is it likely that the girl is attached? |
 May 31 2008, 06:15 PM
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Hey guys, so last week I was at a party and I ended up hooking up with this girl and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Do you think she is attached by now? and is it wrong if I hook up with other people?
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May 31 2008, 06:21 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
has she contacted you? Does she want to hang out more with you?
Are you assuming she's attached just because you had sex with her? Some girls are like that but most aren't. My bff just hooked up with her prom date from a year ago and she just did it because she was "bored and on the prowl," she said she would never want to date him. |
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May 31 2008, 09:29 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
QUOTE(Flaunted @ May 31 2008, 07:21 PM)  has she contacted you? Does she want to hang out more with you? Are you assuming she's attached just because you had sex with her? Some girls are like that but most aren't. I agree but most girls do get attatched no matter what they try to lead people to believe, it might not be right off but eventually they might especially if it's a first time, really good to them, or it happens often unless you're some jump off, then of course you wouldn't get attatched, because hooking up is your fix... |
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Jun 1 2008, 01:39 AM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Always assume a girl is attached to you unless she says she's not. And NEVER NEVER NEVER hook up with another girl when you're with someone or are unsure about someone. NEVER.
NEVER. |
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Jun 1 2008, 01:48 AM
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<3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
Maybe you're dealing with an immature ho that doesn't get the fact that you just want in her pants and nothing more. Tell her and move on. boo hoo for her.
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Jun 2 2008, 01:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
yeah, she actually has contacted me and she wants to go to hookah bars and six flags n those kind of things with me, -_-. I dunno...the last thing I want is for me to worry about someone else because I just got out of a long relationship and I kinda sorta still have feelings for my ex-gf, which makes things really complicated lol.
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Jun 2 2008, 01:42 PM
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<3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
QUOTE(Flaunted @ Jun 1 2008, 01:48 AM) Maybe you're dealing with an immature ho that doesn't get the fact that you just want in her pants and nothing more. Tell her that you don't want anything from this relationship and move on. boo hoo for her. |
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Jun 3 2008, 08:58 AM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
depends by the girl and how drunk she was at that party. You did say one thing led to another. She might be attached or it was a one night fling.
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Jun 7 2008, 11:41 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
It kind of depends on the girl.
If she calls you back, then yes. (Which I assume is a yes) 
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Jun 8 2008, 07:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 605,790 |
You should talk to her about it. Get it out in the open so you don't have to worry.
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Jun 8 2008, 08:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
dizz thradd fukenn dum...
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Jun 9 2008, 03:58 AM
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 Kissing for yesterday. Group: Official Designer Posts: 465 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,813 |
^^ as they said talking is good.
but hooking up with a girl the first night you met her and not expecting her to be slightly attatched is not the way to go about things. learn from this and just don't do it again. or it could end up in a really sticky situation one day... ahahaha. 
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Jun 9 2008, 10:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(vintage-toile @ Jun 9 2008, 04:58 AM) ^^ as they said talking is good. but hooking up with a girl the first night you met her and not expecting her to be slightly attatched is not the way to go about things. learn from this and just don't do it again. or it could end up in a really sticky situation one day... ahahaha. u waakk... stttoppp talkkenn NUB... OP doucchee dunnoo shiett buttt makee randumm shiettt uupp.. |
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Jun 16 2008, 05:19 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,171 |
i'm ashamed of you! i can't believe you would actually hook up with another girl after being out of a long term relationship. i don't care if you guys are broken up. but the fact that being with someone for so long and STILL HAVE FEELINGS for !!! is the dumbest thing u can do. and to have sex with some random chick. i don't think you would like it if ur ex gf goes around fuking some random guy on the first night. but anyways. don't mean to be harsh.
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Jun 17 2008, 12:12 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Dude. You're not dating her are you? No. Don't worry about what she thinks. You don't know what she thinks, so just go on the notion that she's not even thinking about it.
Well, it depends really. From my experience and testimonials, girls get attached no matter what. Friends with benefits and hooking up always ends with the girl wanting to date. No way around it. All you gots ta do is tell her no. She'll leave you alone. |
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