Oral Sex? Is it wrong for me to not give head? Options

[Elba]

Does he give you head?

[SAMANTHAfamous]

that's what I requested right?

lol. Well do you have a MySpace? Most of them are there.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

Does he give you head?

I'm guessing your meaning "going down on me". Well he said he would. As long as i'm comfortable with it.

[Tung]

yes add me on my myspace.

myspace.com/tungtwista

[Elba]

Well, when he starts going down on you, anticipate that he'll probably expect you to return the favor.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

Well, when he starts going down on you, anticipate that he'll probably expect you to return the favor.

But I just said he doesn't want me to do it. =/ Read my previous posts.

He doesn't expect me to do it because he respects me far too much for me to do that.

[Melissa]

Iuno, you might end up liking it. A lot of girls go from hating the concept to actually really liking it. It's fine that you don't want to at this point and never, ever let anyone pressure you into doing it.

[Tung]

thanks for the add. and wtf. your boyfriend looks like a 10 year old. sorry dump his ass. i'm sure his dick is smaller than a toothpick. you need a real man (me) if you dont want to be an oral virgin anymore.

[Elba]

LMAO, Tung.

Well, to be honest, I think it's selfish that you'll let him do it to you but you refuse to do it to him.

[tilaaaaa]

thanks for the add. and wtf. your boyfriend looks like a 10 year old. sorry dump his ass. i'm sure his dick is smaller than a toothpick. you need a real man (me) if you dont want to be an oral virgin anymore.

Do you really mean that?

[Tung]

Do you really mean that?

yes.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

LMAO, Tung.

Well, to be honest, I think it's selfish that you'll let him do it to you but you refuse to do it to him.

I don't have a problem with him doing it or not doing it. It's HIS decision not mine. I'm not being selfish because I never asked him to do it.

[tilaaaaa]

yes.

That's not cool dude, the girl was simply asking for advive not negative opinions about the only guy that understands her more than anybody else.

[tilaaaaa]

Are ya'll in a clique or something? Because I notice you all have the same avatar.

Or are you guys the same people?

[Tung]

That's not cool dude, the girl was simply asking for advive not negative opinions about the only guy that understands her more than anybody else.

I wasn't trying to be mean here. Just saying, her bf looks 10 years old, and you guys probably shouldn't even be talking about oral sex yet wtf. Save that when you guys grow up and mature a little more, then yeah.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

That's not cool dude, the girl was simply asking for advive not negative opinions about the only guy that understands her more than anybody else.

To be honest, I don't care about peoples negative opinions about him or myself. Or both for that matter. They've never met him, they don't know who he is or what he's like. It doesn't concern me that anybody would say that. Especially people over the internet.

[tilaaaaa]

I wasn't trying to be mean here. Just saying, her bf looks 10 years old, and you guys probably shouldn't even be talking about oral sex yet wtf. Save that when you guys grow up and mature a little more, then yeah.

I wasn't being mean either so calm yourself Tung. Although, you can't judge what you see in pixels.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

Iuno, you might end up liking it. A lot of girls go from hating the concept to actually really liking it. It's fine that you don't want to at this point and never, ever let anyone pressure you into doing it.

I know that, but believe it or not there are girls out there that stick to what they say and don't do it. Maybe try it, but after that if they don't like they don't like it.

[Tung]

true true Tila. Lol, sorry for the misunderstanding guys. and yes, don't take what I say seriously lol. i joke mostly all the time, so yeah. besides i'm just some online person haha.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

true true Tila. Lol, sorry for the misunderstanding guys. and yes, don't take what I say seriously lol. i joke mostly all the time, so yeah. besides i'm just some online person haha.

Don't worry about it. I'm a cool person.

[Elba]

How old are you?

[SAMANTHAfamous]

How old are you?

I'm 14 1/2.

But alot of people say i'm mature for my age.

[Elba]

You have 69 posts. It's a sign

You're really young. Perhaps when you're a little older, you'll be more open to the idea of oral sex (I don't mean for that to sound condescending or anything). How long have oyu been with your boyfriend and how long have you two been having sex? It took me a long time to finally agree to do the whole oral sex thing with my ex. I had to get over fearing it would be uncomfortable.

[SAMANTHAfamous]

You have 69 posts. It's a sign

You're really young. Perhaps when you're a little older, you'll be more open to the idea of oral sex. How long have oyu been with your boyfriend and how long have you two been having sex? It took me a long time to finally agree to do the whole oral sex thing with my ex. I had to get over fearing it would be uncomfortable.

OMG SHUT UP!!!

That's not cool mann! lol. jk
Well we've been together for 10 months, but it's not really a fear of being uncomfortable. It's just the fear of degrading myself and more.

But neither of us want that (me giving him head).

There are few guys out there that don't want girls to give them oral sex. Maybe he's one of them, you never know.

But like I said before, this whole controversy began with "Peer Pressure", not because he wants me to do it or we're too young for this. It's a whole matter of choice. But alas am I wrong for this choice? Oral sex isn't me. It doesn't fit with who I am and it's not for me. Even if I did do it, there's no joy for me OR him. If that makes any sense.

[Tung]

It's just the fear of degrading myself and more.

If you think having oral sex is degrading, then maybe your intentions for doing it is wrong. You aren't ready for it clearly. Once you learn that oral sex is a mutual feeling and the act of love for one another, and not a degrading thing to do, then sorry, you aren't ready.