how do i get rid of this guy? |
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 Aug 25 2008, 10:00 PM
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he asked me out a couple weeks ago but we've never been on a date. we haven't even seen each other since school ended 2 months ago. anyway we usually just talk on aim like almost every day. he's really immature. he always says stuff like "ugh i'm mad" and then that's it. he makes me have to ask him what's wrong. or he'll be like "i feel sick" and then not answer for like 10 minutes, then be like "sorry. i feel better now. that didn't taste good though" like what the f**k. i don't care. he says the dumbest things. he's not really my type anyway. how can i get rid of him without being too mean?
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Aug 25 2008, 10:10 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
Uh you tell him I never want to see your f**king face ever again.
Yea really, just tell him the truth. And just say I don't see things working out for us so its over. |
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Aug 25 2008, 10:25 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
just dont talk to him for a while, he will either not talk back or ask whats whats wrong and if he does ask whats wrong then tell him the truth. Just say that he is a bit too immature and that you dont like to play the "guessing" game whenever something is wrong with him
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Aug 26 2008, 12:13 AM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Haha, I had a guy like that once.
My history with him was a pretty windy and weird one, which I regret to this day. I just ignored it. I play along and respond out of politeness. But I don't go into it with the expecation that he'll answer. It's like talking to a child. You may hear her/him say something insightful for a quick second. Then when you inquire further, they wouldn't know. |
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Aug 26 2008, 09:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Don't talk to him for a little while (so I guess block him on AIM, or delete him and then make your buddy list private). If you don't want to do that, tell him that it annoys you when he talks to you in his immature, obscure way, and that you want him to talk to you normally. If he won't change, tell him to find someone else to complain to.
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Aug 26 2008, 10:40 AM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
i don't think you should ignore him or be a bitch about it. that would be kind of immature. just be upfront & tell him that you don't see things working out between the two of you. no lies, no games. tell him that you don't see your "relationship/friendship" going anywhere and that you'd just prefer for the two of you to not go there. honesty is the best policy... as cheesy as it sounds, it works best in situations like this.
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Aug 27 2008, 12:45 PM
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Yeah, I would just tell him. I think avoiding him will make it worse. It's better to just say how you feel and move on.
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Aug 27 2008, 12:52 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
Just be blunt to him. If you talk to him or vise versa, say "yep" or "uhuh" etc.
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Aug 27 2008, 12:57 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Tell him to f**k OFF f****t, YOU'RE GAY, AND I AIN'T INTO YOU, YOU DUMB DIPSHIT. GO DIE AND JUMP OFF A CLIFF, AND PAPERBAG YOURSELF BECAUSE IT'S BETTER IF YOU DIE WITHOUT SOMEONE SEEING THAT UGLY FACE OF YOURS
Thats what I would do. But what you shoudl do is be honest with him. Just be straightforward with him. ^_^ Don't be scared. Guys hate being led on!!!1 |
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Aug 31 2008, 11:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 388 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 682,013 |
do the 'i think of you as a friend'...aha...try ignoring him and don't lead him on...and don't be mean about it...;]
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Sep 1 2008, 09:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,057 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Aug 27 2008, 01:57 PM)  Tell him to f**k OFF f****t, YOU'RE GAY, AND I AIN'T INTO YOU, YOU DUMB DIPSHIT. GO DIE AND JUMP OFF A CLIFF, AND PAPERBAG YOURSELF BECAUSE IT'S BETTER IF YOU DIE WITHOUT SOMEONE SEEING THAT UGLY FACE OF YOURS Thats what I would do. But what you shoudl do is be honest with him. Just be straightforward with him. ^_^ Don't be scared. Guys hate being led on!!!1 My exact words. Wow i had a relationship like that in MIDDLE SCHOOL.  jeez you guys aren't even dating it's pathetic. Just be like, 'FOOL NO.' one day on your little aim chat and leave it at that. lol jk break it off and try to enjoy the little bit of ur summer left with another dude.
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