I am sooo mad..., ...at my freaking brother... Options

[miss_tragedy]

Ugh!!! I hate him right now!

Okay, heres the situation.

A little while ago, my sister IM's me from work, telling me she needs to ask me something, and to tell her the truth and she won't get mad. So, I tell her okay. And she asks me if I had sex with my boyfriend Randy! I told her no, because we haven't, and she says that if I did, I need to tell the truth so that she can get me on the pill. But, I have no reason to be on the pill. So, I ask her where she heard it from, and she said that somebody told her that they read it somewheres, but she wouldn't tell me who. But, I'm pretty sure it was my brother. No one else would of told her that. And he probably read it from my journal, which all it says on there is that we had "fun". "Fun" could be many things (kissing, hugging, everything else). But, god! I'm so freaking mad! Why would he even go and tell her that? Like it really matters if I did? Its my life, I could have sex with him if I wanted to. I didn't, but even if I had, why should it matter to anyone else?

Ugh, I'm rambling on now.

I haven't confronted my brother about it, but I have no need/desire to. I know he said it.

Have any of you's been in a situation like this? What did you do?

- L i Z

[ThePrincessofTKD]

even if your sister didn`t hear it from someone else, it wouldn`t hurt to ask, right? it`s just ONE freakin` question. not some big a$$ quiz. she SHOULD care, along with your brother. who else would care? the only people who would care about you are your family. friends & boyfriends will always be there...but they come and go. family is BLOOD.

and YES. it would matter if you did have sex with your boyfriend. your sister was just worried if you might get pregnant, so she was going to help you with the pill.

no. something like this doesn`t make me angry. i learned to think before jumping into conclusions.

good luck though.

[miss_tragedy]

even if your sister didn`t hear it from someone else, it wouldn`t hurt to ask, right? it`s just ONE freakin` question. not some big a$$ quiz. she SHOULD care, along with your brother. who else would care? the only people who would care about you are your family. friends & boyfriends will always be there...but they come and go. family is BLOOD.

and YES. it would matter if you did have sex with your boyfriend. your sister was just worried if you might get pregnant, so she was going to help you with the pill.

no. something like this doesn`t make me angry. i learned to think before jumping into conclusions.

good luck though.

I'm not mad at the fact that she cares, or the fact that she doesn't want me to get pregnant. My brother didn't tell her because he was worried about me. He told her in hopes to get her mad at me, possibly kick me out of her house, have me move back into my house with my parents, and he'd get the job of babysitting, and make $100 a week. Me and my brother aren't exactly... best brother and sister towards eachother. And, I know for a fact that my brother told her. She told me when she got home.

I know that hes blood and everything, but he didn't tell her so that she could help me or anything. Hes mad at me at the time being, so its not really surprising that he said any of this...

Thanks for the reply though...

[sheepy]

nope , i never been in a sit. like dis cept i agree with theprincessoftkd

[xsweetdreams12x]

Don't get that mad. I mean your sister is just trying to look out for you. How old are you anyways?? If you're 17+ then I guess it's not a very big deal, but if you are under 17, she really should know. Especially, if you guys are close.

Even though you don't want to talk to your brother, do so anyways. Tell him anyhow. Say you don't appreciate it that he's butting into you're business.

This wouldn't make me mad, because I'd know they were looking out for me.

I hope everything works out well.

PS Get a lock on your diary.

[babixlilac]

i dink yoohs should confront ur brother first cus a lot of times i got pissed at mai friend.he didnt realliee do anything buh i thought he did nd i didnt talk to him fo 2 daes...i felt like i couldnt trust him buh i was rong..so its better to find out da truth instead of jumpin`into conclusions

[miss_tragedy]

Don't get that mad. I mean your sister is just trying to look out for you. How old are you anyways?? If you're 17+ then I guess it's not a very big deal, but if you are under 17, she really should know. Especially, if you guys are close.

Even though you don't want to talk to your brother, do so anyways. Tell him anyhow. Say you don't appreciate it that he's butting into you're business.

This wouldn't make me mad, because I'd know they were looking out for me.

I hope everything works out well.

PS Get a lock on your diary.

Okay, age question, I'm 14, be 15 in September. And I know that with my sister, shes trying to look out for me. And me and my sister are really close. It doesn't bother me that she asked me about it. I'd rather her ask me instead of acting all weird or going ahead and thinking we did and be mean towards my boyfriend or something.

I know I'll end up talking to my brother. But, I just hate how he always tries to get me in trouble, or how he loves to start stuff. The whole, him telling my sister thing, he didn't do it to try to help me, like I stated before. He just wants to start trouble. Thats his goal in life. Hes 17, and he thinks I get all the attention because I'm the youngest, and he wants to make that negative attention, so that he'll be the center of attention for a while. Though, its not even like that. I think that he shouldn't go and tell my sister lies about me, when I know the truth of all his sex life, which isn't good. Heck, he had sex with some pregnant chick, that wasn't even his kid. And I didn't tell my sister or parents about that. He should be able to do the same for me.

I know I might of over reacted before. But god, I was steaming mad.

Thanks for your opinion.

- L i Z