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Shy or Insecure?
bigtrey90
post Sep 5 2008, 04:47 PM
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My friend is a friendly nice guy, who is always easy to approach. He has a hard time finding other friends in college, and doesn't know exactly how or what to say to make them. I suggest parties, but he tells me their just for drinking, and he is not into that. He can't seem to find anyone that relates to him, and anyone he is friendly with is just a "hi" and walk by friend. He feels left out at times and sits in his room thinking about whether to go out or not because he doesn't have any guy friends to go out with.

Any suggestions on how I could help him overcome this issue?
 

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bigtrey90   Shy or Insecure?   Sep 5 2008, 04:47 PM
cakedout   QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 02:47 PM) I...   Sep 5 2008, 04:48 PM
AyeVickaye   You should take him out and introduce him to new p...   Sep 5 2008, 04:57 PM
misoshiru   moved to relationships.   Sep 5 2008, 05:03 PM
ArjunaCapulong   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Sep 5 2008, 05:03 PM) m...   Sep 5 2008, 05:07 PM
karmakiller   I used to be like that. I guess I didn't have ...   Sep 5 2008, 05:33 PM
cakedout   PARTY POOPER   Sep 5 2008, 05:45 PM
karmakiller   Such insightfulness you possess.   Sep 5 2008, 05:59 PM
cakedout   Now why in the world do you insist of killing the ...   Sep 5 2008, 06:00 PM
bigtrey90   cakedout you offer such awful advice   Sep 5 2008, 06:33 PM
ArjunaCapulong   QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 06:33 PM) c...   Sep 5 2008, 09:41 PM
cakedout   QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 5 2008, 04:33 PM) c...   Sep 9 2008, 11:04 AM
bigtrey90   QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 9 2008, 11:04 AM) ht...   Sep 10 2008, 01:44 PM
cakedout   QUOTE(bigtrey90 @ Sep 10 2008, 11:44 AM) ...   Sep 10 2008, 04:40 PM
towntown2   The best thing to do would be to encourage him to ...   Sep 5 2008, 09:28 PM
Tomates   take him out sometime. Then maybe another day hang...   Sep 5 2008, 09:49 PM
bigtrey90   good advice!   Sep 6 2008, 12:37 AM
MrStrife   It's hard but he needs to get over it. Or else...   Sep 9 2008, 01:09 AM
manic   QUOTE(MrStrife @ Sep 9 2008, 01:09 AM) It...   Sep 10 2008, 01:52 PM
DoubleJ   Normally I would say just go and get drunk, but tr...   Sep 9 2008, 12:53 PM
Tungster   Give him a can of beer, and he'll loosen up.   Sep 9 2008, 01:41 PM
Insurmountable   I think he needs to get over being quiet and get o...   Sep 10 2008, 03:05 PM
-----   Tell him to get more involved in classes and event...   Sep 10 2008, 03:30 PM
bigtrey90   Thanks for all the helpful advice! He has bee...   Sep 10 2008, 04:21 PM


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