whats he trying to say?, :( |
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 Aug 13 2008, 07:28 PM
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Okay, I confessed to a guy I liked him, but he said he didn't like me in that way. I didn't have a boyfriend then, but he had a girlfriend. Me and him we're great friends. And even after I confessed we still remained as if nothing ever was said, he treated me the same. Basically, he still flirted with me tons, and he still looked me dead in the eye and smiled. But today I went to his work [which is where I normally go to see him] but I was with my boyfriend and he didn't even speak to me! Luckily, I knew the manager there and I talked to him, although the guy I originally went to see, stood there right in front of me and my boyfriend, but didn't say anything. That's so not like him!
I don't get it, why would he act this way? Do you think he likes me secretly but doesn't think I should know because he has a girlfriend? and he definitely isn't a cheater. Might I add that he looked at me with somewhat of sad eyes when he saw I had a boyfriend. |
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Aug 13 2008, 07:35 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Maybe he's a bit jealous.
Even though he may not want to be in a relationship with you, he might feel a certain ownership over your affections. Sort of, "If I can't have you, then no one else can." There's a possibility that he has considered you as a reliable backup. Like if his girlfriend leaves, he knows he could turn to you. Kinda possessive, if you ask me. Best bet is to talk about it. |
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Aug 13 2008, 08:24 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
It takes a lot to be able to look into somebodys eyes. So, I'm basically going with the fact that its all in the eyes. Its obvious that there's something there if he did give you those "sad eyes" look. It could be that he's jealous but I can't say for sure that he likes you secretly. If we assume worse case scenario with the fact that he liked having you like him (because, who doesn't wanna feel loved) and now that he saw you with somebody else and no longer, as the poster above me said, the ownership of your affection, he probably doesn't know what to say and probably wants to strangle your boyfriend.
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Aug 13 2008, 08:30 PM
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QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Aug 13 2008, 09:24 PM)  It takes a lot to be able to look into somebodys eyes. So, I'm basically going with the fact that its all in the eyes. Its obvious that there's something there if he did give you those "sad eyes" look. It could be that he's jealous but I can't say for sure that he likes you secretly. If we assume worse case scenario with the fact that he liked having you like him (because, who doesn't wanna feel loved) and now that he saw you with somebody else and no longer, as the poster above me said, the ownership of your affection, he probably doesn't know what to say and probably wants to strangle your boyfriend. hahahahahaha! I wouldn't doubt that part. He kinda doesn't like my boyfriend, but in a way their somewhat friends. |
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Aug 13 2008, 08:43 PM
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That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Yeah, that's a lie and you know it.
 he's just being nice to him for you. He probably burns a hole through your boyfriend with his grill when you aren't looking. Haha.
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Aug 13 2008, 10:15 PM
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Simple: He's jealous
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Aug 14 2008, 05:55 PM
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QUOTE(xSyncx @ Aug 13 2008, 11:15 PM) Simple: He's jealous I'm beginning to think so too, I mean, I went up there today WITHOUT my boyfriend, and he talked to me. I simply do not get guys. At all. |
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Aug 14 2008, 05:57 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I agree with Jane. Either he is jealous, because he is a good friend of you and just doesn't like your boyfriend. Or he is jealous because he has feelings for you.
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Aug 14 2008, 05:58 PM
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QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Aug 13 2008, 09:43 PM) Yeah, that's a lie and you know it. he's just being nice to him for you. He probably burns a hole through your boyfriend with his grill when you aren't looking. Haha.rotfl. 
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Aug 14 2008, 07:20 PM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Aug 14 2008, 06:57 PM) I agree with Jane. Either he is jealous, because he is a good friend of you and just doesn't like your boyfriend. Or he is jealous because he has feelings for you. That could be so. (: and to everyone who replied, thanks. I appreciate it (: |
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Aug 14 2008, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE(ilikeyerrpants @ Aug 14 2008, 05:55 PM) I simply do not get guys. At all. Most guys don't girls either |
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Aug 14 2008, 11:06 PM
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That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
QUOTE(ilikeyerrpants @ Aug 14 2008, 06:55 PM) I simply do not get guys. At all. I always thought they were straightforward. You can tell in their face how they feel, and if you ask them, they're pretty to the point. If it keeps happening, you should just talk to him about it.
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Aug 15 2008, 06:14 AM
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that may be true, I may just not be good at reading them. lol. (:
and thanks, I will. (: |
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Aug 15 2008, 06:49 PM
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lol, i promise i won't kill you. But he works at our local mall at the chic-fil-a, so I don't think he could tell & plus, at first we weren't going to go over and talk to anyone until Warren, my friend, also the assistant manager, called us over there.
And today I went up there and talked to me again, I wasn't with my boyfriend, but he recognized me from the back and yelled out my name, lol. and plus he tried to con me into buying him a shirt lol. but I didn't give in. (: |
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