I Might Be Pregnant.... |
 Dec 25 2008, 07:01 PM
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 MissCuppyCake ---> I Married The MuffinMan --- <3  Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,953  |
So last week on Thursday i went with a "friend" (who no longer is my friend cuz of this experience.) to hang out and when i got to the car there were 3guys and they said that we were going back to their place for awhile. I was fine with it. Well we started drinking and ive NEVER EVER gotten this drunk & i actually blacked out which has never happened before and i dont know if i had sex with one of them and if i did if they used a condom. the "friend" i was with doesnt remember anything either but thinks they used one. Im really scared. Please helpp.
Oh and i dont know how to get ahold of the guy. p.s. please dont say that im stupid or a slut. i know that i made a mistake and if your gonna post a message judging me please dont. Im here to ask for help. |
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Dec 25 2008, 07:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
How did you know that you actually had intercourse?
Also, you can't be pregnant the day after the incident. Just wait until your period comes and if it doesn't come.. take a pregnancy test. |
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Dec 25 2008, 09:07 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
Well it's been a week, take the pregnancy test now just incase.
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Dec 25 2008, 09:39 PM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
You can't take a pregnancy test until after you've missed your period. Just keep an eye out on your menstrual cycle and if you're late, then you can freak out. For right now, I wouldn't worry too much.
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Dec 25 2008, 09:42 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Are you spotting at all? I know spotting is sometimes a sign.
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Dec 25 2008, 10:58 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(hi-C @ Dec 25 2008, 08:39 PM)  You can't take a pregnancy test until after you've missed your period. Just keep an eye out on your menstrual cycle and if you're late, then you can freak out. For right now, I wouldn't worry too much. This.Also, it's never a good idea to be a female and get drunk with guys that you (may or) may not know well. You should have someone watch out for you if you're going to get drunk. So the next time you find yourself in a comprising situation that you were, remember this experience. |
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Dec 25 2008, 11:33 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Plan B!
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Dec 25 2008, 11:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 698,542 |
you should have taken any anti-pregnancy pill within 75 hrs. don't treat yourself so carelessly ...because after all boys are boys.so think before getting drunk with guys you don't know very well.
Well it's been a week, take the pregnancy test now just incase. |
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Dec 25 2008, 11:46 PM
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Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
QUOTE(FreakyFellow @ Dec 25 2008, 11:43 PM) Well it's been a week, take the pregnancy test now just incase. READ. QUOTE(hi-C @ Dec 25 2008, 09:39 PM) You can't take a pregnancy test until after you've missed your period.
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Dec 26 2008, 12:31 AM
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 Adobe Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,237 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,043 |
Everyone's right. You can't know now.
But you might want to consider taking birth control to prevent a situation like this in the future. |
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Dec 26 2008, 06:35 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
Well you can wait, although it'll be too late to be like "oh no! I'm pregnant! WHAT DO I DO!?" you should still worry, even thought others say you don't have to. i would be worried.
You take birth control pills like what others said. |
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Dec 27 2008, 10:22 PM
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 Flamebow Group: Member Posts: 299 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,444 |
Like others have said, you have to wait until you've missed your period to take a test. . .
Frankly I'd be more worried about having an STD right now. |
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Dec 28 2008, 01:30 AM
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Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
QUOTE(shannlovin @ Dec 26 2008, 06:35 PM) you should still worry, even thought others say you don't have to. i would be worried. There's no point in worrying about being pregnant if she hasn't missed a period yet. That's just getting yourself upset over nothing. And like this person said:QUOTE(Rogue_Ewok @ Dec 27 2008, 10:22 PM) Frankly I'd be more worried about having an STD right now. |
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Dec 28 2008, 05:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
if your over the age of 18 you can get that Plan B medicine
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Dec 28 2008, 09:55 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(MissUchiha @ Dec 28 2008, 02:27 PM) if your over the age of 18 you can get that Plan B medicine .... You only have like 72 hours after having sex to take that. She had sex last THURSDAY. A little too late to even consider that. You should at least research Plan B if you're going to consider suggesting it to another person. How do I know? Because I took it before, kthx. |
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Dec 30 2008, 05:52 PM
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MissCuppyCake ---> I Married The MuffinMan --- <3 Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,953 |
soooo im not pregnant. :DD.
but im probably gonna go to the clinic sometime next week to make sure i dont have an std or something. thank you for all your support. :)). |
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Dec 30 2008, 06:03 PM
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 mercenary on call Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,606 |
WTH is up with you girls!? Last night I had to go on my break and go get a pregnancy test for my friend.
"Hey, do you have any pregnancy tests" *Women talking snicker and walk out* ..she looks to the counter right beside the check out "Do you think you're the father?" "Hell no, just a friend" "Do you think she is?" "I dont know thats why Im getting this" "Well good luck to her!" wtf, right beside the reeses? |
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Dec 31 2008, 04:55 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
hey freeridefight, i didn't know guys like Twilight.. by your signature.
and congratsss (:! maybe you didn't do anything after alll (; |
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Dec 31 2008, 05:25 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(freeridefight @ Dec 30 2008, 04:03 PM) WTH is up with you girls!? Last night I had to go on my break and go get a pregnancy test for my friend. "Hey, do you have any pregnancy tests" *Women talking snicker and walk out* ..she looks to the counter right beside the check out "Do you think you're the father?" "Hell no, just a friend" "Do you think she is?" "I dont know thats why Im getting this" "Well good luck to her!" wtf, right beside the reeses? Eww how obnoxious. I hate clerks who do that. Bitch, ring me out and get on with your life. Why the hell do you care if I'm pregnant or, in your case, if you're the father? Gah. And yay for no babies OP, I just hope you don't have STDS. Now perhaps you should focus on making better friends, the kind that don't take advantage of you and f*ck you while you're drunk! 
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Jan 1 2009, 11:42 PM
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 Seoul Rocks! Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,811 |
There is a simple way to take care of this possible problem.
ABORT, FAST!!!!!! I'm kidding, go get a blood test done at a free clinic. You will know 100% then. |
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Jan 1 2009, 11:47 PM
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mercenary on call Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,606 |
QUOTE(shannlovin @ Dec 31 2008, 04:55 PM) hey freeridefight, i didn't know guys like Twilight.. by your signature. and congratsss (:! maybe you didn't do anything after alll (; ...sarcasm? |
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Jan 13 2009, 03:37 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 695,640 |
i thought i was pregnant last month.
cuz then i was supposed to get my period on th 19th and its beens like a week and a half and i still didn't get it. but then i got it a couple of days after that. so i was hella relieved. |
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Jan 16 2009, 11:20 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
QUOTE(Rachel @ Dec 31 2008, 04:25 PM) Eww how obnoxious. I hate clerks who do that. Bitch, ring me out and get on with your life. Why the hell do you care if I'm pregnant or, in your case, if you're the father? Gah. And yay for no babies OP, I just hope you don't have STDS. Now perhaps you should focus on making better friends, the kind that don't take advantage of you and f*ck you while you're drunk! Yeah i hate when f*cking clerks already judge someone when you buy certain things. |
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Feb 10 2009, 06:25 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Dec 2008 Member No: 703,789 |
QUOTE(hi-C @ Dec 26 2008, 03:39 PM) You can't take a pregnancy test until after you've missed your period. Just keep an eye out on your menstrual cycle and if you're late, then you can freak out. For right now, I wouldn't worry too much. Er. I thought it was after two weeks of sex? not after you'd had your period? Well that's what the doctor said to me. Could be wrong. |
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Feb 10 2009, 10:33 AM
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Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
^ If you're using one of those early tests then maybe. I don't know. But for full accuracy, it should be taken after you know you've missed your period. Sperm can live in the fallopian tubes for a few days and then the fertilized egg needs to implant itself in the uterus, so it could take a while for the actual pregnancy hormones to be detected.
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