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 Jul 2 2004, 04:46 PM
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well me and my best friend or so called best friend once made a promise to me that
1. she would never date this boy name kevin because he was a bully and sorta made her do things that she didn't want to and 2. that when we lost it that we would call each other first thing. well, the other day, after we had this big fight and finally got it settled, she called me and told me that not only has she been dating kevin for a week already, she had sex with him 3 times! (she called me a week after it happened) we're only 13 and thats illegal but i didn't say anything. now she's making promises again, should i still trust her |
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Jul 2 2004, 04:49 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1`  Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
she may have been scared to tell you the truth until now .. it happens .. it may take a while for her to gain your trust back again .. but eventually things will go back to normal .. nobody is perfect .. she didn't lie to you or anything .. she was just holding back some personal information til she was ready to tell you ..
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Jul 2 2004, 04:52 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
she is your friend. at least she told you. its better than finding out on urself. i guess she was just scared thats why she didnt tell you. you mite not want to trust her now cuz she broke her promises but you will learn to trust her again.
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Jul 2 2004, 04:59 PM
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QUOTE(x0143637x0 @ Jul 2 2004, 4:52 PM) she is your friend. at least she told you. its better than finding out on urself. i guess she was just scared thats why she didnt tell you. you mite not want to trust her now cuz she broke her promises but you will learn to trust her again. i guess i should be glad that she told me but why should she have held it from me. i wasn't going to bite her head off or anything. and another thing about finding out, she practically told everyone before me. i don't think i could take that she could trust everyone else before me. maybe i was wrong for being mad at her but i don't think i could trust her anymore |
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Jul 2 2004, 10:26 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
it was prob a hard thing ot tell you because she knew how you felt about him.
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Jul 2 2004, 11:56 PM
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QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 2 2004, 11:26 PM) it was prob a hard thing ot tell you because she knew how you felt about him. ^ that, and she probably felt really bad about breaking the promises you made together. i'm sure she feels really sorry she let you down- and maybe that's why she didn't tell you right away. she was afraid you'll be so disappointed in her that you'll break off the friendship or something? it's kinda like when your parents expect you to get straight A's, but then you come home with C's. you feel really bad and don't want to tell them right away... hope that made sense. |
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Jul 3 2004, 02:13 AM
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 S*q*U*e*E*G*i*E Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,243 |
you should still trust her because everyone deseves a second chance...she also could have been raped..not actually had sex??
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