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 Aug 31 2008, 10:15 AM
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Ruhstee Jeen  Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,811  |
 well yeah.. i've been left by some guy... saddest part is i don't know the reason why...  |
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Aug 31 2008, 10:23 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,057 |
Well how long were u guys dating for? And how did it end? Try to find out the reason why he dumped you. But as for me i woudln't deal with that shit. Move on and find someone better.
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Aug 31 2008, 11:48 AM
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^ I AGREEEZ.
We all get left out somehow... |
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Aug 31 2008, 02:25 PM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
QUOTE(CocaineNoseJob @ Aug 31 2008, 11:23 AM)  Well how long were u guys dating for? And how did it end? Try to find out the reason why he dumped you. But as for me i woudln't deal with that shit. Move on and find someone better. I concur... Just look at it as a chance for something better to come your way..it won't be the first or last time you experience a break up. At least ask about the reason why for closure |
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Aug 31 2008, 06:20 PM
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Ruhstee Jeen Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,811 |
QUOTE(Glamourouz @ Sep 1 2008, 03:25 AM) I concur... Just look at it as a chance for something better to come your way..it won't be the first or last time you experience a break up. At least ask about the reason why for closure hey thanks... 
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Aug 31 2008, 06:23 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
i would demand an answer
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Sep 1 2008, 08:17 AM
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Ruhstee Jeen Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,811 |
QUOTE(Tomates @ Sep 1 2008, 07:23 AM) i would demand an answer yeah me too.. but what can i do..  |
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Sep 1 2008, 08:24 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
QUOTE(cluelesslove08 @ Sep 1 2008, 05:17 AM) yeah me too.. but what can i do.. Do you even have any way to talk or contact him? Try to set up a little meeting with your friend "one on one" |
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Sep 1 2008, 12:16 PM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
ugh, i know. the worst feeling is not knowing. you keep running around in circles inside your head & you dig a hole for yourself while trying to make sense of something that obviously doesn't make sense.
but like people have mentioned, try to talk to him if you guys are on good terms still. he owes it to you to provide some answers if he was the one who broke up with you. ask him to meet you somewhere (not at each other's houses, go to like a park or something) just to chat for a short period of time so that you can bring closure to the relationship. but only say that if you truly mean it - don't go into the conversation expecting him to take you back since that is probably not gonna be the case. from personal experience, these talks can be really helpful in helping you to 'move on', but be warned that emotions are high in these convos, so be calm and careful about what you say. it can quickly escalate into a big fight. when you ask him about having this conversation, say something along the lines of "i feel that there are unanswered questions regarding the breakup. i know that you may not think there's anything left to say, but i feel that there is so i would really appreciate it if we could meet up sometime to talk about it. this is moreso closure for me than anything else." during the conversation, be mentally prepared. if he agreed to the conversation, then he's probably gonna be blunt honest about the reasons why he broke up with you. prepare yourself for those answers, because it's gonna hurt. even when i almost knew what my ex was gonna say, it still hurt to hear it coming directly from him. so brace yourself & keep your cool. good luck & can you do one thing for me? please smile =] it's okay if you look like a crazy person smiling at your computer screen. |
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