. well the best thing to do is probably adoption. abortion is cruel because you're killing a life and keeping it, well its just too hard for me to have a baby right now.. at such a young age :D.

[JessJR1022]

That would be the worst thing in the entire world to happen and there is no way that I would be able to keep it... I would have to kill it and that would prolly hurt me a lot too, but to have a kid from a loser like that would suck.

[NYgirl4ever116]

That's a really tough choise. I'd probablyeither keep it or give it up for an adoption. No way would I have an abortion, I don't want to kill an inocent life. But then again, keeping some crap guys kid. I'd put it up for adoption.

Anyway, I hope that I never have to make that choice.

[tresa1992]

I would probably put it up for adoption, because I'm too young to have a baby right now and I want a baby that is made from me and the one I'm married to, haha, not from some random stranger or a person that raped me.

[Kit]

abortion. I would want the baby to die. teh baby wit characteristics of that sick man? of course not. and if i was raped right now, i wouldn't be developed i would be too young and its dangerous for the baby even after it is born.

[Oreo_bro]

Okay i am very frigtended and the number of people who put abortion as there choice.

And to relect on an earlier comment "i would have an abortion then go kill the guy that raped me".

Okay so....you were raped and u want to hurt the person..understadnable...but you wish to take the life of a being who has done nothing? a being that would grow up to love you if u kept it, or make another family loved if they got it?

Omg..

Sure giving birth hurts like hell..im not saying it dont, but they give you medicin that some times stops the pain, some times dont, but in abortion, for one u got the kid inside u, then they stick a big ol suction tube up your vagina and SUCK HARD. Omg, i mean suck hard, i have felt the suction power on one of those things *i put it againts my hand* and omg that thing HURTS like a mofo. Then u get to see your soon to be..i mean, was soon to be baby pulled out in chunks and limbs and layed on a tabel for u to look at while they pull the rest of the parts out, then thrown away....

that is sick.


i dont care who you are, if u want to experiance that, killing something in such a brutal way thats your thing, but i swear i do not support that sort of brutal killing, and i never, ever will.





so if i was a girl i would have it and give it up for adoption, plus..the familys can pay u for the kid


*Added*

abortion. I would want the baby to die. teh baby wit characteristics of that sick man? of course not. and if i was raped right now, i wouldn't be developed i would be too young and its dangerous for the baby even after it is born.

1.) A girl of age 10 can have a healthy baby, however the mother is in risk, but she can still have a healthy baby.
2.) The baby would have a slight similar appearance to the guy, however he would share more qualitys with u, and he would be a total different person..


another life gone...who knows what that kid could have been.

[Oreo_bro]

oh btw, here are serval procedures on how abortion works. Please read the text in red before u reply...it sickens me just reading this stuff..and you think cutting off some ones head is bad..this makes that stuff look..well, it makes it look not as bad! omg..







Spontaneous abortions are usually called miscarriages. Most occur at home with little danger to the mother. There is sometimes excessive bleeding, however, or incomplete emptying of the uterus requiring hospitalization, during which the surgeon must gently tease the rotting remnants of the placenta (afterbirth) from the inside walls of the womb with a blunt instrument. Even when this procedure (called a D&C) is needed, there is rarely damage to the mother because the cervix (womb opening) is already softened and partly opened. Infection is rare. Baby parts are seldom found.

What kind of induced abortions are there?

In the first week there are micro-abortions caused by "contraceptive" drugs and devices (see Chapters 19 and 35). After implantation there are those induced by drugs such as RU 486, Methotrexate and prostaglandins (see Chapter 19).

In the first trimester there are surgical abortions like suction and D&C.

In the second and third trimesters there are instillation types, D&E, intracardiac injections and partial birth abortions.

What are the first trimester surgical ones?

There are several types:

- Menstrual extraction:

This is a very early suction abortion, often done before the pregnancy test is positive.

- Suction-aspiration:

In this method, the abortionist must first paralyze the cervical muscle ring (womb opening) and then stretch it open. This is difficult because it is hard or "green" and not ready to open. [B]He then inserts a hollow plastic tube, which has a knife-like edge on the tip, into the uterus. The suction tears the baby’s body into pieces.[/B] He then cuts the deeply rooted placenta from the inner wall of the uterus. The scraps are sucked out into a bottle (see color photo in back of book). The suction is 29 times more powerful than a home vacuum cleaner.

- Dilatation & Curettage (D&C):

This is similar to the suction procedure except that the abortionist inserts a curette, a loop-shaped steel knife, up into the uterus. With this, he cuts the placenta and baby into pieces and scrapes them out into a basin. Bleeding is usually profuse.[/B]

What are second trimester ones?

In the 1970s and ’80s the most common type was saline amniocentesis, or salt poisoning abortions.

These are not used much anymore because of danger to the mother. These are done after the 16th week. [B]A large needle is inserted through the abdominal wall of the mother and into the baby’s amniotic sac. A concentrated salt solution is injected into the amniotic fluid. The baby breathes and swallows it, is poisoned, struggles, and sometimes convulses. It takes over an hour to kill the baby. When successful, the mother goes into labor about one day later and delivers a dead baby.
Is it actually poisoning?

Yes. The mechanism of death is acute hypernatremia or acute salt poisoning, with development of wide-spread vasodilatation, edema, congestion, hemorrhage, shock, and death. Galen et al., "Fetal Pathology and Mechanism of Death in Saline Abortion, Amer. Jour. of OB&GYN,1974, vol. 120, pp. 347-355

And other methods?

In the ’70s and ’80s, prostaglandin drugs were used to induce violent premature labor and delivery. When used alone, there was: "...a large complication rate (42.6%) is associated with its use. Few risks in obstetrics are more certain than that which occurs to a pregnant woman undergoing abortion after the 14th week of pregnancy." Duenhoelter & Grant, "Complications Following Prostaglandin F-2 Alpha Induced Mid-trimester Abortion." Jour. of OB & GYN, Sept. 1975

Because of these problems, the D&E or Dilatation & Evacuation method was developed and largely replaced the above. It involves the live dismemberment of the baby and piecemeal removal from below.

A pliers-like instrument is used because the baby’s bones are calcified, as is the skull. There is no anesthetic for the baby. The abortionist inserts the instrument up into the uterus, seizes a leg or other part of the body, and, with a twisting motion, tears it from the baby’s body. This is repeated again and again. The spine must be snapped, and the skull crushed to remove them. The nurse’s job is to reassemble the body parts to be sure that all are removed.
This sounds dangerous.

It is, but a report from the U.S. Center for Disease Control, Dept. HEW, stated that it is still safer for the mother than the salt-poisoning or Prostaglandin method. "Comparative Risks of Three Methods of Midtrimester Abortion," Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report, Center for Disease Control, HEW, Nov. 26, 1976

It is reported that every year about 100,000 women are aborted by the D&E method, between 13 and 24 weeks gestation. Of this, 500 have "serious complications." This was still judged to have a "lower risk of morbidity and mortality than the infusion procedures." MacKay et al., "Safety of Local vs General Anesthesia for Second Trimester D&E Abortions" OB-GYN, vol. 66, no. 5, Nov.1985, p. 661

Any new methods?

Yes, intracardiac injections. Since the advent of fertility drugs, multi-fetal pregnancies have become common. "The frequency of triplet and higher pregnancies . . . has increased 200% since the early 1970s."

Since these are usually born prematurely and some have other problems, a new method has been developed. Assisted Repro. Techniques . . . , L. Wilcox, Fertl. & Sterility, vol. 65, #2, Feb. ’96, pg. 361

At about 4 months a needle is inserted through the mother’s abdomen, into the chest and heart of one of the fetal babies and a poison injected to kill him or her. This is "pregnancy reduction." It is done to reduce the number or to kill a handicapped baby, if such is identified. If successful, the dead baby’s body is absorbed.
Sometimes, however, this method results in the loss of all of the babies.

Are there 3rd trimester abortions?

A more recently developed method here is the partial birth abortion, also called "brain suction" or "D&X" methods.

- These are done after 4 or 5 months.

- 80% of babies are normal.

- Most babies are viable.

This is like a breech delivery. The entire infant is delivered except the head. A scissors is jammed into the base of the skull. A tube is inserted into the skull, and the brain is sucked out. The now-dead infant is pulled out. The drawings illustrate this.



Perhaps it’s her only choice.

"There are no medical circumstances in which a partial-birth abortion is the only safe alternative. We take care of pregnant women who are very sick, and babies who are very sick, and we never perform partial-birth abortions. . . . There are plenty of alternatives. . . . This is clearly a procedure no obstetrician needs to do." F. Boehm, Dr. OB, Vanderbilt U. Med. The Washington Times, May 6, 1966, p. A1

But isn’t it the safest?

To do this was called a "version & breech delivery." This was abandoned decades ago as it was too dangerous. Instead today the much safer Cesarean Section is used. Dr. Warren Hern, author of the late term abortion medical text said, "I would dispute any statement that this is the safest procedure to use. The procedure can cause amniotic fluid embolism or placental abruption." AMA News, Nov. 20, 1995, p. 3

Dr. Pamela Smith, Director of Medical Education, Dept. of Ob-Gyn at Mt. Sinai Hospital in Chicago, has stated: "There are absolutely no obstetrical situations encountered in this country which would require partial- birth abortion to preserve the life or health of the mother." And she adds two more risks: cervical incompetence in subsequent pregnancies caused by three days of forceful dilation of the cervix, and uterine rupture caused by rotating the fetus in the womb. Joseph DeCook, Fellow, Am. Col., Ob/Gyn, founder of PHACT (Physicians Ad Hoc Coalition for Truth), stated: "There is no literature that testifies to the safety of partial birth abortions. It’s a maverick procedure devised by maverick doctors who wish to deliver a dead fetus. Such abortions could lead to infection causing sterility." Also, "Drawing out the baby in breech position is a very dangerous procedure and could tear the uterus. Such a ruptured uterus could cause the mother to bleed to death in ten minutes.".."The puncturing of the child’s skull produces bone shards that could puncture the uterus." (Congressman Charles Canady (R-FL), 7/23).

But why kill the infant?

You’ve said it! Obviously the mother wants to get unpregnant. Even if this is accepted, we must still ask, why kill? Most of these babies are viable. They are only 3 or 4 inches (10 cm) from delivery. One gentle pull and the head will come out. Then the cord could be cut, and the infant given to the nurse to take to the intensive care nursery.

There is absolutely no medical reason to kill the baby except that the mother wants him dead.





i again find myself asking..why so many people wish to have abortions, knowing the procedures.

[mz anita xP]

wow hard to decide, if this happened to someon, its gonna b so hard for her to handle it, shes already scared from getting raped, and now she gotta b responsible over a rapist's baby? i kno it might b so evil to kill the poor innocent thing, but that seems to b the best solution. adoption, you would feel so hurt after all those 9 months carrying, you gotta give it away? keep it, too much talking and all that from others and making your baby grow up in a gossip world. guess i would abort it?