What should i do?? Options

[pandemonium]

Okay... here it goes..

i like this girl but the thing is that i don't know much about her.. i started to talk to her on myspace this weekend.. and today we talked after school for a while and i was ready to tell her that i like her but i was scared of how she was going to react.. & to kill the moment... so what should i do cuz i think she likes me too.. but i'm not sure...

should i tell her??

and to the girls:
1. if a guy who just started to talk to you and told you that he liked you what would you think and how would you react...

2. if you liked a guy and the guy just started to talk to you and out of nowhere he tells you that he likes you, what would you do??

[manny-the-dino]

I think you should keep on talking to her & get to know her better. Don't rush into something; give it some time.

1. I would be... confused? I can't really find a word for it. If I guy told me he liked me after only talking to me for a few days, I'd find it weird. I mean we don't really know each other & to just say "Oh I like you" is a bit random, you know?
2. I'd be really happy for a second but after I'd still be confused.


Honestly, I think you should just give it some time. Be patient.

[pandemonium]

that's the thing i want to give it some time to get to know about each other.. but it kills me i just want to get it over with...

[brandseo]

Don’t worry about it. 1st you have to know everything about her then be a best friend after that propose her .My 1st answer is, I will confuse then think is he appropriate for me? Then I will tell him my answer and my 2nd answer is I will be happy.

[sixfive]

bro its hopeless dont pursue too much, i however am very happy and engaged / getting laid every night, so there's hope, but not in that one, but i'm very happy with my life :] :] :]

[LittleMissSunshi...]

i think you should wait a little. you don't want to rush into things too quickly especially if you just started talking to her.

1.) i would tell him to relax, don't rush into things. and i think it's too soon for you to tell me that. let's get to know each other first (;

2.) isn't it the repition of number 1? anywho, i'll start to think differently. i would let myself not too friendly but not too distant? i'd be cautious of myself though.

[pandemonium]

^^ no no.1 isn't the same as no.2 cuz #2 is if you feel something back for the guy!! meaning that you both like each other

[LittleMissSunshi...]

ohh sorry, i was skimming through the question. but my answer would still be the same because i wouldn't let myself get too attached quite yet. but i would like to keep the flow going (:

[Tsukuyomi-No-Mok...]

my whole deal is that
you let your actions speak for you kick it wit her make sure that u take every advantage you get to kick it wit her and all that
joke around wit her have fun wit her get her to open up to you
but don't OD it to the point where it gets to be like brother sister kinda stuff when you think u connected wit her well enough then u can let her know how u feel if she hasn't already gotten the hint

[pandemonium]

well like 2 days ago i found out that she has a boyfriend, but she's unhappy in her relationship... so she told me that she didnt even got happy or excited with the presence of her bf.. only for other ppl
on a msg she told me that she tought i was a cutie back in december when she was single,
then today i decided to tell her after school that i like her.. and she was ok with it.. and in a msg she told me that she had a bad day and that made her day a little better, and that when she told me that she din't get excited on seeing her bf only other ppl and by other ppl she was meaning me... cuz i was sweet!!

so what would you girls do.. if you where on her shoes?? end the relationship with the bf and give it a try with the new guy??

i want to know what most of the girls would do...


She gave me hopes with today's msg..

[sixfive]

she's using you

[pandemonium]

nahh she's not she is such a smart and nice girl to do that....


EDIt:
and i send her baloons & small bear today since i was not going to see her tomorrow

[manny-the-dino]

Aww that's cute. But isn't she still with her boyfriend?

[smash]

first of all, if she has a boyfriend you should back off until she ends it. if she really wants out of her relationship she'll get out. i'm not saying you can't talk to her as a friend just don't push the whole i like you thing. put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes: how would you feel if your girlfriend was basically starting another relationship behind your back? cheating on you and wasn't decent enough to tell you? don't be the girlfriend thief.

[Melie]

first of all, if she has a boyfriend you should back off until she ends it. if she really wants out of her relationship she'll get out. i'm not saying you can't talk to her as a friend just don't push the whole i like you thing. put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes: how would you feel if your girlfriend was basically starting another relationship behind your back? cheating on you and wasn't decent enough to tell you? don't be the girlfriend thief.

^ i agree

WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND

[pandemonium]

Aww that's cute. But isn't she still with her boyfriend?

not anymore they broke up the same day i told her i like her

first of all, if she has a boyfriend you should back off until she ends it. if she really wants out of her relationship she'll get out. i'm not saying you can't talk to her as a friend just don't push the whole i like you thing. put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes: how would you feel if your girlfriend was basically starting another relationship behind your back? cheating on you and wasn't decent enough to tell you? don't be the girlfriend thief.

they broke up on thursday, and i bought her ballons on friday.. so technically i didn't do anything wrong

[smash]

just don't rush it.

[emberfly]

I don't get the point in teen dating The whole goal for dating is marriage.. is it not? It's not like you're going to get married while you're a teen, so why date?

[none345678]

^ There are people who marry there high school sweetheart. Also it's practice, and just human nature to give affection.

[emberfly]

Meh. I don't think I will ever get married. I would like to, but I just can't see myself married...

[manny-the-dino]

Yeah like I said, I think you should take your time, Mario. Just enjoy each other's company & don't rush into anything. At least now you know she likes you so you don't have to worry about that.

[pandemonium]

^^yehh. she told me she likes me..
so now we're just going to get to know each other more.. since we barely know each other

^ There are people who marry there high school sweetheart. Also it's practice, and just human nature to give affection.

exacly

[Sycophant]

You should definitely pee in her butt.

[pandemonium]

sh*t i'll pee in your f*cken face and then murder you, you wh*re

[shoryuken]

sh*t i'll pee in your f*cken face and then murder you, you wh*re

dam.. all this she likes me i like her crap remind me of middle n high school.. haha

any huu.. gl kid