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 Jan 12 2009, 01:09 AM
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So bf and i have been together over 2 years, but now its the arguments and all that good stuff.. so he's the type that has a temper, flirty, loud etc.. im the chill, passive, and outgoing one.. thing is, he made a big step moving closer to me(im with parents he now lives with my friends) but now we fight more.. questions is, should i just let him do whatever, give him space yet be there for him, not talk to him too much since he hasnt really been too talkative with me anyway.. and stop trying to be the one to start convos, make plans, being jealous or "nagging" cus now im that too apparently?? what do i doo. if this sounds confusing jst message me or smthing cus im really lost right now and wanted to vent haha so sorrryyyy for bothering you all with my lame story.
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Jan 12 2009, 05:30 AM
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Sounds like you're growing apart. Have you even discussed how things have changed recently? If not, you probably should get on that.
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Jan 13 2009, 06:46 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i agree, i think it's that you guys have been together for too long and you guys always fighting because you guys are always together. you should just talk to him one final time say we need or break or something. if not then, just leave him alone.
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Jan 13 2009, 08:38 PM
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QUOTE i think it's that you guys have been together for too long and you guys always fighting because you guys are always together. you should just talk to him one final time say we need or break or something. if not then, just leave him alone.
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Jan 13 2009, 08:43 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
You sound really clingy. Ease up.
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Jan 13 2009, 10:14 PM
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Ok i will admit that i sound clingy, and i dont know how i became this way.. and when u guys said its cus were together all the time its def not that.. i feel like its because were never just together..let me vent again the whole story haha SORRY
we were in a long distance for about over a year, he moved from south to north to be with me, and only know my friends .... during the long distance i caught him heavily flirting with other girls by myspace and stuff lame i know.. so i let it go .. he has a privacy thing and wont allow me to look thru his phone.. but i did one time and found him talking sexual.. big fight, i let it go ... months later i went thru it and found another sexual convo but just one text from the girl tho he deleted everything else... sooo he moves up here but now its worst because i thought it wud be him and i time.. but its always everyone time and when its just us i absolutly feel loved but then i bring up stuff.. right now were fine but im just distancing myself.. not too be jealous, or clingy, not bringing past stuff, not trying to be nosy and look thru his stuff, my question is.. How much space should you give your bf? LONGGG ASS VENT HAHA |
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