would YOU be mad? Options

[teef AHH knee]

okay. so me and my bf are kinda FAR FAR away from each other right now. he's in cali..and i'm in hong kong. soo..would you be kinda mad..if he calls you.. for like 3 mins..then he's like..wait wait..i'll call you right back. but then he doesnt.. and you're sitting there waiting..?? and i can't call him back cause he's in vacation right now and i dont have the number.

and then he calls me back today..and says sorry for not calling..then switches the topic to something else. and the thing that makes me mad..is that he does this all the time..where he'll be like..i'll call you .. but then he forgets. and later he goes "i'll never do it again. i promise". SO..would you be pissed?

[Winter]

I guess if it's month it's be okay. But too many times I'd get pissed too.

[defjam_gangsta]

GREETINGS!!

even if i was ya, i won't be mad. he's on vacation rite now. at least, he still called ya!! better than he not callin ya at all. dis are da small lil things ya gotta learn to give and take. mutual understanding. if it's really becomin an issue for ya, den ya gotta tell him tat ya dun like it on wat's he's doin wit callin and not calling thingy. all da best aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

[islandkiss]

I'd be pissed.. but there would probably be a good reason why he wasn't able to call you back..

[babixlilac]

i`ll be pissed cus he tells u hes gonna call back nd he dun..umm dat means he forgot bout u or u aint dat important..

[LiNHy POO]

yehh i would!!! but luckily that hasnt happened.... yet!! but i get mad... even if they say they call.. but then they dont!! and that can be anyone!!

[inthemudhole]

Yeah, I'd be a tad bit mad..

^_^

He probably would have a good reason, though, I guess.

[mizz_mithy]

yea i would be.

[NawtyLilAznChic]

he does it all tha time??? y havent u talked ta him bout it???

[miss_tragedy]

I'm kinda in the same situation right now.

I live in New Jersey, and my boyfriend is on vacation in North Carolina, which is like, 4-5 states down from me. Well, instead of calling me for at least 3 minutes, he hasn't called me at all. And, that makes me really pissed. He comes home today from being gone since last Saturday, so we'll have a talk about it. I talked to him yesterday, but not because he called me, but because my friend was talking to his aunt, and he got on to talk to her brother, and I took the phone and talked to him for a minute. Hes really inconsiderate about my feelings.

As you can tell, I'm mad. lol. So, yes, I would get mad about it.

He does the same thing that your boyfriend does when he is home. So, I feel your pain.

Just talk to him about it. Thats what I'm planning on doing.

If you need anyone to talk to, IM me at Invisible l Soul@aol.com. After invisible, thats a lower case L.

Hope things work out for you.

-Liz

[conster]

ill talk to him about it but i wouldnt get that angry... well im not in that situation so i wouldnt knoe lol but dont get too angry or hes gonna think ur like.. short tempered lol

[mouse_3k]

hell ya i would get pissed..i just dont show it except if they dont call then ill leave a messege like *thanks for calling back..* or something. tht happens to me alot. recently my bf was like "hey ill call u back in a few minutes" and i was like ok and like 3-4 hours later he called back..he said sorry and all so im like "its ok.." and ya..we still ending up having a fun convo lol cause he was getting beat up by mike, his friend lol. but ya..i get pissed, its just my bf doesnt notice

[Darkpekkle]

yea i would be a little mad... i mean, why bother saying 'i'll call you back in a few minutes' but then not call at all? oh wells. i guess ppo can be forgetful sometimes, so i won't be mad for long. As long as he apologizes and knows that he didn't call even tho he said he would. =p

[sheepy]

well.. if he got a good reason den i wouldn't . mayb next time he calls u can ask him why.

[dani41790]

yea i'd b pissed. who wouldnt?

[xsweetdreams12x]

Yeah, I would be really pissed, yet sad at the same time that he's kinda neglecting me...

[babieshortie]

yeh kinda gets annoying after a while but u ken giv dem a break from tyme to tyme... nd i guess its more likeli for hym to forget during vacation...if it keep happening ..talk to hym bout it

[strwbrryluv8]

^^^ what she said...

u shuld talk to him about it...
or just ask him for HIS fone number...

[*bright eyes*]

maybe you should tell him what you are thinking. ask him if there was a reason for not calling you or if he just forgot. but if it happens rarely then i don't think it is that bad. maybe you should ask for his phone number?

[teef AHH knee]

thanks for the replies. i talked to him..and it's all good now.

[tootsie_kiddo]

yea... i wud b pissed. i'm pretty sensitive on those kinda stuff... bleh

[Blue Lightning]

I'm used to it, but yeah I still get mad.

My bf lives in CT and I'm in NJ and he calls me and starts talking to his friends >.< then he says he'll call me later, and doesn't >.< And I don't dare call him because his friends answer his phone for him sometimes and his friends scare me, lol.

[strwbrryluv8]

thanks for the replies. i talked to him..and it's all good now.

aww... good job!

hope everything else works out between you too ~

[party_pnai_pride]

id kinda b pissed but mostly annoyed bcuz it would b happenin lyke evurrytyme. but id juss talk 2 him aboutz it if i were u

[ichiban]

I'd be mad .. yep .. but it depends if he had a good reason