I'm in love with one of the contacts in my msn list ! |
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 Jun 3 2008, 12:00 PM
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Hi
I jst want your advice here about a year and a hlf ago I started chattin with a guy and then I started actin weird abt this thing. I started w8in for him to go online every nyt and stuff like that and I knew that I fell in love with him... the problem iz that we are in 2 different countries, we hav different nationalitiez and I dnt think that we can meet soon. When I told him that I love him he said that he does not want to manipulate me or to make me live in a dream and told me that this is not gonna get us anywhere and that I will find the right person for me in the future and he sed that he loves me as a close friend. I asked him to forget me but he sed he cannot do that, coz I'm so precious to him. We still are friendz and I still talk to him ! The thing iz that I still love him, so I jst wanna no what I should do coz I'm very tired and confused ! plz tell me wot to do ! |
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Jun 3 2008, 02:12 PM
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QUOTE(x-hotchocbun-x @ Jun 3 2008, 01:00 PM)  Hi I jst want your advice here about a year and a hlf ago I started chattin with a guy and then I started actin weird abt this thing. I started w8in for him to go online every nyt and stuff like that and I knew that I fell in love with him... the problem iz that we are in 2 different countries, we hav different nationalitiez and I dnt think that we can meet soon. When I told him that I love him he said that he does not want to manipulate me or to make me live in a dream and told me that this is not gonna get us anywhere and that I will find the right person for me in the future and he sed that he loves me as a close friend. I asked him to forget me but he sed he cannot do that, coz I'm so precious to him. We still are friendz and I still talk to him ! The thing iz that I still love him, so I jst wanna no what I should do coz I'm very tired and confused ! plz tell me wot to do ! NIICEEE.. HAHAHAHAHA  AIMM orr MSSN chatt justt greaatt... ppl saii LUV LUV LUV... LUV LUV... showww eecchh othaa pix n shiet.. n denn sayy u luvv eechh othaa.. |
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Jun 3 2008, 03:11 PM
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haha ^^ what he said was kind of true im afraid.
if you have no idea who this person is having met them, then chances are you are not completely in love with them. i'm always waring of people who claim to "love" another on the internet having never met them, it just doesn't seem right sometimes. are you absolutely 100% they are who they say they are? although it may seem hard, you need to try to see that long distance relationships are harder than they may seem, especially if you are hurting for him now. and if you've never met him..it's slightly irrational! |
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Jun 4 2008, 03:58 AM
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QUOTE(vintage-toile @ Jun 4 2008, 12:11 AM) . are you absolutely 100% they are who they say they are? ! yes i am .. i even saw him by webcam .. and i sent him a pic of me ! |
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Jun 4 2008, 07:28 AM
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man man man/ gurl gurl gurl
if you love a person that you don't know in real life so n*gga you the biggest no-life i've ever seen  will you f**k by MSN ? " ho yea type faster faster faster hell YEAAAAAAAAAA "
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Jun 4 2008, 12:33 PM
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QUOTE(Be-Faithful @ Jun 4 2008, 04:28 PM) man man man/ gurl gurl gurl if you love a person that you don't know in real life so n*gga you the biggest no-life i've ever seen will you f**k by MSN ? " ho yea type faster faster faster hell YEAAAAAAAAAA "  there r ppl hu got married by msn they simply just met each other -_- |
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Jun 4 2008, 01:25 PM
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I'm not trying to be mean here, but to be honest, your situation is a tad pathetic. Quit wasting your time on cyber-dude and find somebody in real life to fall in love with.
Maybe I'm just being close-minded, but people who get married (how in the world does that work?!) or carry on a "serious" relationship (that clearly isnt going anywhere) over the internet should be bitch slapped. Just because you send pics/ do video chats, doesn't mean the person really is who they say they are. There are a lot of excellent actors out there. From one young woman to another- Whatever you decide to do, please be careful. QUOTE(Be-Faithful @ Jun 4 2008, 08:28 AM) man man man/ gurl gurl gurl if you love a person that you don't know in real life so n*gga you the biggest no-life i've ever seen will you f**k by MSN ? " ho yea type faster faster faster hell YEAAAAAAAAAA " I lol'd 
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Jun 11 2008, 01:31 PM
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QUOTE(DeviantShadows @ Jun 4 2008, 02:25 PM) I'm not trying to be mean here, but to be honest, your situation is a tad pathetic. Quit wasting your time on cyber-dude and find somebody in real life to fall in love with. Maybe I'm just being close-minded, but people who get married (how in the world does that work?!) or carry on a "serious" relationship (that clearly isnt going anywhere) over the internet should be bitch slapped. Just because you send pics/ do video chats, doesn't mean the person really is who they say they are. There are a lot of excellent actors out there. I agree..there are lots of people out there who pretend to be someone that they're not...they could be lying and playing with you for all you know.. 
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Jun 11 2008, 02:17 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
this is how internet predators get their girls by making them believe what they want to believe.
QUOTE(x-hotchocbun-x @ Jun 4 2008, 01:33 PM) there r ppl hu got married by msn they simply just met each other -_- SOME do! but majority of them don't not all people appear as they are online. trust me from experience. |
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