my best friends on drugs, but i cant tell anyone Options

[aybaybay007]

i used to expiriment w/ like coke and shit but it only lasted like 2 months. me and my best friend (lets call her D) promised we'd never do it because our other 2 best friends (lets call them Jay and L) said they would never talk to us if we did it again. so like months go by and nobody's doing any coke. then D picks it up again and does it in front of me and shit but i manage to keep quiet. then Jay and L found out at the movies one night and everyone got in a huge fight. L and D made up but Jay is still mad and now D has lost Jay as a friend forever. (and all of us are very very close)
so L says to D "im gonna give u one more chance but dont f**k it up"
so now our foursome bond is screwed up because D and Jay cant hang out togeather so we cant all hang out just the four of us anymore.
and this weekend i was at L's house with D and D starts crying and is like "omg i hate coke i lost my best friend because of it im so glad i didnt lose yall im so glad i stopped" and shes all sobbing and shit. and im thinking "this is really good shes really not gonna do it anymore"
but then D comes back to my house later that night and its just the 2 of us. she goes to wash her face in my bathroom and she stays in there for like 20 minuts. i walked in to brush my teeth and i pick up a snorter and a credit card and a bag of coke that had been laying there and said "um what the f**k is this?" and shes just like "oh um...its not mine"
and then finally she says "ok fine i did it tonight"
and im all "i know dumbass im not stupid"

im so pissed. and she wants me to not tell L. i mean part of me wants to tell L. but the other part of me realises that if i tell L that now not even the three of us can hang out. i would have to hang out with all 4 of my best friends seperately.
what do i do? i just want D to stop doing drugs and i want all my best friends to like eachother again

[ArtofBreaking]

To most people, almost losing their friends is pretty serious. So if D still doesnt want to stop, they yeah, you should let L and Jay know. But sit D down and tell em' first that if they don't stop, youre going to have to let them know. They'll get whats coming to them.

[manny-the-dino]

oh man.
well all i can say is if you really care about D, get her some help. whether it be telling your other friends or even telling her parents, get her some help! if you really care about her you'll do this. don't be so concerned about how she'll react when she finds out you told someone because in the end, that little "tattle-tale" can save her life. if she gives you the "oh you betrayed me" speech, don't listen to her. she's just saying it out of anger. she may be mad at you at that moment but she will benefit from your concern about her & her problems in the future. do anything you can. go with her to rehab, talk to her, hang out with her, go to the mall so that she doesn't do drugs. get her mind off it. i could seriously go on & on about this but i think you get my point.

just help her; she'll appreciate it.

[karmakiller]

Okay, well, reading that just confused me. But basically, your friend needs help. Coke is a hard drug and you need to talk to her and get her some help.

[x-hotchocbun-x]

my friend wanted to start takin drugs once and i told him ' if u do it im not gonna b ur friend , '

and he didn't take drugs
=)

& about ur friend D ..

i think the best thing to do is tell Jay and L

so that D relizes that what she's doin is wrong and making her lose her bestfriends

and then hopefully she'l stop !

[Insurmountable]

I don't think she even realizes the severity of doing drugs. I think you should tell her friends, even if it means thats shes going to lose all her friends. I think you should just tell her, "I'm not hanging out with you anymore until you can prove to me and our friends that you've stopped, because this is really effecting you now and I don't want you to get hurt. You've done, and you lost 'Jay' and now your going to lose the rest of us if you don't stop."

Something along those lines anyway.

If all else fails...tell her parents. She needs help if shes that addicted to it that she can't even stop.

[ChangeofHeart]

tell her parents or someone who can use force to make her stop. She prolly lieks coke but doesnt want to loose her friends. THat bad, YOU have to make her HATE doing coke. Coke will ruin her life in the long run. Screw making everyone friends, saving her life takes priority. I seen drugs ruin so many peoples lives. This is your chance to alert someone who can help her. Don't let your best friends kill herself by doing coke.

[LoveToMySilas]

Sometimes people need to learn the hard way whats right from wrong. You should tell your friend L and get your friend D help. It IS a very hard drug to quit if you don't quit early. She needs to know that you just wanna help her and don't want this to screw up her life. Good luck.

[lidoxtitty]

the important thing is how much coke was there?
that'll say a lot about your friend..

For ref. next time you find her coke, replace it with powdered milk and slang the rest.

[Mikael]

A word of advice, with the gift... of song.

Mista Mista,
can I get five dollars?
So I can get something to eat.

Hell no Mothaf*a
You cant get no money from me.
Cause everytime I give you a dollar.
You go get shot up
With more and more needles and you tell me that!
Your drug free.
Drug Free.

Mista Mista,
I havent ate anything for a week.
Can I please get a quarter?

Hell no mothaf*a!
What can a quarter get you!
Nothing mothaf*a!
You are just F*d up, on thos F*d up drugs
You know, you need to leave alone
but you keep telling me you are
Drug Free...
Mothaf*a, you ain't drug free

Your a fiend.

And everytime, I try to help you.
You pretend as if its okay.
And later on the week, you go back
to shootin needles and sniffin
oh, mothaF*a but you told me you were
Drug Free, Drug Free

You aint drug free mothaF*a
So you damn well cant get no mothaF*n money from

Me.

[shoryuken]

^ dat daaa gayy songg evur...

[PingPong]

my gf did E... was about to call off the whole relationship thing.. but i gave her one last chance.

im a BIG anti drug person. why live a life of substances.

[Mikael]

^ dat daaa gayy songg evur...

yeah lol, i'll let wyclef know. uh he cracks me up sometimes.

silly wyclef, you.