DANGER!, You are now entering the friend zone |
DANGER!, You are now entering the friend zone |
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![]() Mais je ne l'aime pas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 ![]() |
This guy's name is R.
I've been friends with R since sophomore year. We joked around a lot, and maybe flirted a little. My friends began to suspect that he had feelings for me, but I turned the idea down. Then, my own feelings started to rise up. I flirted, but neither one of us ever admitted anything. I controlled my feelings because I wasn't ready for a relationship, and I didn't want to lose him as a friend. It wasn't until toward the end of last year that a friend of R's, K, asked if I had feelings for him. I confessed I did, and she told me that R feels the same way. Still, nothing happened. Summer came, and R came to my piano recital. I remember him stepping out of my mom's car and saying to me, "It was an honor watching you play. Thank you for inviting me." I thought that was sweet. He and I went to a nice dinner, but he made sure that I didn't think it was a date. He didn't want to be attached. I'd intended to let him know that I like him at the end of the dinner, but I didn't want to ruin the night by putting a heavy atmosphere on it. Today, he and I were at 6th period together, and I decided to be honest. I told him I still like him, but again, R told me that he prefers to be single even though he likes me. After school, he told me that I'm in the middle of being a good friend and a potential girlfriend. -sigh- The friend zone. The thing is, my feelings toward having a relationship is kind of the same. But I'd make an exception for him. He doesn't seem to want to do that, yet I really wish he would do the same for me, you know? This is just...frustrating! |
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