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Do I owe him an apology?
libertie
post Apr 14 2009, 04:07 PM
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First of all, hi Dustin, if for some reason you come across this. wave.gif Second, I'm well aware that I'm asking for advice on the internet; however, I know CB people pretty well and am looking for the one or two positive and helpful responses I will hopefully get out of this. :)

So I've been seeing this guy for about three months, and we're both really happy with how the relationship is going so far. We haven't really had any problems. I will admit that I have some jealous tendencies - I have been cheated on at one point in nearly every relationship I've been in, so it's not exactly easy for me to trust someone 100%. However, for first time in a relationship, I actually feel like I don't have to worry about that with him. I'm perfectly confident that he would never do anything to hurt me and that he's satisfied where he is. Still, the thought of him being with anyone else - past, present, or future - drives me insane. I know I'm already sounding pretty pathetic, but hear me out. I never post in this forum, so I think I get a freebie. :P

The deal is, this morning I came out of my first class and I was looking for him. When I came downstairs, he was standing near the elevator and he and one of his (guy) friends had this girl sandwiched in a hug which lasted for an unusually long time. I looked at them for a minute, then turned around and walked off without saying anything. I think the reason I got so upset is because I've seen this girl come up to him a LOT and hug him. It's like every time she sees him she has to give him a huge hug that lasts for like 30 seconds. At first I didn't really get that upset about it, I mean it bothered me, but not enough to say anything. I guess when I saw it this morning it just finally broke me. >.<

So later on he asked me what was wrong and I got pretty pissed at him because he couldn't think of a single reason that I'd be even just a little bit upset. I calmed down and explained myself, and we eventually came to sort of an understanding - he said he'd stop letting her hang on him like that, basically.

My question is, did I overreact? I think I made him feel kind of bad, and I've been thinking a lot about it so I guess I'm kind of worried that I took it too far.
 

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libertie   Do I owe him an apology?   Apr 14 2009, 04:07 PM
interpretation   It really depends. Does Dustin know about your rel...   Apr 14 2009, 04:21 PM
Sandraaa   No, you didn't overreact. Good thing you actua...   Apr 14 2009, 04:23 PM
karmakiller   You are soooo not the only one who gets that way, ...   Apr 14 2009, 04:25 PM
brooklyneast05   yeah, if it's all worked out then i wouldn...   Apr 14 2009, 04:25 PM
leyvacu   QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 14 2009, 04:25...   Apr 29 2009, 10:12 AM
libertie   Yeah, I guess I see where you're coming from J...   Apr 14 2009, 04:33 PM
paozuu   I think you did really well, talking to him about ...   Apr 14 2009, 07:12 PM
shanaynay   QUOTE(paozuu @ Apr 14 2009, 08:12 PM) I t...   Apr 14 2009, 07:18 PM
illmortal   All you had to do is ask him if she's his frie...   Apr 14 2009, 10:00 PM
Stuckie   ^ I know what you mean, ill. You didn't overr...   Apr 15 2009, 09:24 AM
Burenduhhx   No you didn't overreact. And besides a lot of ...   Apr 15 2009, 10:40 AM
libertie   Okay, just to clarify, I do know this girl. She...   Apr 15 2009, 10:49 AM
WarMachine   All the women think that Dani didn't overreact...   Apr 15 2009, 11:27 AM
superstitious   I'm glad things (at this time) seem more calm ...   Apr 15 2009, 11:33 AM
gojira   LOL   Apr 15 2009, 01:54 PM
BOSS   QUOTE(gojira @ Apr 15 2009, 11:54 AM) LOL...   Apr 17 2009, 05:00 AM
BOSS   QUOTE(BOSS @ Apr 32 2009, 00:00 ZM) I wil...   Apr 17 2009, 05:16 AM
PrinceGonnaChokeaBEECH   H3LL YE beech.. bettaa saii u surrii 2 da princ...   Apr 15 2009, 03:35 PM
brthtkrsmlfkr   Am I the only female that thinks that was a bit of...   Apr 16 2009, 01:43 PM
iGio   No I think you did not overreact . With my ex, his...   Apr 29 2009, 02:17 AM
WarMachine   QUOTE(iGio @ Apr 29 2009, 03:17 AM) No I ...   Apr 29 2009, 06:31 AM
kryogenjx   Say sorry and then ask them for a threesome.   Apr 29 2009, 08:33 AM
WarMachine   QUOTE(kryogenjx @ Apr 29 2009, 09:33 AM) ...   Apr 29 2009, 08:34 AM
DoubleJ   I think you did overreact. Like someone mentioned ...   Apr 29 2009, 09:54 AM


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