A little...too extreme. Options

[FishesGoRawr]

I've never really had guys into me. My friends insure me I'm good looking it's just my overall attitude towards guys is a little..relaxed. I'm just one of the guys. I play video games, I watch sports.

Well there is this guy that went to my school who was obsessed with a former best friend (..how obsessed? He got arrested outside her building for singing too loudly at 2 in the morning the song of her and her actual boyfriend)

Me and him were pretty good friends until this all went down. He got sent to a psyche ward. (YES an actual psyche ward) Now is diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bi-Polar. Well apparently my former best friend was just in the wrong place at the wrong time when he became obsessed with her.

Who does he actually like? Apparently it's me. He's started to get just as obsessive. Phoning me all the time, won't take no for an answer. Telling people we're dating, and when I correct the story he says I'm a tease. Though he knows I've never been into him. I've been straight up this entire time (It's hard not to be with the majority of my friends being guys)

But now I'm getting a bit scared, so I'm not entirely sure what to do. Ideas?

[mizzkewl06]

wow. well i've never been in a situation like that, but my best advice is to be very cautious. try not to put yourself in compromising situations. be watchful and careful when you go out. don't over do it by being paranoid, but don't be too chill about it either.

[FishesGoRawr]

Yeah, I've started to keep my cell phone on me. If i go see a good guy friend who lives around where he lives I am careful especially when I pass a park he frequents at. Luckily for me anytime he's out at the park he's with a friend I know who phones for him to ask if I want to hangout. I always say no. His friend completely understands and says he does it to get him to chill out but he knows my answer will always be no.

I am not that paranoid but still it's a little frightening not knowing what he could do.

[karmakiller]

Be careful and keep your distance. Count yourself lucky that you know that he has problems and aren't letting him work his way into your life. There are a lot of women who don't know the past of a man and he starts stalking her and she doesn't know her options. If he makes ANY threats to you, keep the message and show somsone (I don't know how old you are) and go to the police if you feel in fear.

[FishesGoRawr]

I'm seventeen, unfortunately we also go to the same high school (which is very small so avoiding him is difficult) and sadly his friends told me he'll be in the same drama class as me. So I'm a bit worried especially being as we have a new drama teacher who doesn't understand the situation unlike my previous drama teacher.

[towntown2]

Yikes, that's scary.
Uh..watch yourself.

Whenever you go to a place that he'll be at simultaneously, don't be alone.
I think that's the most important thing.
Never ever ever be alone with him.

Don't hesitate to call for help from anybody.
Teachers, conselors, parents, etc.

[creole]

I'm seventeen, unfortunately we also go to the same high school (which is very small so avoiding him is difficult) and sadly his friends told me he'll be in the same drama class as me. So I'm a bit worried especially being as we have a new drama teacher who doesn't understand the situation unlike my previous drama teacher.

Make sure your psycho friend or drama teacher try to kill you like on Prom Night.

Kidding, just hang out with your friends, and try to always be with someone you trust/rely.

[Blyat]

restraining order!!

i have this guy whose like me for 3 years now, he texts my sister saying he still wants me
he followed me all over the place on the 4th of july (hiding behin trees watching me, coming to me 5 times asking me to watch the fireworks with him.)
my mum thought i was being over dramatic, well after the 4th of july she regretted the whole thing
i even tried talking to him trying to sound bitchy and all i got form him was "i will find another girl as perfect as you. i will always love you"


you really need to hardcore talk to him even if it could possibly ruin your friendship
especially if he is diagnosed with something. if he ever gets to the extreme CALL the police

[Joss-eh-lime]

thats creepy and that sucks!

restraining order?

[FishesGoRawr]

If I talk to him, I don't want to be alone so that doesn't work. I could get a restraining order, but I don't have any real reason to as of yet. I'm going to keep safe etc but if it gets extreme like phoning my parents or following me then I'll have to.

I've talked to him before that's the thing but it doesn't go through. He just goes back to his friends saying "I think she's into me dude"

[CocaineNoseJob]

Have someone beat the shit outta him. lol jk, dont do that. well its a tuffy. if he does anything to invade your personal space or privacy, I think you should take legal action and get a restraining order on the kid. Tell any sort of authority that this guy is making you feel uncomfortable and he won't listen to you. I personally would have gotten this kid beat up. but violence is never the answer! lol