Relationship gone wrong., Long time no see. |
 May 3 2009, 05:54 PM
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 here, here, and here  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103  |
Here it goes.
My boyfriend and I haven't been together for a long time and already things are rocky. I don't know what to do.  I realized that he was being distant for 3 days. First off, he never texts me or calls me unless if I do. In the beginning of the relationship he asked me out and felt like he wanted me. He would call me or text me trying to get to know me. Now it seems like he is growing tired of being around me unless if we have sex. It hurts to know that I want him more than he wants me. He confronted me two days ago saying he isn't sure about us and that he feels infatuated by me and nothing else. He isn't even sure if he would feel the same way as I do. He gave me two options to break up now and then we can still be friends or go on with the relationship and try to make it work. Bad thing is that if he would never feel anything for me he would end it and it's impossible to ever be friends at all. I pick the last one... My outlook is that he would hurt me either way so why not give it a second chance. I just feel so down knowing he is just prolonging the break up. I feel that this thing came out of nowhere and I feel anytime he will pull this shit again. He will pull of the excuse that it was "rushed into". I would like to have the upper hand in this situation and dump him if I know there is no chance to ever fix this. I trusted him now I don't know if I can anymore. ps. it seems like he is hiding something. He said he can't text because he goes over but he texts everyone else like a fiend and hides him texting to others.  Anyone give me good advice on what to do. |
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May 3 2009, 06:11 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Cut ties. Move on. Count your losses.
Good to see you back. |
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May 3 2009, 06:15 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
Good to be back.
I feel that is the case but I would love to hear more opinions. |
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May 3 2009, 09:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I think you're setting yourself up for more hurt by trying to make the relationship work when you know it's not going to. I think it would be better to break up now so that you can move on and find a guy who likes you as much as you like him.
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May 3 2009, 09:25 PM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
Take him to The Mews and dump him there
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May 3 2009, 09:36 PM
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hes f*cking someone else, and if he tells you hes only infatuated, that means your personalities don't match AKA, this shit will never work
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May 3 2009, 11:18 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
you should definitely end it.
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May 5 2009, 11:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 509,557 |
I think you should end it. It'll hurt either way, but it will hurt even more if you stay together longer.
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May 6 2009, 12:03 AM
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 Drank wit your boy Group: Official Member Posts: 1,711 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 649,997 |
I can't believe people can't see when someone is using them for sex.
Dude is keeping his Love Lockdown. *turns on autotune* You looseeeeeeee. You looseeeeeee |
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May 6 2009, 12:24 AM
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 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
Dude girls like sex too, though. Use him for his money, then dump his broke ass.
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May 6 2009, 08:57 AM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
i'd say break up with him. he is only attracted to you physically, not emotionally. he won't make you happy.
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