Ideal relationship Options

[gr00vyswordsman]

I was talking with my friend the other night, wanted to share this with you guys. Enjoy! share your comments


Basically there’s three things we want in a relationship. Passion,emotional connection and a sense of commentment. and its kind of interesting because all relationships come down to these 3 things...you could describe all relationships by how much of these things they have.

Passion has tha physical connection where there’s chemistry when you’re with this person. There’s this burning inside you when you look at this person I need to have passion when I’m with this person. And then there’s also intimacy emotional connection, having this sense of closeness where you feel you want to know this person you’re with. You’re comfortable and you want to share things them. Also You’re really honest with this person, you feel like you can open up feeling secure.
Then there’s also commitment. To me what commitment means is this is the person that can be there for you now and in the future. And you can see yourself with them in the future as well.
The thing is, all relationships take on different degrees of all of these things.

If you have just passion in a relationship, that’s like a one night stand. Cause there’s no intimacy and no commitment. If you have just intimacy, but no passion and no commitment, basically
that would be like a friendship. That’s all you have is just a sense of closeness and comfort

Or if you have passion and intimacy, but no commitment. It’s like a romantic affair.
Then there's also where you have passion and commitment but no intimacy.
That’s like people who get together and are committed to each other, and they love the sex, but they just don’t have that intimate connection. And you can have intimacy and commitment, but no physical passion. That’s like grandma and grandpa who are companions, but can’t remember the last time they had that fire inside had sex as long as they can remember :D

Ideally, you would have a balance of intimacy and commitment. You would have a balance of all three of those things.

[Annabean]

Sounds like love 2 me.

[hungrymungry]

true, so true. i guess it really does come down to all 3 huh. guys who go just for the sex is a no-no. intimacy is a must and commitment as well. im so open to my boyfriend that its freaky at times but i cant help it :D