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| *xcaitlinx* |
 Mar 6 2006, 04:32 PM
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i know that most, if not all guys watch porn and masturbate...but would you get mad if you found out that your boyfriend watches porn? i know that mine does and i'm not sure if he watches it a lot but i dont know how to react. the thought of him looking at other girls naked bothers me. should i be mad and talk to him about it? or should i forget about it because most guys watch it anyway?
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 6 2006, 04:39 PM
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Do you let him look at you naked?
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Mar 6 2006, 04:50 PM
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^ hah..no he hasn't seen me completely unclothed. we haven't had sex yet.
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| *Zatanna* |
Mar 6 2006, 05:01 PM
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One of my exes used to watch porn quite often. It didn't bother me a bit. I used to buy him Playboy and Maxim subscriptions even. I want to keep this PG13 and I know you're young, but we used to watch porn *together* even. It doesn't have to be a negative aspect of a relationship.
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Mar 6 2006, 05:08 PM
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i know he does, but i honestly could careless; hes a guy.. most guys do... its like saying its a crime for us girls to say a guy looks hot or cute [something]
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Mar 6 2006, 08:19 PM
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 &&i'm.sorry. Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,237 |
I know some of my ex's have. I don't have a boyfriend at the moment though.
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Mar 6 2006, 08:24 PM
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my boyfriend doesn't. :]
but i think if you feel insecure, you should tell him your thoughts. if he truly cared for you, he'd listen to you and take your feelings into consideration. |
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Mar 6 2006, 09:07 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
well, i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have ex's.
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| *ranniel* |
Mar 6 2006, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 6 2006, 4:39 PM)  Do you let him look at you naked? umm yeah.. if your relationship was very long, you need to get a lil more intimate. people get unpaitient sometimes. 
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Mar 6 2006, 09:47 PM
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I'm not sure if my boyfriend does, but I don't know. For some reason it bothers me, knowning he sees other girls naked
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Mar 6 2006, 09:58 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Mar 6 2006, 6:07 PM) well, i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have ex's. Same here. :| Well, maybe you're not satisfying him? It's normal for someone to watch porn.. Hormones. 
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Mar 7 2006, 06:03 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
If my boyfriend watched porn, I would be really upset. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be interested in watching fake bimbos willing to record videos of themselves naked. And I wouldn't want to feel like I had to compare to them.
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Mar 7 2006, 07:42 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(ranniel @ Mar 6 2006, 7:35 PM) umm yeah.. if your relationship was very long, you need to get a lil more intimate. people get unpaitient sometimes. If you can't keep in your pants until your partner is ready, than you don't deserve to be in a relationship.  And my recent ex has looked at porn, but I don't think he does regularly. |
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Mar 7 2006, 08:03 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
it would bother me. even if I won't admit it, I would still feel offended. I would start being more self concious.
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Mar 7 2006, 08:49 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Yeah, my boyfriend does. I'm not sure how often he still does, but I definitely don't have a problem with it because I know that he stills cares about me even if he sees another girl naked. I just see it as a natural thing to want to see, really. Heh.
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Mar 8 2006, 12:02 AM
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QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Mar 6 2006, 9:07 PM) well, i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have ex's. hahahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhaha R U SPONSERD!!/!? |
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Mar 8 2006, 12:36 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(tic tac. @ Mar 6 2006, 9:58 PM) Same here. :| Well, maybe you're not satisfying him? It's normal for someone to watch porn.. Hormones. that's a horrible thing to say. plus, not everyone watches porn for arousal, sometimes it's just entertainment. i wouldn't care if the guy i'm seeing watches porn. he does but not regularly. i myself watch porn, quite frankly when i get off the computer at like 2-3am i go channel surfing for porn. the people having sex doesn't even turn me on at all, i just find it very amusing. it also gives me ideas to spring on my darling 
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Mar 8 2006, 03:24 PM
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 Dragonfly_babe Group: Member Posts: 274 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,380 |
I think the majority of guys do. It's there business if they do but I guess I would be a little shocked if I caught him in the middle of watching it
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Mar 8 2006, 04:20 PM
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QUOTE(ranniel @ Mar 6 2006, 9:35 PM) umm yeah.. if your relationship was very long, you need to get a lil more intimate. people get unpaitient sometimes. umm no.. we've only been going out for 3 months. |
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Mar 8 2006, 06:34 PM
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My ex hardly watches it.
But I knew that he watched it like few times with his friends when they were watching it, once they showed it to a frd of mine who said she hasn't seen it before and was curious. lolx. was so funny. Like..... there's a time when a guy/bf would watch porn..... I would feel a tad insecure if my ex watched it heaps/often.... i got a low self esteem about my body... and well..... I've never seen porn before but i'm guessing the girls in porn movies are like.. err....hot.... have great bodies and stuff?! Makes me feel insecure about my body appearance...... I feel like i'm going to be compared to those girls in porn..... |
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Mar 8 2006, 11:00 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Eh, I think my boyfriend used to, but I don't think he does anymore.
But yeah, I would feel a bit insecure if I knew that he did watch it. |
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Mar 11 2006, 06:12 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
Eh.. well.
Current boyfriend used to watch it but it made me feel a tad insecure and I guess i didnt like it too much so he doesnt watch it anymore. He gave it up on his own free will ;x But.. when an ex i had watched it it didnt bother me at all. I dont see why it bothers me now x_x |
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Mar 11 2006, 07:10 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
yeah. he does. he tells me, but i dont have a prob with it. as long as he still loves me and its not affecting our relationship. i mean, most guys do watch porn.
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Mar 12 2006, 12:43 AM
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QUOTE(dreamerOi @ Mar 11 2006, 6:12 PM) Eh.. well. Current boyfriend used to watch it but it made me feel a tad insecure and I guess i didnt like it too much so he doesnt watch it anymore. He gave it up on his own free will ;x But.. when an ex i had watched it it didnt bother me at all. I dont see why it bothers me now x_x maybe because you care more about losing your current one than your ex? |
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Mar 14 2006, 12:10 AM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Mar 7 2006, 6:03 PM) If my boyfriend watched porn, I would be really upset. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be interested in watching fake bimbos willing to record videos of themselves naked. And I wouldn't want to feel like I had to compare to them. I agree with that, I'd feel like I would have to lose a few extra pounds and junk, but I know he doesn't... 'Cause well, I'd kick his hiney if he did... I don't see why you'd watch porn for pleasure, its just the human body with people paid to have sex or should i say "Sex" with one another. That is definatly not what sex is about.... I just think its weird.. Anyway, semi-rant over =) |
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