all alone again Options

[unf0rsak3n]

not that long ago, i was supposed to fight this girl. we were a little bit of friends last year. but then this year she was talking about me to her friend, my ex-bf's new gf. n then i called her a name, she got pissed off then we were supposed to fight. but then my friend, who was a little of hers, was in between so nothing happened because i listened her. however, after that both of us, me and this friend, stopped talking completely. she said that she mad at me because at times when we would go to church, my cell phone would ring and i would just start talking [ that was b4 or after the service] but she did the same exact thing. now someone just goes to my xanga and writes stuff about how this best friend was talking about me. i want to confront them but i also don't want to lose the status of our friendship, or whatever you want to call it when she doesn't bother to talk to me anymore.
that someone on my xanga also wrote that all of my friends hated me and all the guys don't want me at church at all. i want to ask but it would seem so low. what am i supposed to do?

[unf0rsak3n]

can someone plz just give me some advice?

[conster]

im sorta lost.. but i think u should ask them anyways u dont want an enemy rite? and clarify it on xanga about how u feel about this and only say it once cuz if u say it more than once ppl gonna think u jus trying to lie or whatever nad jus show that u got nothin to hide cuz u didnt do anything wrong

[SarahxJoy]

I don't really get why they wouldn't like you..doesn't sounds as if you've done anything wrong. They're probably just thinking that because someone's been spreading things? I dunno, but I think you should confront them about this and see what they say.

[unf0rsak3n]

all i did was call someone a name, then she told everyone. she started spreading the rumors. and now at that place, no one likes me any more. three people just came up to my xanga to say that. b4 they put everything on different xangas so that i wouldn't find them but after i told them they used their own. now one of them says that no one there likes me at all!!

[conster]

i say keep goin to church or wherever u wanna go, its jus rumors, if they were true friends they woulda asked u and believed u and plus like i said announce it on xanga once how u feel about it and thats it, cuz if u explain too many times then they'll think ur jus trying to win them over, jus be like believe it or not i dont care what u ppl say and i dont care if u like it or not im still going

[unf0rsak3n]

im trying to get the people there to shut up and prove that they're all lies but it really does work. thanks for the advice.

[NawtyLilAznChic]

even tho im against church, i think u should go weneva tha f*ck [i didnt want createblog ta change it ta fudge lol] u wana go, its not their church its not their decision, its urs n only urs, if u believe in god n luv him, go right ahead

that person on ur xanga could b n e one, its prolly that grl that u were gona fight wit, i dont think u should listen ta wat otha ppl say, u should only believe it wen u c it, dont give in ta tha gossip

iono if i helped but gl

[conster]

theres that quote that goes something like the people who matter wouldnt think of u that way, the people who think of u that way shouldnt matter

[unf0rsak3n]

thanks you guys, i talked it over with that girl. now it seems like that girl alone didn't do anything, it was her friend, my best friend. but that part is okay. thanks for your advice