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my best friend is his best friend., what to do???
na-nancy
post Apr 26 2008, 08:35 PM
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so yeah, my very best friend is also my boyfriend's best friend as well.
and lately, they've been hanging out together and it's nice to see them to.
i don't get jealous, but i just wonder sometimes...
like he doesn't laugh that way with me like he does to her.
and i always wonder..'what if he ever leaves me for her?' =(
or i never have that much fun with him like they do. =(
i know, i'm being very pessimistic. =(
but whenever i'm with the two of them, sometimes i feel left out when they're
talking or joking around...i really do. It's like sometimes i feel isolated from them.
he's a great guy, like even when i'm with them he always checks with me and asks me everytime, "are you okay?" or give a little shrug or notice that he knows i'm there =)
i never told anyone or them my feeling. but yeah, of course best friends spend times together too, i definitely understand. they're like brother and sister best friends and i definitely have no probelm with that. before dating him he was kinda like that to me too (we were friends since freshmen year - now sophmores)
yeah, but i don't know..i just think and feel like this sometimes...
any advice???

 

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na-nancy   my best friend is his best friend.   Apr 26 2008, 08:35 PM
Tungster   3sum.   Apr 26 2008, 08:38 PM
Elba   QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 26 2008, 06:38 PM) 3...   Apr 27 2008, 12:17 PM
aimeesayswhat   ^ WOW tung she is freakin 15 that would be weridd....   Apr 26 2008, 08:40 PM
na-nancy   QUOTE(aimeesayswhat @ Apr 26 2008, 07:40 ...   Apr 26 2008, 08:44 PM
aimeesayswhat   QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 26 2008, 09:44 ...   Apr 26 2008, 09:17 PM
Sandraaa   ^ Good luck doing that.   Apr 26 2008, 08:47 PM
na-nancy   that's complicated. and difficult...=(   Apr 26 2008, 09:33 PM
aimeesayswhat   ^ life is full of choices and all but hey one woul...   Apr 26 2008, 09:48 PM
na-nancy   i don't think i can do that. =( life is full o...   Apr 26 2008, 09:58 PM
Flaunted   Since you guys are best friends, all three of you ...   Apr 26 2008, 10:09 PM
Synesthesia   I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about i...   Apr 26 2008, 10:10 PM
Glamourouz   Yea, I agree with the two that said you should tal...   Apr 26 2008, 10:34 PM
Edwinbarkhordarian   ditch the bf bcuz your just gonna get hurt in the ...   Apr 27 2008, 11:51 AM
na-nancy   i think i might just do that. but i'm just not...   Apr 27 2008, 12:29 PM
Rachel   QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 27 2008, 10:29 ...   Apr 27 2008, 12:34 PM
Comptine   ^ I agree talk to BOTH your best friend and boyfri...   Apr 27 2008, 01:14 PM
na-nancy   im not so sure anymore. im wanting to tell him, bu...   Apr 28 2008, 04:21 PM
BLAZINASIAN   I had that same situation. And now he's with h...   Apr 28 2008, 04:43 PM
na-nancy   awwwwwwwwwwwwwww T T no, i'm sorry. that wasn...   Apr 29 2008, 07:17 PM
BLAZINASIAN   Well, lucky you. Saw them kiss yesterday. It was ...   Apr 30 2008, 07:26 PM
na-nancy   i'm definitely feeling better. he kissed me on...   May 2 2008, 04:45 PM


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