Strong Opinions Needed!, Kinda Long, but I really apprecaite those who read it. (: Options

[ilikeyerrpants]

*Names have been changed.

I like this guy, *Colby. He doesn't know it, or at least not that I know of. We've known of each other for a while now through his sister, but we've never talked until now. We have a class together, Chemistry && we go into the lab quite a lot, and he always comes to my group. (: I really want to get to know him better, he's single and looking for the right girl. Well, I wrote him on myspace and just said Hey *Colby. (: but he never wrote back. Well, today in the hallway, he stared me down hard, kinda in a warm way. We've always been friendly-friendly with each other, but he's never looked at me in the eyes like that before && today in the lab our teacher said only four in a group, and my group already had four, and he still tried to be in my group. Hahaha! (: well, he sat at the group behind me, and we were building a rocket and I was helping my group and one of the guys in his group and he said "*Morgan!, *Morgan!, Do Mine!" lol.

So uhm, yeah, the famous question is, do you think he's sweet on me? Like do you think he likes me? Friend/Crush/More?

[batman]

I think you need to stop reading into it.

[ilikeyerrpants]

that's probably true, hahaha.
thanks (:

[imperfectionistx]

There might be something going on with it, but I don't think enough has happened between the two of you to substantiate much. I guess keep getting to know him. It just sounds like typical boy/girl interaction to me.

[Gigi]

Just sounds like he's being friendly. Like Melissa said, you're analyzing it too much. Don't get yourself stuck in that place where you've convinced yourself absolutely that a guy likes you, when the exact opposite is the case.

[Castaway]

^ i agree.
Give it some time.. spend some more time with him. You'll probably figure it out by then. If not, post another topic like this =]

[ilikeyerrpants]

thanks everyone.
I will do just that.
I will give it some time. Get to know him better. (:
&& if anything else happens I'll post. (:

[ilikeyerrpants]

As previously stated, I may be reading too much into this, but within like one minute he looked at me three times! Each time would be he'd look at me & I look at him but he'd look away!

&& He looked at me in the hall again today! Twice, both times we passed each other.

&& When his rocket launched the FARTHEST, he looked directly at me and smiled.

[Gigi]

Okay, counting the number of times a guy looks at you in a day, or smiles, is not only creepy, it's a big sign of getting yourself into "that place where you've convinced yourself absolutely that a guy likes you". Then the guy gets a girlfriend and you feel like the biggest dumbass in the world. Don't let that happen to you.

[ilikeyerrpants]

oh wow, i didn't realize that I was doing that.
thanks, a lot..

[batman]

Okay, counting the number of times a guy looks at you in a day, or smiles, is not only creepy, it's a big sign of getting yourself into "that place where you've convinced yourself absolutely that a guy likes you". Then the guy gets a girlfriend and you feel like the biggest dumbass in the world. Don't let that happen to you.

Never, ever, ever judge whether someone likes you or not based on how many times you catch them looking at you. The only reason you're aware of him looking at you is because you've already convinced yourself that he likes you. There might be another guy in the room doing the exact same thing, but you don't even realize it.

It doesn't mean a thing.

[Gigi]

Yeah you should honestly try it. I've done it before. Look at another guy that you have no feelings for, or you don't feel anything with. Guaranteed, you can "make" those special moments happen by looking at him for long enough...eventually he's going to have to look your way, and when he sees you looking at him, he'll look back some more. It's really not an indication of anything unless the guy mouths "I love you" to you while looking. And even then he could be saying "elephant shoes".

[Joanne]

^ That "elephant shoes" bit made me laugh. Good times.

[Blyat]

to me it's either he likes you or he's an attention whore
he likes the way you possibly give him attention (it doesn't mean im saying your giving him too much) some guys like a certain way a girl goes to them

does that make sense? :/

[batman]

nope

[*cakedout*]

well if you open up your legs, you'll know his true intentions

[previouslynumber...]

but within like one minute he looked at me three times! Each time would be he'd look at me & I look at him but he'd look away!

I think he was wondering how one earth someone could be so goddamn ugly.

[diputs]

Yeah you should honestly try it. I've done it before. Look at another guy that you have no feelings for, or you don't feel anything with. Guaranteed, you can "make" those special moments happen by looking at him for long enough...eventually he's going to have to look your way, and when he sees you looking at him, he'll look back some more. It's really not an indication of anything unless the guy mouths "I love you" to you while looking. And even then he could be saying "elephant shoes".

haha i just had to think about "Olive Juice" from Family Guy!

but yeah i totally agree with Gigi!

fxed ..it .. lol (i promise it was a typo .. )

[Gigi]

^ Thanks for the support, but if you call type me as GiGi instead of Gigi again, I will not be so kind.

Just a heads up.

[ilikeyerrpants]

Okay, I'm confused.. Just a little though..
So, As you are saying Gigi [I hope that's how its spelled], I made the special moments happen by looking at him so much, and counting the looks? and if I look at another guy whom I don't have feelings for, or don't even like a bit at all, he will eventually act the same as Colby?

[Gigi]

Please re-read my previous post. It's Gigi. No. Capitals. After. The. First. Capital. G. Alright?

Now that that's done with. Yes, what you just said is a concise reiteration of what I said before.

[ilikeyerrpants]

[quote name='MissUchiha' date='Dec 10 2008, 05:06 PM' post='3094517']
to me it's either he likes you or he's an attention whore
he likes the way you possibly give him attention (it doesn't mean im saying your giving him too much) some guys like a certain way a girl goes to them

does that make sense? :/

Yes, it does. Thanks. [:

[ilikeyerrpants]

Please re-read my previous post. It's Gigi. No. Capitals. After. The. First. Capital. G. Alright?

Now that that's done with. Yes, what you just said is a concise reiteration of what I said before.

Sorry, I misread it.