My Sister Options

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I need to vent, and then on the hand get some advice to make sure my sister stays away from this disrespectful pig.

Anyway, I was in New York for new year's during that time my sister calls me tells me she has found herself a boyfriend...that no one in the family knows. I'm a little suspicious but so blown away that my sister actually found someone that wanted to be with her. So I'm like happy for her and like congrats, good for you, blah blah blah. So I get back and I meet the guy; and my first reaction is...man hes ugly >_> Not my taste, but hey whatever. I met him and he was really awkward. I shrugged it off, figured he was more shy than me.

Anyway history time. Let me add, this guy is 26 (my sister just turned 18 after they went out, Jan 22nd being her birthday.)
He is previously married, because she was sleeping with another guy. And he has a child as well, and she is 4. Talk about extra baggage? >_>


Back on track: Time passes and this guy starts being a complete disrespectful ass to me. Everytime I saw him I would be really nice and he would just give this sly stupid ass remark. Eventually I just ignored him, all the time. I thought he spent to much time with my sister and he was taking advantage of her. Everytime they were around the kids (my dad just got remarried to this woman that has 3 kids, two boys (6&8) and a girl(10) and everytime they start fighting or just when he is normally talking, he'll start cussing openly around them like its no big deal. Its like HELLO have some respect. It completely pissed me off, because I mean come on they are kids, and they shouldn't be put around that type of language and getting use to it and possibly using it else where.

To wrap this up: My sister finally broke up with him because he was clingy and he was trying to control her whole life. He made her keep their relationship a secret from the people that she loved and were most close to and throughout the relationship she lost relationships with others. She had really close friends that I hadn't seen for the past 3-4 months and haven't even heard anything about them. And she's really good friends with the next door neighbor and I haven't seen her in a few weeks into their relationship, when I finally asked her where she had been, my sister was like, "Oh man I haven't seen her in ages I invite her over"

So yea, if you don't get the point already. My sister isn't the brightest person in the world and got caught up in to her first relationship ever. She's 18, yet she has the maturity level of someone around 15 years old. She decided to go out with a guy that was 26, that was previously married and already has one kid. This guy took over her life and made her separate herself from the rest of her family, and made her in the end come out to be a complete bitch to those she was close to, and even made her lose friends. This guy wasn't stupid enough to disrespect the parents, but he would disrespect me and even my sister from what she says. And he would even cuss around little kids.
>>>Few days have passed since they broke up and shes talking to this a-hole again. He's actually turned her against one of her other guy friends that she talks to quite a bit and told her that he was a bad guy and that she should quit talking to him, and she has..she blocked him from her phone, myspace and all the other internet BS. Its rediculous. I've talked to her about and how bad it is that she falls for it every time, but she just gets in her little bitchy attitude all over.


So yea, sorry I type a lot and repeat a lot (its better to do that).


What do you guys think I should to get to her and make her realize what is going on. And to make sure she doesn't go out with another guy like or this guy?


Thanks! (Once again sorry for the long post XD)((Oh shit, I didn't think it was this long, I'm really sorry then!))