i like this girl Options

[Tung]

There's this girl who's in my class, and the very first couple of weeks, I notice she always checking me out, because everytime I look at her from the corner of my eye, I can see her looking at me lol. I didn't pay her any mind, until the last couple of weeks, when we were assigned partners for this skit. Hence, we had to practice the skit together, and we talked, etc. After getting to know her more, I found she had alot of similar interests as me, and I was falling for her. So what I'm trying to say is, I'm starting to like her. I've even convinced her to take a class with me for Winter Quarter, and I referred her to my work, so she will be working with me too. What I want to know is, does she like me also? I'm not sure, because I was just assuming she liked me in the beginning of the class when she kept looking at me before we knew each other. But just because someone checks you out, doesn't mean they like you like that right? I'm too afraid to ask her, because if she doesn't, it might be really awkward, and ruin this new friendship we are having. On the other hand, if I do ask her, and tell her how I feel, and she feels the same way, then that's good right? I don't know, I'm just really uncertain about things.

[Joanne]

and I referred her to my work, so she will be working with me too.

WHY?

Anyway, from what you're telling us, I think you'll have a chance with her. Just take a slow... don't rush her or anything, but it's possible the only reason why she looked at you a lot in class is because she thought you looked cool and wanted to be friends.

[DoubleJ]

I say feel her out a bit more and see what happens. It would make things awkward if you told her and then she didn't like you....trust me....I have done that too many times. If you do have an undeniable feeling that she is having the same feeling, don't fall into the "brother" zone.

[Gigi]

Is it normal for a guy to just out and say..."I like you" right away? Or similarly, "Do you like me?" Honestly if someone asked me that, I would be a little taken aback. Even if I did like them.

I mean, I think if you want to test the waters, just ask her out. You don't have to tell her you like her...yet. Of course we know from the very fact that you asked her out that it's because you like her. But girls are constantly in denial and like to make themselves think otherwise (i.e., "Oh, he's just being friendly". Yeah I've heard that one a lot). If she accepts the offer then it only means that she likes you enough to hang out with you outside of work or class time...which is a good sign. Take it slow, don't jump into it.

Besides that, asking someone out casually could mean an array of things...you like her, you want to take things further, you just want to hang out with a new friend, etc., so there's room for ambiguity, which makes the whole thing a lot more fun. Plus if it turns out she actually doesn't like you, then no harm done.

[Joss-eh-lime]

i'd say that if she seriously considers taking the class with you, or taking the job, then she porbably likes you.

[ReggieM]

Things are looking good tung. But NEVER tell a girl you like her first, unless she ask's.

If you do you forfit all of the power to her, and the "chase" won't be as fun for her meaning you might be stuck with her playing hard to get with you.

Just like gigi i think mentioned just ride her out pun intended and see how that goes. She could possibly even have a boy friend or something. So just try to spend more time with her until A. a relationship just forms. B.Till you get some. C. She lets you know her feelings.

[NoSex]

chill wit dah lady mo.
that's it; nothing more or less to it. just let the relationship develop NATURALLY. if you bring the relationship into the realm of expectations it will fail to be as exciting, visceral, or interesting... this will hurt your romantic opportunities (or whatever the f*ck). just don't worry about anything & try to have a good time. if it's going to happen, it will... eventually, gradually maybe, but naturally. it's always better that way. so, don't say anything.

[fameONE]

Actions speak louder than words. Offer to take her out to dinner. You could at least start by asking her if she wants to go to Starbucks. Man up, don't be a punk about it. The worst she could say is no.

[FreakyFellow]

let it take some more time...let things get settled gradually ...then you can ask her..but don't stop keep trying...lol