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[Cridusa]

O.k i work at Tj maxx and its this boy that i like but i think he likes me. When he first saw me we kept eye contact. He thought i was older to i was younger then him though. well when we both got out of work hecame over by me at the bus stop and squeeze my gut. He said my gut was hanging. Then he went on to tell me that he dated alot of christina's before. And its more. WHen ever we are working together he would touch me and squeeze my hips. He also like to play around and come behind me and hold me. He cares about how i be feeling. One day when we was closing the store he came done one of the iles were i was at and when nobody was looking he grab me and gave me a kiss on my cheek. He also wanted to drink a beer with me so basiclly he wanted me to come over. but also he think some gurls there are cute. I gave him my cell and home number and he havent call. Do you think he like ma and want to go out. Do you think he going to call and also do you think that kiss meant something what you think

[tokyo-rose]

If he touches you like that and even kissed you, it's pretty obvious that he's at least physically attracted to you. How long ago did you give him your phone numbers? And does he treat other girls at your workplace the way he treats you? If so, then he's probably just playing the field and doesn't want to commit to any one of you yet, if he plans to at all.

[vintage-toile]

for some reason this seems a little off putting for you, and i would be careful of this guy.
how much older than you is he?
what put me off was saying your gut was hanging or something, i don't know if anyone else will agree but if that's a chat up line or taking a pass at you that is LAME.
be careful i would say.

[Glamourouz]

^^^Like she said, be careful...it's so funny how females fall for game so easily & it's usually weak game, dudes don't even have to try hard nowadays...but um back to you, it could be just a physical attraction,could be more, you have to give it time & if you can't wait, then simply ask...give guys time to call, now if it's been over a wekk, ummm don't count on the call...never assume things, that's how you set yourself up, just go with the flow & let things unravel...and also don't fall for everything so easily...just be cool & enjoy you two's semi-moments...

[karmakiller]

Something doesn't seem right. He pinched your stomach and told you it was hanging out? That doesn't seem like a form of flirting.

I don't know how old you are. By the way you talk here I'm assuming you're pretty young. I'd say be careful. Something just doesn't seem right.

[Cridusa]

It's starting to feel funny. He's kinda acking funny in my eyes. I ask him do he want to hang out to day he always have something to do . I'm getting sick of this. But hey he talk to me today but he was kinda acking funny towards me today sometomes you know. One minute we are talking and the next minute we are not. At work. I remeber he was talking about my friend on the fun saying she look like a man but he staeady flirting with her and its hurting me inside but i dont show it . Thats pretty good at my part and I cant really say anything because then Ill be wrong. My friend keli the one he said look like a man he lift her up in the brake room which piss me off but i had to play that shit of. Im about to say just f**k it and leave his ass alone. Thats why I dont mess around with people at my jobn because childish things like that. He was looking at my ass today I dont know why and I dont like that. I remember ask him what he like about me and he said my thick body and i ask him is that it but he said i had a cute face and he like me but i dont know if its true what he is saying or he just wanted to gte in my pans, I remeber he ask me to spend the night so I dont know about him. by the way im 18 teen