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 Sep 2 2008, 10:15 PM
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So I've liked this girl for quite a while now and I told her I liked her a few months ago and we still were 'just friends'. I want to tell her that I still like her tomorrow and why. She's been confusing and at times i feel like she's flirting with me but I don't know how to explain it. I constantly flirt with her and it's obvious that I like her but I don't know what to expect. I don't just want to be the friend that she tells everything to and goes to get her haircut with her. Blehh. Help please.
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Sep 2 2008, 10:43 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Well, then tell her. Simply and honestly, though. No need to get into a long, winding explanation.
I think if she doesn't feel the same way, she'll let you know. Be prepared for the possibility of rejection. |
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Sep 2 2008, 11:15 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Instead of telling her, which might just turn her off from becoming more than friends with you, why don't you ask her to hang out with you? If she's already acting different ways with you, don't make it worse. Just casually ask her if she wants to go to dinner or to a movie or hang out at the mall with you. And then see how things go from there.
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Sep 3 2008, 05:20 AM
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Ask her if she's single when a conversation is in the way.
Tell' her the truth. |
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Sep 5 2008, 04:43 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
hang out with her more.. and if you already are hanging out with her a lot, try to hang out with her alone a few times.. then see how things go from there and then ask her out? like someone else said, you have to be ready for the possibility of rejection though.
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Sep 5 2008, 04:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 388 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 682,013 |
Tell her how you feel yo. thats one way to start.
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Sep 5 2008, 04:56 PM
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lmao you sound whipped as hell, and your not even getting the nookie
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Sep 6 2008, 09:41 AM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 5 2008, 05:56 PM)  lmao you sound whipped as hell, and your not even getting the nookie haha agreed... Before you do anything, ask yourself if you are telling yourself the truth. Do you really think she likes you any amount? Is her flirty-ness to you significant, or is that just her personality? It sounds to me like she doesn't like you, but you try to force yourself to believe that she does a little. That could be the harsh truth, but I could also be wrong. Good luck, and don't do anything stupid to make things akward, because then you will be very sad. |
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