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How could he?
Sprague
post Apr 8 2008, 10:07 AM
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To make a long story short, my boyfriend lied to me. About talking to his ex-girlfriend. He had said that he was over her, and wasn't talking to her anymore, but just last night he called me to tell me he had lied to me, and he was crying because she wasn't talking to him anymore. That, of course, broke a lot of trust and respect I had for him. He's still in love with her. I can't make him change how he feels, but when he said, "I know" to when I asked that, it completely bothered me. He said he still has feelings for me, and doesn't want to lose me, but he didn't want to lie to me anymore. But despite saying that, that still doesn't change the fact that he loves her, or that he keeps talking to her. How is he going to get over her if he keeps talking to her? I'm not sure whether I should stay with him anymore, because this causes a lot of trust issues. And he did it once... who's to say that he won't do it again?
 

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Reconditee   How could he?   Apr 8 2008, 10:07 AM
Melie   well, it sounds to me like you need to really thin...   Apr 8 2008, 10:25 AM
vintage-toile   you really really need to think about this one. it...   Apr 8 2008, 10:28 AM
Tamacracker   When are teens gonna realize they're wastin th...   Apr 8 2008, 10:59 AM
vintage-toile   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 8 2008, 04:59 PM)...   Apr 8 2008, 11:01 AM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(vintage-toile @ Apr 8 2008, 12...   Apr 8 2008, 11:48 AM
doiink   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 8 2008, 08:59 AM)...   Apr 8 2008, 11:31 PM
JuggaloSKfan   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 9 2008, 12:31 AM) and ...   Apr 8 2008, 11:34 PM
JuggaloSKfan   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 8 2008, 11:59 AM)...   Apr 8 2008, 11:31 PM
aimeesayswhat   Since he still has feelings. Take a break. He need...   Apr 8 2008, 11:00 AM
marielamuneka   QUOTEhe was crying because she wasn't talking ...   Apr 8 2008, 11:02 AM
vintage-toile   what do most teenagers actually fill their lives w...   Apr 8 2008, 12:11 PM
Elba   He can get over his ex, he just needs to give it t...   Apr 8 2008, 02:54 PM
misoshiru   by ex, do you mean dani?   Apr 8 2008, 11:12 PM
xTINAA   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 8 2008, 10:12 PM) b...   Apr 8 2008, 11:14 PM
doiink   LOL okay, you don't even know what I'm tal...   Apr 8 2008, 11:37 PM
JuggaloSKfan   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 9 2008, 12:37 AM) LOL ...   Apr 8 2008, 11:51 PM
Elba   I would still have feelings for Dani, too.   Apr 8 2008, 11:41 PM
xTINAA   ^Me too!   Apr 8 2008, 11:42 PM
Tungster   And this is why you don't involve online peopl...   Apr 8 2008, 11:53 PM
doiink   no it doesn't look like you know. Like I sa...   Apr 8 2008, 11:54 PM
Tungster   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 8 2008, 09:54 PM) uh n...   Apr 8 2008, 11:56 PM
JuggaloSKfan   Alright i give up i don't know lol QUOTE(Tung...   Apr 8 2008, 11:57 PM
Elba   Tama needs to get his ass out of this teen site. R...   Apr 8 2008, 11:56 PM
heartquasm   lol, tama probably looked at her profile, which sa...   Apr 8 2008, 11:59 PM
doiink   k after I figured out why names are being thrown a...   Apr 9 2008, 12:00 AM
Edwinbarkhordarian   I think you guys should just take a break and tell...   Apr 9 2008, 12:03 AM
Tungster   QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Apr 8 2008, 10...   Apr 9 2008, 12:04 AM
doiink   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 8 2008, 10:04 PM) yo...   Apr 9 2008, 12:08 AM
Tungster   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 8 2008, 10:08 PM) the ...   Apr 9 2008, 12:11 AM
Edwinbarkhordarian   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 9 2008, 12:08 AM) the ...   Apr 9 2008, 12:12 AM
Tungster   QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Apr 8 2008, 10...   Apr 9 2008, 12:13 AM
doiink   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Apr 8 2008, 09:59 PM) ...   Apr 9 2008, 12:03 AM
heartquasm   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 9 2008, 01:03 AM) that...   Apr 9 2008, 12:13 AM
Heathasm   i still have feelings for my ex . . . but my bf kn...   Apr 9 2008, 12:05 AM
libertie   QUOTE(Heathasm @ Apr 9 2008, 12:05 AM) if...   Apr 9 2008, 12:12 AM
doiink   okay although I hate to go off topic continuously ...   Apr 9 2008, 12:13 AM
doiink   hm sorry, I guess I'm getting all hyper becaus...   Apr 9 2008, 12:16 AM
Tungster   QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 8 2008, 10:16 PM) hm s...   Apr 9 2008, 12:18 AM
doiink   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 8 2008, 10:18 PM) i ...   Apr 9 2008, 12:21 AM
tininja   Honestly, haven't you realized that he's j...   Apr 9 2008, 12:18 AM
heartquasm   No, I definitely get what you're saying. The ...   Apr 9 2008, 12:25 AM
doiink   Heartquasm: I know and agree for the most part wit...   Apr 9 2008, 12:32 AM
aaayotiffany   well, if he says he won't do it anymore, do yo...   Apr 9 2008, 12:25 AM
heartquasm   boo. tama's just gonna give you an answer tha...   Apr 9 2008, 12:35 AM
doiink   I'M TOO IMPULSIVE FOR MY OWN GOOD I KNOW. /e...   Apr 9 2008, 12:37 AM
libertie   Let me explain something to the people who don...   Apr 9 2008, 12:44 AM
Tungster   I have a question. How long have you two been toge...   Apr 9 2008, 12:52 AM
Reconditee   Woow. So much publicity. :3 To all of those who ...   Apr 9 2008, 08:22 AM
Elba   Are you proud that you're 1/4 part of the reas...   Apr 9 2008, 02:50 PM
Reconditee   No. If I was "proud", the "proud...   Apr 9 2008, 08:27 PM
Elba   QUOTE(Reconditee @ Apr 9 2008, 06:27 PM) ...   Apr 9 2008, 08:35 PM
Reconditee   QUOTE(Elba @ Apr 9 2008, 06:35 PM) Lol, t...   Apr 9 2008, 08:42 PM
superstitious   QUOTE(Elba @ Apr 8 2008, 11:41 PM) I woul...   Apr 9 2008, 08:29 PM
Joss-eh-lime   when he says he wont do it again, i dont think you...   Apr 9 2008, 08:35 PM
Tungster   Do you and Jose see everyday IRL? It might be diff...   Apr 9 2008, 08:45 PM
Reconditee   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 9 2008, 06:45 PM) Do...   Apr 9 2008, 08:49 PM
Spencer   QUOTE(Reconditee @ Apr 9 2008, 08:49 PM) ...   Apr 9 2008, 10:46 PM
misoshiru   QUOTE(Spencer @ Apr 10 2008, 11:46 AM) No...   Apr 9 2008, 10:47 PM
superstitious   QUOTE(Spencer @ Apr 9 2008, 10:46 PM) You...   Apr 10 2008, 10:24 AM
Elba   LMAO.   Apr 9 2008, 08:46 PM
Tungster   Yanlin.   Apr 9 2008, 10:49 PM
Spencer   Why are you laughing at Yanlin?   Apr 9 2008, 10:50 PM
Tungster   Spencer   Apr 9 2008, 10:51 PM
Spencer   Tung   Apr 9 2008, 10:51 PM
misoshiru   EPIC FAIL TO THE BOTH OF YOU.   Apr 9 2008, 10:53 PM
Spencer   No, I said what you quoted. That's not failing...   Apr 9 2008, 10:54 PM
misoshiru   So...does jose have a requirement that his girlfri...   Apr 9 2008, 10:59 PM
Tungster   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 9 2008, 08:59 PM) S...   Apr 9 2008, 11:00 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 9 2008, 09:00 PM) PM...   Apr 9 2008, 11:06 PM
Tungster   QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Apr 9 2008, 09:06 PM) ...   Apr 9 2008, 11:08 PM
misoshiru   you should sleep over at my place instead.   Apr 9 2008, 11:08 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 9 2008, 09:08 PM) y...   Apr 9 2008, 11:23 PM
misoshiru   of course. just enough space.   Apr 9 2008, 11:24 PM
Just_Dream   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 9 2008, 09:24 PM) o...   Apr 10 2008, 06:34 AM
Reconditee   Tung asked a question, I answered it. That isn...   Apr 10 2008, 09:11 AM
paperplane   But you couldn't really expect her not to, cou...   Apr 10 2008, 09:26 AM
Tungster   .....you guys are blowing this whole thing out of ...   Apr 10 2008, 12:13 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 10 2008, 01:13 PM) ....   Apr 10 2008, 01:09 PM
Spencer   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 10 2008, 01:09 PM...   Apr 10 2008, 02:36 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Spencer @ Apr 10 2008, 03:36 PM) Th...   Apr 10 2008, 02:40 PM
misoshiru   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 11 2008, 01:13 AM) ...   Apr 10 2008, 02:21 PM
superstitious   Ok, ok. *steps off her dick* I re-read my post a...   Apr 10 2008, 12:43 PM
brooklyneast05   lol wow   Apr 10 2008, 12:53 PM
paperplane   Then why post it?   Apr 11 2008, 11:50 AM
PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL   QUOTE(Spencer @ Apr 10 2008, 03:36 PM) Th...   Apr 11 2008, 08:14 PM
agiri   QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Apr 11 2008, 06...   Apr 12 2008, 06:06 PM
Castaway   i'm not sure what you should do but it seems l...   Apr 13 2008, 10:34 PM
Sandraaa   OK. This guy is not worth your time. He still love...   Apr 19 2008, 07:28 PM
Tweeti   When did he break up with her? If it was recently ...   Apr 20 2008, 09:13 AM


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