need some help... Options

[theguardsman]

okay...i rly need some help here...
the other night...i was at a party...and i accidently got with this girl...(got with as in like made out for like..five seconds only, cuz then i knew it was wrong)...who has a bf...the bf wasnt there and stuff...but yeah..and then now he found out...and hes planning to beat the crap outta me...i mean if its one on one...i wudnt be as scared as now..but yeah..now its like...10 on 1....what shud i do...i tried tlakin peace with him..but he wudnt listen.

please help..seriously...

[theguardsman]

shud i just go meet them up tmrw..let them throw a few punches...and just run away...so that i cant get this thing done and dusted?

[theguardsman]

i mean...its kinda inevitable...so yeah..
ure not being sarcastic there...are you'?

[heyo-captain-jac...]

Show up without pants.


Also, post pictures.

[theguardsman]

what?! post pictures of what?
no seriously.
i hv a friend who's 'pretending' to be on their side...so he's telling me the plans.
apparently they're trying to jump me..and beat me up...
likei said before...im thinking of letting them throw me a few punches...and just run away quickly.

[karmakiller]

If he's anything like you, you should go to the library and read. By the way you type, you are never there. And he probably won't be either.

[theguardsman]

What do you mean by 'there'?

[none345678]

Just get some of you people to go with you, if your only friend is the weirdo kid in the back of the class I say go with the no pants idea.

[FreakyFellow]

go with your 2-3 friends. beat him and get the girl...:)

[SharperMyspace]

Have your mom call their moms.

[theguardsman]

it really isnt as easy as it seems. these guys are rich and powerful (powerful as in family background wise). okay, so once, they actually bought like SEVEN or TEN huge fishes just to whack them at this other guy. they wanted me to join in and whack him bck then, but i rejected; i didnt want to waste the money and also, i'm fine with the 'victim'. they probably see me as the weakling now. but really. even if im buff or big, i wont be able to fight like ten or more of them! they actually went to my place last night and waited outside. the management or securities told them off. my parents are really pissed off at this thing. they're making my stay at home and everything. should i ring the cops? oh yes and also, they're planning to come again on new years...as in like, right after the countdown,theyre just planing to come over again. should i stay at home the whole time, or should i stay away from home instead?

[FreakyFellow]

i think you should ring the police if they are not going to stop trying to beat you otherwise you will always be scared....

[heyo-captain-jac...]

Hell, if it worries you that much, stay at a friend's house.

[lordnetch]

ok here we go time for the lords help :D
u said u could take him 1v1 right well when they come to your house next waltz right up to him and say "if u want to fight me do it like a man in a one on one fight and not like a pussy who has to hide behind is friends and family for strength if u lose u leave me alone if i lose u will have gotten to beat me up so its a win win" the whole time smile at him because it will make him pissed off and he wont think correctly the whole time smile at him and keep laughing even if u have to fake it the more pissed off he is the more likely he is going to fight u one on one

now for the other thing u can do its called legal help >:D what u do is get a friend or trusted family member vid tape the whole thing or take pictures of the whole thing but you will have to take a diffrent approch to the convo first walk out and try to talk things out if that doesnt work and they still want to fight you let them hit you and dont fight back take the pain the less u stuggle the better it will be in court after u are bloodyed and brused goes strait to the cops with the vid and then get a lawyer because u take them to court sue them and then every1 who beat u up will go to jail for assault and battery each family u should be able to pay all medical bills

Aggravated assault and battery: This charge is for an assault without a weapon that results in injury. It is also a misdemeanor crime and is punishable by up to one year in jail and a $1,000 fine.
all u lose is at most 1 month of your life if u get into the hospital or less depending on the injury while EVERY SINGLE person who was attacking u has to pay 1K dollers and spend 1 whole year in jail this is the minimal charge that those who assulted you will be convicted of not to mention this is on thier records for life meaning if any of them wanted a government job they now cant get

if i missed any think do comment back or message as i am an evil cunning bastard (so says the people i hang out with)

[Tomates]

I would go tell a teacher or parent if i were you

[emberfly]

1-800-speak-up?

I think that's like an in-school violence hot line where you call and they get the police involved... You should be safe.

.. it's also for school shootings.

i think you should ring the police if they are not going to stop trying to beat you otherwise you will always be scared....

Yes, definitely get the police involved. If you wait until after they beat you up, and then get the police involved, you could be sending the people who beat you up to alternative school... or that juvenile delinquent(sp?) place.

[creole]

I would be mad and full of rage if someone kissed a person I was going out with. It was your fault. You shouldn't have done that. You should always think about the consequences when you make your actions. I don't really mean all the time, but I mean when you're confused or unsure about what to do next.

I was in a similar situation like this. The best solutions in my opinion are

• Beg for Mercy
• Always have 2-3 people walk with you EVERYWHERE now, if you're so scared.
• Tell the girl to talk to the BF, so he will understand.
• Report the situation to authority.

Note:

However, if you report it to the authority, you really got yourself screwed up. More shit to nag about, and even the girl you kiss would have to come down and talk this out. Kinda humiliating. But you'll be happy you got over this situation.






I hope you take my words dearly. Hope this teaches you a lesson.

This post has been edited by ninjaBeenly: Jan 2 2009, 05:05 PM

[Blyat]

This really depends on what you think is the right idea
the best way overall is NOT to fight back, that always makes it worse

the best is to think the pros and cons of both situation
going there the con is that your going to get beaten ,but after they give you a couple of hits you can run your ass out of there and it's over so that is a pro

if your dont go
the con is that you will be tense ever wondering if,when and where they will get you, that can make it bad to cause that is a big stress builder

also sometimes it is good to call help

[Blyat]

it really isnt as easy as it seems. these guys are rich and powerful (powerful as in family background wise). okay, so once, they actually bought like SEVEN or TEN huge fishes just to whack them at this other guy. they wanted me to join in and whack him bck then, but i rejected; i didnt want to waste the money and also, i'm fine with the 'victim'. they probably see me as the weakling now. but really. even if im buff or big, i wont be able to fight like ten or more of them! they actually went to my place last night and waited outside. the management or securities told them off. my parents are really pissed off at this thing. they're making my stay at home and everything. should i ring the cops? oh yes and also, they're planning to come again on new years...as in like, right after the countdown,theyre just planing to come over again. should i stay at home the whole time, or should i stay away from home instead?

their bullies
and obviously what their doing right now, like staying at your house, is harassment

[emberfly]

^ Ya that's definitely harassment.

Next time they come over, call the cops to arrest those a-holes.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

otay, it passed new years. did the guys come to your house again?

[tuc123]

1 on 1
he brings 9 friends 10 on 1
you bring 29 people 30 on 10
who is gona win now

[StrideEmpty]

okay...i rly need some help here...
the other night...i was at a party...and i accidently got with this girl...(got with as in like made out for like..five seconds only, cuz then i knew it was wrong)...who has a bf...the bf wasnt there and stuff...but yeah..and then now he found out...and hes planning to beat the crap outta me...i mean if its one on one...i wudnt be as scared as now..but yeah..now its like...10 on 1....what shud i do...i tried tlakin peace with him..but he wudnt listen.

please help..seriously...

seriously? 10 guys? wow he got no balls for shit he needs people to beat one person he must be a pussy ass person all i can say is bring your friends if your friends dont help then fight for yourself learn UFC trust me its very useful dont be scared if you know how to fight then good if you dont thenn wow carma is a bitch

[creole]

Why did you bump?