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best friends ex, should I?
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post Mar 9 2008, 02:09 PM
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My best friend is in a new relationship and I asked her if it would be okay if I pursued anything with her exboyfriend.
She said it was fine.
They only dated for a month a year ago and now they're really great friends, so I feel like it's okay.
But there's the rule of "never date a friends ex" so I'm scared.
Especially 'cause when she gets in a bad mood she'll laugh and joke about getting back with him (even though she hated dating him, she was too mellow for his craziness).

Should I pursue anything?
I don't want to make her feel bad, but I really do like him.
 

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ALittleUnknown   best friends ex   Mar 9 2008, 02:09 PM
superficial   No! You never go out with your best friend...   Mar 9 2008, 02:16 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(superficial @ Mar 9 2008, 03:16 PM)...   Mar 9 2008, 04:55 PM
Synesthesia   Don't. It's not worth it, especially since...   Mar 9 2008, 03:00 PM
tungmyBANANA   yes you should. he has a dick right? if you want s...   Mar 9 2008, 03:03 PM
babecakes   the recycle program huh, yuck.   Mar 9 2008, 03:56 PM
agiri   depends how much you like him. if its interest, i...   Mar 9 2008, 04:49 PM
Steven   friends w/ benefits. suck his cock.   Mar 9 2008, 05:23 PM
carolannexbh   QUOTE(Steven @ Mar 9 2008, 05:23 PM) frie...   Mar 9 2008, 07:16 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(carolannexbh @ Mar 9 2008, 06:16 PM...   Mar 9 2008, 07:18 PM
BrandonSaunders   Depends. How serious was their relationship?   Mar 9 2008, 07:15 PM
Flaunted   I think it really depends on what type of person y...   Mar 9 2008, 07:57 PM
melodyus   it's a rule for gurls. never. it always seems ...   Mar 9 2008, 08:05 PM
heartquasm   If she only dated him for a month a year ago, then...   Mar 9 2008, 08:18 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Mar 9 2008, 07:18 PM) ...   Mar 9 2008, 09:18 PM
heartquasm   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Mar 9 2008, 10:18...   Mar 13 2008, 07:00 PM
rejakalu   QUOTE(heartquasm @ Mar 13 2008, 06:00 PM)...   Mar 23 2008, 06:45 PM
melodyus   i dated a guy for a month & then one of my fri...   Mar 9 2008, 08:25 PM
th5418   Go for it. While you're at it, go out with you...   Mar 10 2008, 02:32 AM
Tamacracker   i see a thread being made by the thread author in ...   Mar 13 2008, 07:02 PM
S-Majere   Yikes, I really would leave this one alone.   Mar 14 2008, 06:32 AM
misoshiru   everyone always says it's "fine". i...   Mar 14 2008, 10:37 AM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(ALittleUnknown @ Mar 9 2008, 03:09 ...   Mar 19 2008, 07:41 AM
fosheezy   ahh, don't pursue anything. it may have been a...   Mar 20 2008, 06:29 AM
chrislagace   don't date the ex (even though you're prob...   Mar 20 2008, 10:51 AM
guessewho   disaster waiting to happen   Mar 20 2008, 03:14 PM
RissyMel   She says she wont care. go for it, I did. ha If it...   Mar 21 2008, 09:22 PM
tungmyBANANA   QUOTE(RissyMel @ Mar 21 2008, 07:22 PM) S...   Mar 21 2008, 09:25 PM
RissyMel   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Mar 21 2008, 10:25 P...   Mar 21 2008, 09:52 PM
yrrnotelekktric   I wouldn`t. I would just find it too awkward.   Mar 23 2008, 05:22 PM
Heathasm   i went out with my friend's ex and now we are ...   Mar 23 2008, 05:25 PM


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