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 Jun 24 2004, 10:34 AM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
Well to tell u the truth i would never date a boy my age. im 13 but still right now i'm datin sum1 way older. probably my choice of what age a boy should b for me is 15-18 lol i no it sounds wrong but still i don't like dating boys my age. What do u think and fourteen year olds well i consider them in range to but prefer 15 and older
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Jun 24 2004, 11:06 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(Jayembe @ Jun 24 2004, 10:34 AM) Well to tell u the truth i would never date a boy my age. im 13 but still right now i'm datin sum1 way older. probably my choice of what age a boy should b for me is 15-18 lol i no it sounds wrong but still i don't like dating boys my age. What do u think and fourteen year olds well i consider them in range to but prefer 15 and older no wonder you have a pic of sailor moon as your signature...  anyways...do you feel a guy way older would be more mature..? i mean...some guys that are older can be jerks. well...most guys, any age, can be jerks. well...if that`s your choice of guys...for me...i`d prefer someone around my age. not way too old. like months - 2 years older.  the thing is about older boyfriends who you prefer...they move on to college and then they won`t be able to see you unless they go to a college nearby, which i know that some people prefer going to out-of-state colleges far away from their parents. i`d say...there would be alot of problems if he was really older than you [like the guys you prefer]. problems will conjure [sp?] up. |
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Jun 24 2004, 11:09 AM
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Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
i don't think their more mature jus that i dunno they hav sum kinda charm that guys my age don't
and Sailor moon i hate sailor moon only hav it cus i don't have time to change it |
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Jun 24 2004, 12:19 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
well i don't think dating an older guy is a problem...it's all about feel. i generally date older guys because i seem to click with them, but i wouldn't be against dating someone younger or my own age...i've had plenty of crushes on guys my own age
and the whole 'mature' thing? i actually think they get less mature as thye get older lol |
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Jun 24 2004, 12:22 PM
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 did someone fart?! Group: Member Posts: 1,528 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,662 |
Help help help!! Okay.
I'm 16 and my "boyfriend" is 21. Too much?? I say "boyfriend" because I'm not too sure of our status.. but I know something is there.. help meeeee 
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Jun 24 2004, 12:29 PM
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unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
^^ eh, if u really like him, it's fine. u gotta remember that he's legal and ur not tho, so there could b some complications there. i guess u gotta make sure u ko wut ur gettin into
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Jun 24 2004, 12:31 PM
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Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
No i think that's not too much becuz u and ur "boyfriend" are like me and my bf soo if u like him and he likes u it's perfectly fine
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Jun 24 2004, 12:33 PM
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did someone fart?! Group: Member Posts: 1,528 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,662 |
oh thanks guys.. haha i really wasn't so sure..
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Jun 24 2004, 02:44 PM
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 The Lemon Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,215 |
Yeah, I wouldn't go out with a boy my age. 13 year old boys are still too immature. o_o;; I went out with this 14 year old boy and he was mature by soo much! It's amazing what 1 year can do.
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Jun 24 2004, 02:46 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
age doesnt matter, but watch out for the older guys..they tend to use younger girls and abuse them..so yeah.
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Jun 24 2004, 03:26 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh i dont like to date guys around my age either!!! im only 13 and im dating a 17 y/o... which i dont think its bad at all!!! but yehh you have to watch out for the perverted ones..
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Jun 24 2004, 03:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,465 |
Age doesn't really matter just along as:
1. You guys love each other 2. The person isn't old enough to be ur mom or dad or something like that --][My Xang3r][-- |
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Jun 24 2004, 03:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
yea i agree, age doesnt play much a big role... but there are older guys that cant be trusted so its better to date someone around ur age. lets say 1-3 years older?
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Jun 24 2004, 06:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
my parents r fourteen years apart mom=36 dad=50
so u have nothing to worry about |
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Jun 25 2004, 06:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I'm the same too. I'm 15 but I prefer older guys. My current BF is 17, my ex is 18. I just prefer guys who are more mature.
But if you're dating someone legal, you gotta remember that you're still underage. |
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Jun 25 2004, 11:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,692 |
hmm well 13 going out with an 18 year old? Thats a little .. much.... but okay Im 16 soon to be 17 and my boyfriends 20
 I like em older they are so much more mature.  ooo and 17 is legal in tx to woo!! |
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Jun 25 2004, 11:25 AM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
QUOTE(y0urmistake @ Jun 25 2004, 12:21 PM) hmm well 13 going out with an 18 year old? Thats a little .. much.... but okay Im 16 soon to be 17 and my boyfriends 20 I like em older they are so much more mature. ooo and 17 is legal in tx to woo!! Wait, that's being a hypocrite. Linhy and her bf are about 4 years off [since linhy will be 14 soon] and you and your bf are about 3/4 years apart. There's no such thing as "much" with love. 
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Jun 25 2004, 11:28 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,692 |
QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Jun 25 2004, 11:25 AM) Wait, that's being a hypocrite. Linhy and her bf are about 4 years off [since linhy will be 14 soon] and you and your bf are about 3/4 years apart. There's no such thing as "much" with love. 13 and 18.. 5 years apart.. but 13... someone what, middle school? 18... someone already going to college... much of a difference, to me anyways. |
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Jun 25 2004, 07:45 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
depends on you.. but It would seem akward to date a guy like who's more than 3 yrs older.
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Jun 26 2004, 01:18 AM
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 do not walk the streets alone Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,834 |
i think the difference between 13 and 18 is a bit ... well ... crazy. i mean, yes 'age is just a number', but it's beyond 'oh they are 5 years apart'. there is SO MUCH growing up between those years that the boy has experienced that the girl has not. i just .. i dunno. i mean, i totally understand dating up, though. i'm 16 , and my boyfriend is 17, but before that one of my exes was 18, and when i was 14-15 i went out with a boy who was 16.
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Jun 26 2004, 01:13 PM
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I think it's ok to date older guys. My boyfriend is a lot older than me.
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Jun 27 2004, 11:22 PM
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 Wife of Legolas Group: Member Posts: 1,290 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,190 |
aaw i like older guys too. it's normal
unless............ he's 20 years older than you but then... i wouldn't find it surprising when "I" get older ... i don't know my ex's are 5 years older than me averagely. |
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Jun 28 2004, 01:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,421 |
alright well age doesnt matter but at this young age its kinda weird when couples are like 5 or more years apart or even like 4 lol i mean it seems more reasonable for like a 25 yearold and and a 30 yearold but like a 12 yearold and 17 yearold i dont know a bit odd but if the two sincerley like each other and arent using eachother or desperate then its fine. its up to you but just be carefull
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Jun 28 2004, 07:54 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
until you hit 20 theres a "rule" (wives tale type thing)
1 year younger 2 years older |
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Jun 28 2004, 08:11 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
well dating someone the same age as you isn't that bad, as long as he looks older than you.
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