I Have a question.., ..Long Distance Relationships |
 Jul 12 2004, 04:13 AM
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 I'd surf if I couldn't bodyboard.  Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,817  |
Ok. I'm New here & I was just browsing through this thing.
& saw this advice stuff.. so i am wondering.. Me & my Boyfriend have just made 8 months together, its a long distance relationship & we are completely in love with eachother. Our phone calls have gotten further apart, but we still connect on the same level, Our age difference is 4 years, & i know that he likes to flirt with other girls alot. Im fine with it as long as it dosent go past a certain mark. It just worries me that he'll cheat on me, & i have a strong feeling that he wont, because he knows it will hurt me. We would do anything to have eachother all the time, but it seems impossible to do.. him being in California & me being in Hawaii, is a greater distance than we thought. He said that hed do anything for me, he'd die for me, he sings to me everytime we talk & he loves me with all his heart and soul, as i do the same, i guess i just doubt him sometimes, which is very bad, but.. i guess what i wanted to know is.. do you think he really loves me? & do you think that our relationship will last? Thanks <3 Davey |
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Jul 12 2004, 04:37 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
if u guys r realli commited to that type of relationship and r determined to make it work, then i do think it will last.
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Jul 12 2004, 05:27 AM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
Topic Moved to Relationship
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Jul 12 2004, 10:12 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I honestly don't like Long Distance relationships because from what I experience and what I see everyone eventually breaks up and gets there heart broken...sorry
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Jul 12 2004, 11:58 AM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
Yes..... If ur Boi Loves ya n yooh love him nuttin will come between yooh two. Datz wat love is. N if he cheated on yooh i think dat he would call yooh and tell yooh wat had happened. N if it was really bad i think (if he loves yooh) would come down tooh da islandz and say sorrry and he loves yooh. It's all about trust and Love. If yooh two have those two thingz in ur relationship den nutting bad should come between yooh guyz.
P.S. I live in Hawaii tooh!! But on da Island of Oahu AlRight!! |
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Jul 12 2004, 12:06 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
yeah long distance relationship through my perspective doesnt work. it takes alot of faith and loyalty to commit to a long distance relationship and not alot of people have those characteristics these days.
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Jul 12 2004, 01:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
QUOTE(dani41790 @ Jul 12 2004, 4:37 AM) if u guys r realli commited to that type of relationship and r determined to make it work, then i do think it will last. Yep. I totally agree. 
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Jul 12 2004, 01:19 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
you two seems committed to each other. as long as theres trust and loyalty im sure it will work out.
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Jul 12 2004, 02:00 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
OMG!!!!! same with me and my boyfriend!!! im in texas and he's in tennesee and yehh 4 years apart!!!! and yehh we are sooo in love with each other too!!! i can relate sooo much!!!!! but heyy it sounds like your boyfriend does really care for you!!!! but hmm... why would you let him flirt with other girls?
 if he really does care for you.. he wont even look at another girl!!! but yehh if yall both make it work.. its gonna work!!! ya have to be commited like the others say!!
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Jul 12 2004, 06:55 PM
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 that`s hot ;) Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,906 |
i kinda know what you mean, except me and my boyfriend aren't that FAR apart. we've been together for a pretty long time, 7/30 marks our one year. it`s really hard to keep it going because it takes a great deal of trust and faith in your partner. it`s good that you and him talk and that he does really sweet things for you, but not all long distance relationships last. i`m aware that maybe i wont last with my boyfriend so you should never take the time you have with him for granted. if you feel a little "iffy" about a situation, let him know about it. communication is one of the key components to having a strong relationship. if it doesnt work out, don`t spend too much crying and feeling sorry for yourself. it just means you`re one step closer to finding mr. right
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Jul 12 2004, 07:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
well i dink long distance doesnt werk most of da time..buh if two people realliee like each other, dey will be faithful
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Jul 12 2004, 08:52 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
if u guys want it to work it will! GOOD LUCK! (though u prob wont need it)
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Jul 12 2004, 11:13 PM
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 AzN PrYde WoRLdWiDe ^.^ GoT RiCe? Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,187 |
If He Loves You And You Love Him.. Your Relationship Will Last.
And Distance? Hehehe.. Words Of Wisdom "Distance Is A Test On How Far Love Can Travel" ..LoL Ionno If That Really Made Sense But Yea.. 
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