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 Jun 29 2004, 02:10 AM
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I need help.. theres this guy.. which i liked for awhile.. i told him i liked him like somewhere in jan and he said he was speechless. then we started talking again after a few days.. after like 2 weeks of talking.. he tells me he actually does like me. Even though we liked each other.. we never actually got together. Then i heard this rumor from someone that he has 2 girlfriends. I got furious and got angry at him without asking. He told my friend that I didnt trust him and lost feelings in me. Then he started liking this other girl. We didnt talk for almost 2 months after that. Then last month he told my friend his feelings for me came back. We started talking again.. it was okay.. and then today my friend asked him if he still liked me.. he said "I guess" and then my friend asked him if he likes another girl also.. then he said "I guess". So right now.. he likes two girls.. and he isnt going for anyone of us. I like him a lot..but.. I dont know what should I do. My friend told me to block and delete him.. but I couldnt do it.. Should I let go.. or wait..
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Jun 29 2004, 04:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,708 |
he's really if-fy.. but if you really like him.. you can give him a chance.. but speak your mind..
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Jun 29 2004, 06:29 AM
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I've been a situation similar to that before (the guy's view). I had to choose between 2 guys. It was physically and emotionally painful. It sucks when you like 2 people so much but you have to choose only 1.
I say you confront him, and ask him who he really likes, or who he likes more. If he isn't already thinking about it, it'll make him think. |
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Jun 29 2004, 08:51 AM
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save a horse...ride a cowboy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,125 |
my x did the same thing...i heard lots of stuff he was doing with other people and i broke up with him without asking...to this day i still don't know if its true. my advice would be to ask him if it is and see what he says...i just waited for him to call back so i could tell him that i've missed him and we got back together. so either talk to him or wait for him to get over it.
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Jun 29 2004, 11:26 AM
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he told my friend.. so I guess he doesn't know I know about it yet.. am I supposed to bring the topic out of the blue..? and.. What if i DO confront him.. and something worse happens.. can i afford that?...
 and he said he is pretty f-ed up right now.. and then my frien called him a player. and he my frien told him to go for me. then he said if he went for me.. then he would be called a player
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Jun 29 2004, 12:03 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
who said if he went for you he was a player?
AND I AM THE FRIEND! =) BLOCK AND DELETE HER!! |
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Jun 29 2004, 12:09 PM
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QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jun 29 2004, 12:03 PM) who said if he went for you he was a player? AND I AM THE FRIEND! =) BLOCK AND DELETE HER!! he said. dammit! u showed me it yesterday  and what do u mean her?
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Jun 29 2004, 01:48 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
i still think you should talk to him about it .....
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Jun 29 2004, 02:08 PM
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just ask him out.. doesnt hurt to ask! =)
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Jun 29 2004, 04:10 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
i think u should wait for him. he might get over that other girl.
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Jun 29 2004, 07:57 PM
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he is undecided.. so if i ask him out.. it will probably be a no.. and waiting for him to get over that girl... is kinda hard cuz they go to the same school.. and him and i dont go to the same school so we dont see each other often
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Jun 29 2004, 08:40 PM
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i think you should wait.. thats usually the best thing to do.. cause if you let go too soon.. it could of been something worth waiting for.. i know what that feels like.. i didnt wait too soon.. and yeah.. ruined a lot of things.. but then again it is your choice and your decision about your life..
if you dont want to wait.. the next best thing is to ask him your self.. about his life.. and waht he wants to do about it.. |
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Jun 29 2004, 08:41 PM
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is it were me i would just forget him becuz he's playing with you and u can't wait around for him. and it seems like he needs time to figure out what he wants.if he's really confused and not a player give him time to sort things out.
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Jun 29 2004, 11:42 PM
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Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jun 29 2004, 12:09 PM) he said. dammit! u showed me it yesterday and what do u mean her?i mean him...your not going to do it, i know you! it is too much for you to do it. |
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Jun 30 2004, 12:52 AM
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i tried to forget him awhile ago.. almost achieved. but.. no success..right now.. im sitting on the comp and my status is on away trying to avoid him until i have to think things thru.. am i doing whats right?
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Jun 30 2004, 02:03 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
trust your feelings .. if you want to wait then do it .. if you feel he's worthwhile it's okay .. if you feel that he's constantly liking/dating more than one person .. be careful or you might get your feelings hurt ..
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Jun 30 2004, 12:32 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
ask him whats going on cause if you don't then your gonna keep wondering.
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Jun 30 2004, 01:55 PM
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I don't know how to ask.. and..Im afraid if i force him.. hes going to drop me
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Jun 30 2004, 10:23 PM
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tricky situation. i guess just give him time to figure things out for himself. in the meanwhile, keep busy to take your mind off of him (hang out with a bunch of friends, read books, etc).
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Jun 30 2004, 10:25 PM
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oh, of course you have to ask him if you've been waiting like 5 months already or something...
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Jun 30 2004, 10:39 PM
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yeahh its been a lil more than 6 months.. wait.. i dont know.. near the end of jan and beginning of feb.. how am i supposed ask? i never talk to him unless he messages me and i never call him unless he tells me too.. and i think.. he probably knows that i know.. and then now.. i think i jus f**ked smth up..
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Jun 30 2004, 10:46 PM
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 C-(^^Q) Ka-Pow Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,320 |
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jun 29 2004, 12:26 PM) he told my friend.. so I guess he doesn't know I know about it yet.. am I supposed to bring the topic out of the blue..? and.. What if i DO confront him.. and something worse happens.. can i afford that?... and he said he is pretty f-ed up right now.. and then my frien called him a player. and he my frien told him to go for me. then he said if he went for me.. then he would be called a playeryoo should believe w/e he tells yoor friends w/e he may tell yoor friends are liess its nth betta to confront him urself where yoo can get the damn straight truth outta him! that wat i would do so yoo'll be less worr`d who he likes |
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Jul 3 2004, 12:26 AM
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Heyy
omg....i was like almost asking the same question here and I seriously think that you should talk it over to him* because one day you will regret it like me..and now I feel so upset because I still love and miss him so much...and there is no chance for me to talk to him anymore...good luck
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Jul 3 2004, 01:16 PM
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QUOTE(coco_64 @ Jul 3 2004, 12:26 AM) Heyy omg....i was like almost asking the same question here and I seriously think that you should talk it over to him* because one day you will regret it like me..and now I feel so upset because I still love and miss him so much...and there is no chance for me to talk to him anymore...good luck I dont know.. whats there to talk about.. I think.. I should jus leave it the way it is.. until we both forget each other.. |
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Jul 3 2004, 01:28 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
If I were you, I'd forget about him. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Besides, find someone who stops liking you for awhile then starts liking you again. He's not too sure.. I don't think you want to be cheated on either. Good Luck!
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