jealousy, its funny, isnt it? Options

[*taste this*]

we're all guilty of being jealous of someone or something from time to time... but i think it's pretty hilarious when some people take it too far, and they just start acting stupid...

for instance, the girl in our graphics class... she sits behind me and christine, and i guess she prides herself on being a really great artist. i respect her for that.. she does some really good work. but i've been doing it longer than her...

at the end of the week, we have projects that we have to pass in.. they all get hung on the wall and everyone in the class has to do an evaluation on everyone else's work.

i could tell she'd get a little annoyed because me and christine would kinda outshine her.. she'd be talking to us all friendly-like one minute, then after the evaluation, she'd like.. get all pissy...then sometimes she'd try to "correct" us on some shit, but it'd always turn out that it didnt matter, or she just didnt know what she was talking about.. it got kind of annoying, because..cmon i think i know what im doing by now,so please step off...

last week, i passed in my work and it never got put up.. i was like..wth... then later i had to switch computers because something was wrong with the one i was working on... i went to the row behind us, next to that girl, and saw my project in a pile of her papers. i just took it back and she sorta stared at me and got kinda red, and then i found another computer to work at elsewhere...






also, christine (trish) sometimes gets jealous of me so she beats me in my sleep.



what are your experiences with jealousy, either from yourself or from others?

[xquizit]

Back when I was at UMBC, my first college, a lot of black females would spread false rumors about me and the guys I hung out with making me sound like some kind of ho. I know for a fact that if the majority of my friends weren't black and male, they wouldn't have bothered or noticed me. I've often heard various women comment on how "its worthless women like me who take the few good black men away from them"... WTF?!!? I AM soooo sick of hearing that bull. Perhaps if you were a good woman and didn't look down on black men all the damn time, you'd be able to pick a good man up yourself. Don't hate cuz something wrong with you.

And I've had experiences when i'm with my man in which other girls would try to insult me for no reason, like "oh, she ain't all that, she a skinny lil bitch". I mean, I wouldn't even know them and no one even asked in the first place.

I had a "best" friend back in high school who would go after and try to date my exes after we'd break up. In some cases she'd actually succeed and try to brag bout he always lacin her with new gifts and complimenting her and telling her she the best GF he ever had and blah blah... and it's funny cuz none of them relationships ever lasted.

This is why I can't stand females sometimes. They always gotta be competitive and hating on everything. Ever since I stopped associating with females say maybe 3 years ago, I've had less problems.

And my BF gets jealous when I spend time with other guys. It gets annoying sometimes.

[punk3d]

this one girl get jeallous of her boyfriend's mom " she spends all day with him, i hate her" am like whoa...... take it easy.

[Saeglopur]

I happen to know quite a few people who're always striving for the best... well, in the beginning anyway.. but something distorts that kind of goal and it turns into an attitude full of negativity and lots of taking advantage of a person (only if that person happens to be a calm, quiet, soft-speaking, friendly person, that is!) In my opinion, most of them are just jealous.. or rather that's how I put it.

[mirage]

it's always good to have competition to get better in things, but when they get jealous and all stupid, then they really should just get a life. I feel sorry for that girl to have to take your work so it won't get put up, i found that really pathetic. Jealousy is everywhere.

[persongp]

well ive had alot of girls like my boyfriend. Well the other day some girl tells my boyfriend "i saw your girlfriend all over some guy at a party on friday" BUT i was with him on friday man how low do these girls get...its kinda sad when u think of it because i read all those posts up there and really jelousy is usually having to do with guys which is stupid! I would never really fight over a guy because thats a gay reason! WHat do you guys think on that???

[angel-roh]

Nekked,Dec 9 2004, 10:06 AM] there is this one girl on cb who's just really dumb... she's jealous because..well, i dunno why. she thinks she has to find some reason for people to hate me. like accusing me of lying about my sister.

wow trish, you're dumb too did u know that? fine, how about this...show me you and your sister's picture. but dont cheat. and wtf is the innocent picture? are you really an innocent person? i can't believe ppls are saying that you're nice when you're really not. you're just being nice so ppls can believe you...that's sad

anyways i was jealous of my friend because my guy best friend who i used to have a crush on liked her a lot. and i started to take it very seriously by teaming up with my friends and we tried to scare her... i felt very bad and regret the past, but she forgived me. hm i am still jealous, but im not jealous of trish. wtf is she talking about? LOL that is SO FUNNY! she prolly talking to herself.

[nas]

also, christine (trish) sometimes gets jealous of me so she beats me in my sleep.

Yeah Trish, what's up with that innocent pic if you beat up your sister in her sleep?


Uh.. sorry angel_roh.. but why would someone straightout lie & take their time pretending to have a twin sister? (The idea seems stupid, but not as stupid as getting mad and accusing her of it)



Jealousy... uhm.. what have YOU all been jealous about?

[*Kathleen*]

i could tell she'd get a little annoyed because me and christine would kinda outshine her.. she'd be talking to us all friendly-like one minute, then after the evaluation, she'd like.. get all pissy...then sometimes she'd try to "correct" us on some shit, but it'd always turn out that it didnt matter, or she just didnt know what she was talking about.. it got kind of annoying, because..cmon i think i know what im doing by now,so please step off...

Ahh I hate that. In debate, I usually get praised by our coach for doing well and whatnot, and this other girl who also debates, always gets jealous because she doesn't...do as well. She's a couple years older than me, though, and constantly feels like she should point out minor things she thinks I'm doing wrong. It makes me angry. I just ignore her as much as possible now. I think that's the only thing you can do sometimes, but I know if she says something extremely annoying about how I debate, I'm just going to flip out.

[lilaznpeter]

it is hillarious when people get all jealous, they go acting stupid, acting like a lil kid "awww i wish i was like her, she's stupiid" ahahaha!

[nyCzxfOx]

OH MY FRICKING GOD!!!!!!


like a year ago i met this girl she got SO obsessed with me
she started talking like me.. dressing like me.. had almost the SAME
screen name as me

she even highlighted her hair the same color and then.. she started
listening to the music i listened to.. EVERYTHING she even TALKED like me

then her friends noticed it and were like " " and she stopped

and now she happens to be one of my best friends =]

but at the end i found out she was jealous bcus she thought i was
a pretty asian..?? and bcus i was tall (YEAH SHE ATE THE SAME FOOD TOO)

[whomps]

I don't really know people who are jealous of me.. or maybe I can't tell? They don't really have anything to be jealous about.. haha.

[iheartsimba]

wow..thats pretty low

this girl who went out with my bf right after we broke up
then, when i told her i didnt even like him anymore, she broke up with him. then she somehow found out i really did and now she likes him again.

[xquizit]

wow..thats pretty low

this girl who went out with my bf right after we broke up
then, when i told her i didnt even like him anymore, she broke up with him. then she somehow found out i really did and now she likes him again.

LMAO. Girls, huh.

[gasolinekisses]

wow trish, you're dumb too did u know that? fine, how about this...show me you and your sister's picture. but dont cheat. and wtf is the innocent picture? are you really an innocent person? i can't believe ppls are saying that you're nice when you're really not. you're just being nice so ppls can believe you...that's sad

ummm susan, trish isn't dumb. and she also never claimed to be nice. hence her domain... raw-intent.... she claims to be honest and herself. and from what i've seen she pretty much adheres to that. it wouldn't make sense for her to make melena up... not to mention that 18 year olds don't usually make up convoluted stories for no reason. anyways, i'm about tired of hearing girls bashing other girls on cb... there was that topic completely bashing michelle [tboltzbabe] for no apparent reason and now people are hating on trish? does this make sense? nooooo. if you don't like someone, please take it up with them instead of making a hate forum. this is ludicrous.

.... sounds like some people are a little jealous of others on cb.

[aznhunnie6o1]

theres these 2 guys (i shall call them guy number 1 and guy number 2) that like me and their both best friends with each other which is really funny cause they like compete to try and get me even though they know i dont like them in that way. lol

so, guy number 1 was 'supposidly' flirting with me and guy number 2 goes "oooh u we're flirting with guy number 1" and im just thinking 'your just jealous cause im not giving you enough attention' lol so after school im walking with my ex and guy number 2 brings up that i was 'supposidly' flirting with guy number 1 again. so i grab my ex's hand and link arms with him and walk away. then guy number 2 just has that... 'ooh im so jealous that that guy isnt me' look on his face and he runs away.

i still have feelings for my ex and he knows so i can hit on him if i want.

[Tung]

ummm susan, trish isn't dumb. and she also never claimed to be nice. hence her domain... raw-intent.... she claims to be honest and herself. and from what i've seen she pretty much adheres to that. it wouldn't make sense for her to make melena up... not to mention that 18 year olds don't usually make up convoluted stories for no reason.

LOL WHAT THE?


Anyways, yeah, I hate people who are jealous of me, cuz i'm f**ken rich hahah. yeah.

[Just_Dream]

LOL WHAT THE?
Anyways, yeah, I hate people who are jealous of me, cuz i'm f**ken rich hahah. yeah.

NO YOU'RE NOT. You told me you couldn't go to SD cause you were brokeee.

[Tung]

NO YOU'RE NOT. You told me you couldn't go to SD cause you were brokeee.

fine i'm not rich. i'm wealthier than average.
but when you consume like me, you'll get "broke" sometimes. but then a week later, i'm "rich" again. HAHAHAHAH

[Just_Dream]

lol well if you were really effing rich, you'd never have any "broke" moments.

[Tung]

lol well if you were really effing rich, you'd never have any "broke" moments.

or leech off my parents or have a bf to support me.

ey, if i wasn't so materialistic or buy so much unneeded things, I probably would have so much saved up. i have so much expensive clothing i buy that i don't even touch anymore. I don't know if I should sell it or not.

[Just_Dream]

Since when do you have a boyfriend? HMMM?!

lmao are you insinuating that I leech off my parents and my boyfriend supports me? In any case, I'm the one with a job, and I'm sorry that I only make $400/month because I only work 10 hours/week at my library job. yea once I hope to be independent some day, when I'm actually working >10 hours. I just leech off rooming at my house, that's all.

[Tung]

lmao i know. i'm just saying in general. so many girls these days gets their bf's to support them, and their parents paid for everything for them. my parents don't pay shit for me ever since i graduated, and rarely in highschool. and since i'm the guy, usually guys support the girl. you told me you work and your bf doesn't so i know you aren't like that.

and why did you re-bump this topic that i bumped up LOL. i think you are intentionally trying to do something.

[Just_Dream]

I'm not trying to do anything, not that this topic will get deleted, or would it? Hmmm..

Anyways oh man I remember when my real sister would get jealous when I got new clothes, but she always got new clothes, since she's the older child. She'd tell me that the clothes didn't look good on me and she'd borrow my clothes without asking, then she'd stretch them out because she used to be chubbier than me. We're about the same size now, though, since before she was also taller than me. My sister is about 2 years older than me though.

But we don't fight anymore, I guess. She has her own stuff and I have my own. I am still jealous that she got in a car accident and got another car to replace it, and my parents won't even help me buy a car, so I have to do most of my shit on my own. Which is why I don't have a car right now But it's okay because at least I'm not hassling my parents about that stuff.